Posted by JayTheFantasticLol not true at all.
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesReally?Posted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.click to expand
Posted by MonaLisa26Lol you mean DragonSag's thread.Posted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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Click on her name and read her yesterday comment in my thread. It is VERY detailed.
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Posted by pooface222It is great until the Aries falls apart is my experience. Aries is stubborn and sometimes refuses to deal with things, their own things and that can affect you. I think that you might have experienced that yourself with Cap/Aries two cardinals. Aries/Sag works better since its Cardinal/Mutable & both fire signs who would understand each other better. Conflict resolution is an issue though in my experience.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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What's your opinion on this rship?click to expand
Posted by pooface222Itāll be good as far as chemistry but sag is definitely not gonna be looking for a serious relationship. Sags have serious commitment issues and prefer to be the bachelor / bachelorette I noticed sags are very compatible with Leoās and geminis but it could work for an aries woman but an aries guy is in over his head if he think heās gonna sweep the sag woman off her feet. These 2 very rarely get together maybe the first decans will work out because of the cusp energy but second and third Decans should stay away from each other.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Posted by AriesJoThis is absolutely true! Although chemistry never went away. Best friend vibe is good for a partnership. One huge issue that took it all down though. Sometimes we can be too supportiveā¦
This match-up is completely lovely. Sag seems to be automatically attracted to Aries and are very supportive. The whole thing is natural and it's almost like the Sag knows what the Aries is thinking before they even say it.
Only down side is that maybe it can come across and being a bit too much like best friends. But I would just book that adventure holiday early on
Posted by alexscariesNope!! We still have chemistry to this day. Ten years after divorce. His current wife is jealous š¤£š¤£. There is a lot of detail in another thread I wrote the other day. I had to save myself is the problem. He chose enabling & alcohol over wife & kids. The state heās in says it all right nowā¦ it doesnāt mean all Aries. But his Demons took him down even with all the Saggie support.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by AriesJo
This match-up is completely lovely. Sag seems to be automatically attracted to Aries and are very supportive. The whole thing is natural and it's almost like the Sag knows what the Aries is thinking before they even say it.
Only down side is that maybe it can come across and being a bit too much like best friends. But I would just book that adventure holiday early on
This is absolutely true! Although chemistry never went away. Best friend vibe is good for a partnership. One huge issue that took it all down though. Sometimes we can be too supportiveā¦
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Was the issue the sexual chemistry died because you saw him more as a father figure/big brother/social worker - delete as appropriate?click to expand
Posted by alexscariesWell Iād say friend but not best friends works. Friends helps with a partnership, best friends gets too codependent. On the alcohol, I think the thing is he used it to escape problems. But you canāt learn things & do better if you refuse to face the problem. He even was sober for 14 years but was struggling due to still not dealing with the real issue. It just got a lot worse when we moved & he was being enabled by mommy & daddy. And it destroyed the marriage.. not the connection but partnership & he chose to stay in the hole instead of grab my hand and climb out as I was figuring out how to. I honestly thought working on me would help the marriage, but it was quite the opposite. Because only one person was trying.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by alexscariesPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by AriesJo
This match-up is completely lovely. Sag seems to be automatically attracted to Aries and are very supportive. The whole thing is natural and it's almost like the Sag knows what the Aries is thinking before they even say it.
Only down side is that maybe it can come across and being a bit too much like best friends. But I would just book that adventure holiday early on
This is absolutely true! Although chemistry never went away. Best friend vibe is good for a partnership. One huge issue that took it all down though. Sometimes we can be too supportiveā¦
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Was the issue the sexual chemistry died because you saw him more as a father figure/big brother/social worker - delete as appropriate?
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Nope!! We still have chemistry to this day. Ten years after divorce. His current wife is jealous š¤£š¤£. There is a lot of detail in another thread I wrote the other day. I had to save myself is the problem. He chose enabling & alcohol over wife & kids. The state heās in says it all right nowā¦ it doesnāt mean all Aries. But his Demons took him down even with all the Saggie support.
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Is it a problem if you are too much like best friends if you are in a relationship?
Also I gave up alcohol because I have no self control so I get that.click to expand
Posted by MonaLisa26Click on Who's name ???Posted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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Click on her name and read her yesterday comment in my thread. It is VERY detailed.
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Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesHi yaPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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It is great until the Aries falls apart is my experience. Aries is stubborn and sometimes refuses to deal with things, their own things and that can affect you. I think that you might have experienced that yourself with Cap/Aries two cardinals. Aries/Sag works better since its Cardinal/Mutable & both fire signs who would understand each other better. Conflict resolution is an issue though in my experience.click to expand
Posted by pooface222Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!click to expand
Posted by pooface222For my relationship, Sag/Aries is what I meant.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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It is great until the Aries falls apart is my experience. Aries is stubborn and sometimes refuses to deal with things, their own things and that can affect you. I think that you might have experienced that yourself with Cap/Aries two cardinals. Aries/Sag works better since its Cardinal/Mutable & both fire signs who would understand each other better. Conflict resolution is an issue though in my experience.
