Aries man acting NUTS

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ive been with my aries sun/gemini moon man for almost two years. i'm sick of this long distance relationship and I've told him things need to change. However, he won't let me leave. He just purchased a new car and seems to be a play boy in it, simple as that; i don't trust him. instead of a new car, he could've relocated here in cali (where i live) and be with me. Now, he's going on vacation to atlanta next weekend with his best friend. i have bad instincts that he's up to no good, im so nervous. he invited me, but i am unable to come because of work. this was planned only three weeks ahead of time, i think he's gonna cheat if he hasn't already? are aries men players? please help
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if there is no trust it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. LDR's are not for everyone.

I don't claim to be a relationship expert, but I do have a few years experience as an Aries to draw upon...

Off to Atlanta for a weekend in his new car with his buddy - hmmmm sounds like an unleaded boys weekend where they are more likely to get arrested for doing donuts on the freeway or end up drinking too much and sleeping/spewing in the car than chasing skirt. Are your instincts ususally spot on? I know can cut loose and shake it up with the best of them and still not cheat.

Obviously I don't know you or your aries, but not all guys cheat (not all girls cheat either)and just coz you are in an LDR doesn't mean anyone is going to cheat. Are you a Scorpio?

an Aries is either into you or you don't exist and you are the best judge of that.

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aries sun/gem moon..why barf? lol

i'm a taurus sun/ aquarius moon. yeah, im starting to read his hidden message behind all his actions. even though he texts me with i love you, i miss you, etc.. i have to wise up and stop thinking this is A REAL relationship. I miss the feeling where a guy will invite me to every vacation he goes to and call me 2-3 times to even just say hello. I need a lot of attention that he can't provide, he rather go out with his friends and drink, goof around..

His decisions are disgusting. He also went to Vegas a couple months ago where again, i wasn't invited and to florida shortly afterwards. I've invested so much time into him, it's hard to separate... I've told him time again, if you don't recognize me as a priority then I don't want to be with you. He either threatens me or ignores what I have to say. Should I change my phone number? Maybe he'll just harass my family afterwards, i'm an emotional wreck.