Aries Man

I can usually read people pretty well, but I'm extremely confused by this Aries guy. Preface to say, we met on a mobile app and had texted for about a month before meeting. I asked him a few times what we was truly looking for and each time he said a relationship if it got that far. (I'm in no place for one so I made that clear from the get go).

I had blown him off a couple of days before because I was busy with work. When we did meet up, I initiated the first meet up and we met at a bar.

The conversation was good. He seemed a little more nervous and shy than I was, so I asked most of the questions. Had a few awkward silences but I find that's normal when it comes to the first get together. As he was dropping me off at my place, I asked him if he wanted to come in. We're both drunk so one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. He said he'd be in touch and would text me. And left his shirt in the middle of my floor (I didn't notice until a few days later). A week later, and I was still waiting on the text. So I sent a cordial "hey" to him but I still haven't heard anything back.

He's ran out of minutes before on his phone, but he's had other means to contact me if he wanted to. I've seen him on the mobile app a few times (and a day after we had our meetup he changed his status to "Dating" and its remained that way since). I feel this could be the proverbial Aries "disappearing act" but I'm just not sure. I tend to be pretty straight forward and confident, so at the end of the day I'm not going to beg for attention. But I would like to reconnect with him because I felt almost instant chemistry.

Any thoughts?

I meant "relationship if it go that far" meaning he was more concerned with a relationship. Relationship was his ultimate goal.

Sun is Cancer. Moon Leo. Asc Aries. Venus in Gemini.

Posted by jas1289
I feel this could be the proverbial Aries "disappearing act" but I'm just not sure

It is I'm afraid. You put out, so you'll only hear from him again if he just wants easy access to sex. He said he was looking for a relationship, you said you were not.

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by jas1289
I feel this could be the proverbial Aries "disappearing act" but I'm just not sure

It is I'm afraid. You put out, so you'll only hear from him again if he just wants easy access to sex. He said he was looking for a relationship, you said you were not.

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Thank you. That's what I thought, but I found it weird he left his shirt and changed his status.

I read this a "Asian men".. I've been reading too many race related articles.

*as not a*

Yeah, sounds like a hit in run to me :/.... sorry but Aries are as subtle as a sledgehammer. If we like you, you would know.

Btw, based on this board alone ALL men do the disappearing act. Not sign specific.