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Hi ya
Thanks for your reply.
You're right, my Aries did refuse to deal with things. He would shut down and be passive-aggressive towards me.
However I could always calm him down by gently talking to him about what I think is going on with him.
Then he would eventually be ok.
I guess that was my Pisces Venus at work x
You said..
"Its great until Aries falls apart..." did you mean this in an Aries/Sag rship? Or an Aries/Cap rship?
Also is Conflict Resolution an issue for Aries/Sag? Or Aries/Cap?click to expand
Posted by UndineNo it was the other way round.Posted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?click to expand
Posted by pooface222What does it mean he "wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again"? You were his wife and living with him!Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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No it was the other way round.
I didn't want the Aries (husband). But he wanted me. I was seeing someone else. It didn't work out though.
Everytime I tried to talk to the Aries about my feelings and where I'm at emotionally he'd shout at me because all he wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again. No discussion. Nothing. No talking. No sorting. No working anything out.
So after being shouted at, I shut down and stopped talking yo him.
So..
He divorced me.
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Posted by PuzzlePiecesAh I see xPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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It is great until the Aries falls apart is my experience. Aries is stubborn and sometimes refuses to deal with things, their own things and that can affect you. I think that you might have experienced that yourself with Cap/Aries two cardinals. Aries/Sag works better since its Cardinal/Mutable & both fire signs who would understand each other better. Conflict resolution is an issue though in my experience.
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Hi ya
Thanks for your reply.
You're right, my Aries did refuse to deal with things. He would shut down and be passive-aggressive towards me.
However I could always calm him down by gently talking to him about what I think is going on with him.
Then he would eventually be ok.
I guess that was my Pisces Venus at work x
You said..
"Its great until Aries falls apart..." did you mean this in an Aries/Sag rship? Or an Aries/Cap rship?
Also is Conflict Resolution an issue for Aries/Sag? Or Aries/Cap?
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For my relationship, Sag/Aries is what I meant.click to expand
Posted by pooface222Heās an alcoholic & refused to get help. Well itās more complicated than that. Falling apart meant almost dying, quitting drinking, but not the issues that led him there. I tried for years, but you canāt make someone decide to get healthy. Sometimes you have to choose yourself & kids. After divorce heās done it again because he refused to deal and started drinking again. Now waiting for a transplantā¦Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by JayTheFantastic
I honestly donāt see this pairing a lot but I heard itās good although sag women are known to play mind games with their men. Aries guy should not get too attached.
Lol not true at all.
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Really?
What's your opinion on this rship?
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It is great until the Aries falls apart is my experience. Aries is stubborn and sometimes refuses to deal with things, their own things and that can affect you. I think that you might have experienced that yourself with Cap/Aries two cardinals. Aries/Sag works better since its Cardinal/Mutable & both fire signs who would understand each other better. Conflict resolution is an issue though in my experience.
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Hi ya
Thanks for your reply.
You're right, my Aries did refuse to deal with things. He would shut down and be passive-aggressive towards me.
However I could always calm him down by gently talking to him about what I think is going on with him.
Then he would eventually be ok.
I guess that was my Pisces Venus at work x
You said..
"Its great until Aries falls apart..." did you mean this in an Aries/Sag rship? Or an Aries/Cap rship?
Also is Conflict Resolution an issue for Aries/Sag? Or Aries/Cap?
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For my relationship, Sag/Aries is what I meant.
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Ah I see x
So an Aries/Sag rship is great until Aries falls apart. What do you mean by that?
And what kind of conflict was there? And why wasn't it being resolved?
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Posted by UndineI meant Emotionally. We were on separate rooms and not talking to each other. So a kind of separation but under the same roof.Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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No it was the other way round.
I didn't want the Aries (husband). But he wanted me. I was seeing someone else. It didn't work out though.
Everytime I tried to talk to the Aries about my feelings and where I'm at emotionally he'd shout at me because all he wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again. No discussion. Nothing. No talking. No sorting. No working anything out.
So after being shouted at, I shut down and stopped talking yo him.
So..
He divorced me.
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What does it mean he "wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again"? You were his wife and living with him!click to expand
Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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No it was the other way round.
I didn't want the Aries (husband). But he wanted me. I was seeing someone else. It didn't work out though.
Everytime I tried to talk to the Aries about my feelings and where I'm at emotionally he'd shout at me because all he wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again. No discussion. Nothing. No talking. No sorting. No working anything out.
So after being shouted at, I shut down and stopped talking yo him.
So..
