Aries Man..

This topic was created in the Aries forum by cloudycat on Tuesday, March 24, 2020 and has 19 replies.
Do Aries men pursue or like to be pursued? I'm asking from more of an online flirtatious perspective. I have a situation and I can give more context if this isn't enough! I just kinda wanted to know the answer generally speaking too haha
aries men like memes, so send him memes
Posted by bmoon8

They like to pursue.
So if he's the one who slides in my dms and stops replying out of nowhere, he's just not interested or? I should add that we used to know each other (school) and share the same sense of humor. Thanks for replying!
Posted by colliereborn

aries men like memes, so send him memes
this is so true lol
Posted by LittleStar

Neither they want themselves and the person to fall in love together at first sight.
NEITHER LMAO so what you're saying (i think) is that it has to just be instant and undeniable? makes sense I guess since I've heard that they're pretty romantic
Posted by G6
Posted by cloudycat I'm asking from more of an online flirtatious perspective.


If it's only for this, then write him whatever comes to your mind. They like the attention and you'll be rewarded for that ( :
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Thanks! I do this when he slides in my dms (I've even slid in his haha) but he will just end it and stop replying... It puts me out of my comfort zone to be the one pursuing which I'm working on (Leo Venus 🙄)
Posted by G6
Posted by cloudycat
Posted by G6
Posted by cloudycat I'm asking from more of an online flirtatious perspective.


If it's only for this, then write him whatever comes to your mind. They like the attention and you'll be rewarded for that ( :


Thanks! I do this when he slides in my dms (I've even slid in his haha) but he will just end it and stop replying... It puts me out of my comfort zone to be the one pursuing which I'm working on (Leo Venus 🙄)


It is supposed to be fun, don't take this too seriously.
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Yea I'm just interested and I just wanna know how to go about it. That's all
From my experience, They chase... hard
Posted by cloudycat
Posted by bmoon8

They like to pursue.


So if he's the one who slides in my dms and stops replying out of nowhere, he's just not interested or? I should add that we used to know each other (school) and share the same sense of humor. Thanks for replying!
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Maybe your dms felt like many many many people have been in them before 🙃😆

Maybe he didn’t wanna go where many people had gone before 🙊
You are talking about online? What like online dating? plz explain... if so we all know that girls get hammered by thousands of messages a day. So you need to make the effort. Whilst I agree with other here that Aries like to peruse, you specifically said online. So the rules are different. If you go quiet then he will assume you’re on someone else now.

Voice messages are better if you can make a move to that.
Aries men like to pursue in general. If the woman is mysterious they will chase her and try to conquer her heart. Of course, aries man will win at the end LOL
Aries men like to pursue in general. If the woman is mysterious they will chase her and try to conquer her heart. Of course, aries man will win at the end LOL
Posted by moonlightgirl

Aries men like to pursue in general. If the woman is mysterious they will chase her and try to conquer her heart. Of course, aries man will win at the end LOL
This, I experienced with four Aries men but they don’t always win 🙃
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by moonlightgirl

Aries men like to pursue in general. If the woman is mysterious they will chase her and try to conquer her heart. Of course, aries man will win at the end LOL


This, I experienced with four Aries men but they don’t always win 🙃
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Maybe I have a soft spot for Aries Big Grin

For some reason I always attract them too.

I am assuming you are the same way
Generally they pursue, except when they have Venus conjunct their Sun.

That aspect increases attractiveness but also vanity and femininity (even in men).

Another interesting thing to note is that if they have this conjunction that means Venus is in Aries. Meaning that they could be attracted to women who are independent, go-getters, or women who 'chase' him.

Can you post his natal chart?
Posted by AriesJo

You are talking about online? What like online dating? plz explain... if so we all know that girls get hammered by thousands of messages a day. So you need to make the effort. Whilst I agree with other here that Aries like to peruse, you specifically said online. So the rules are different. If you go quiet then he will assume you’re on someone else now.

Voice messages are better if you can make a move to that.
Yes! We exchanged flirtatious messages over social media and FINALLY moved it to texting a few weeks ago. Even getting his number was pulling teeth. He asked me why I hadn't asked HIM for his number haha. Our conversations are great over text, flirty, he asks questions, but he does take hoursss to reply, consistently longer than anyone I've ever texted, and leaves me on read a lot. Judging these kind of signals over text is always confusing. He recently just gave me the good ol "I suck at texting I'm sorry" excuse which I'm not a big fan of. I feel like I'm giving him enough to not have those doubts like you mentioned but who knows.
Posted by Dastard2020

Generally they pursue, except when they have Venus conjunct their Sun.

That aspect increases attractiveness but also vanity and femininity (even in men).

Another interesting thing to note is that if they have this conjunction that means Venus is in Aries. Meaning that they could be attracted to women who are independent, go-getters, or women who 'chase' him.

Can you post his natal chart?
Thanks for responding! Omg so crazy cause he DOES have an Aries Venus 🧐 the rest is Cancer Moon, Virgo Mars, Taurus Mercury
Posted by G6
Posted by cloudycat

but he does take hoursss to reply, consistently longer than anyone I've ever texted, and leaves me on read a lot. Judging these kind of signals over text is always confusing. He recently just gave me the good ol "I suck at texting I'm sorry" excuse which I'm not a big fan of. I feel like I'm giving him enough to not have those doubts like you mentioned but who knows.


Sorry, but at this moment he's not romantically interested in you. He's just being nice.

I dated a few Aries guys and all of them made a huge scandal when I didn't answer immediately to their text.

Aries are pure speed, especially if they have an Aries venus.
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Spot on hehe 🤙

*10 minutes go by...no reply on...*

Da fuck ?!

"So..."...."And where did you went now ?!..."......"You there ?..."..."STOP IGNORING ME!!"

😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤

haha that's basicly how it goes (and i said 10 minutes to despair, but it's probably just 2 minutes...huumm...barely 1 minute if we are actually in a convo..." xD

And you all say the same..."Stop anoying me, bla bla bla bla bla, don't you have anything better to do"...Oh but you like it...you women just love of all that attention...I know what you want to hear....hihi

At least that's how i see\fell it. Because believe it or not, at these moments, if i am behaving like that, that means I really want your undivided attention (just like a baby). The way that i *reward* your attention, is by making you happy. At least that's how i feel in that moment. That's what I want you to also feel ^^

But I mean, even my best freind say's to me that he wouldn't dare say the things i say to women lol (He is a Gemini, and if you knew him..lol let's just say lol)

When he told me this for the first time, i was actually surprised. True ^^ I actually thought that this could be perceived as a bad thing, and thing is in my mind, that made absolute no sense at all. Despite what i say, I always treat the women that i am with, with total fairness. Always.

I keep it private if that's what she wants, I respect her boundaries, her work, her family\BFF moments, her moments. The things that they do to me and send me...And ofc, her feelings for me. I really don't like to mess with feelings. I think that's the lowest of the low.

And I say all of this upfront, that that's how it's gonna roll. I see things for what they are. For me, the things that they do for me, i see them as gifts...(....I also say that to them...the gifts thing lol....I know...But at the right moment it does gives me a lot of points...I know....lol ^^)

That kinda makes me sound like a fishy guy, right ? Maybe bad type or bad thing ? ^^

But that's the thing. Everything that i say, i will deliver. It's honesty matched by my actions, a fucking man's deal. What we are supposed to be as man. For the good and the bad.

And I think that's what's fucked up about Aries man. It's that moment when they start to realize that...he is\was actually a good guy.

Anyway, i think i went to far here in this convo....humm..Deviated a little bit, maybe ?!...haha But yeah, it's like you said, if the conversation is already going on, it's very straight to the point, you will know for sure hihi

Im an Aries Sun and Venus, the almighty feminine combo of the zodiac.....lolLaughing
A fire sign moving slow? Doesn’t seem normal.

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