He divorced me.
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What does it mean he "wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again"? You were his wife and living with him!
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I meant Emotionally. We were on separate rooms and not talking to each other. So a kind of separation but under the same roof.
He wanted me to talk to him and come back to him by telling him I love him and be a couple again.
Break down the emotional walls and go back to being a proper normal couple. Talking. Laughing. Being together. Affection. Love-making. All the normal rship stuff.click to expand
Posted by UndineI really wish there was a 'Love' button on here, instead of just 'Like.'Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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No it was the other way round.
I didn't want the Aries (husband). But he wanted me. I was seeing someone else. It didn't work out though.
Everytime I tried to talk to the Aries about my feelings and where I'm at emotionally he'd shout at me because all he wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again. No discussion. Nothing. No talking. No sorting. No working anything out.
So after being shouted at, I shut down and stopped talking yo him.
So..
He divorced me.
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What does it mean he "wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again"? You were his wife and living with him!
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I meant Emotionally. We were on separate rooms and not talking to each other. So a kind of separation but under the same roof.
He wanted me to talk to him and come back to him by telling him I love him and be a couple again.
Break down the emotional walls and go back to being a proper normal couple. Talking. Laughing. Being together. Affection. Love-making. All the normal rship stuff.
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I like your sincerity, intensity and vulnerability. Shame that your Aries didn't have the patience, sensibility and understanding required to deal with a pregnant woman, or one who just gave birth to his child! Or a woman who was just struggling with some issues! Instead, he started to abuse her, even before she had the "audacity" to look for love and compassion in another man.
You are consumed by guilt now, and seem to believe that if you would have forced yourself to dance to his tune (with or without help) or ignored his abuse, everything would have turned out just fine. In reality, there is a blurred line here, between cause and effect, and a very real possibility that the Aries decided your relationship has run its course, even before he started abusing you. Or that a reconciliation would have been impossible.
Do you honestly believe that if his 5-year relationship with the Sag comes to an end, he will be willing to re-marry you....?click to expand
Posted by pooface222I think you are right!
To answer your question of..
"Do you honestly believe that if his 5-year relationship with the Sag comes to an end, he will be willing to re-marry you....?"
I don't think he will. No. He is far too Prideful, Driven by ego, and Competitive to Ever admit that he destroyed my love, god forbid Misses me, and wants to try again.
He is a Very Extreme Aries Man sadly!
Instead he will keep it to himself that he still loves me - if he still does. And will continue to hurt me despite having a partner for the last 5yrs.
Posted by pooface222No need to apologise, it's good to talk about it...Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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No it was the other way round.
I didn't want the Aries (husband). But he wanted me. I was seeing someone else. It didn't work out though.
Everytime I tried to talk to the Aries about my feelings and where I'm at emotionally he'd shout at me because all he wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again. No discussion. Nothing. No talking. No sorting. No working anything out.
So after being shouted at, I shut down and stopped talking yo him.
So..
He divorced me.
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What does it mean he "wanted was for me to come back yo him and be his wife again"? You were his wife and living with him!
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I meant Emotionally. We were on separate rooms and not talking to each other. So a kind of separation but under the same roof.
He wanted me to talk to him and come back to him by telling him I love him and be a couple again.
Break down the emotional walls and go back to being a proper normal couple. Talking. Laughing. Being together. Affection. Love-making. All the normal rship stuff.
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I like your sincerity, intensity and vulnerability. Shame that your Aries didn't have the patience, sensibility and understanding required to deal with a pregnant woman, or one who just gave birth to his child! Or a woman who was just struggling with some issues! Instead, he started to abuse her, even before she had the "audacity" to look for love and compassion in another man.
You are consumed by guilt now, and seem to believe that if you would have forced yourself to dance to his tune (with or without help) or ignored his abuse, everything would have turned out just fine. In reality, there is a blurred line here, between cause and effect, and a very real possibility that the Aries decided your relationship has run its course, even before he started abusing you. Or that a reconciliation would have been impossible.
Do you honestly believe that if his 5-year relationship with the Sag comes to an end, he will be willing to re-marry you....?
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I really wish there was a 'Love' button on here, instead of just 'Like.'
I love how you literally understand exactly how I feel and felt at the time and now too.
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Everything I say here is how I feel (sincere), I have a lot of both Love & Pain inside me (intensity) and I'm desperately wanting to be able to lose the pain and DEEP Guilt but its eating me alive! (Vulnerable).
Therefore its liberating for me to able to come on here and write about my feelings and get lots of different viewpoints back.
I also like to read about others problems and try to help there too.
But you are so right about my Aries ex-husband. He didn't understand a pregnant woman. He could have just gone to the internet to read up on post-natal depression and find out how to support me emotionally. Instead he Screamed at me, Bullied me and Threatened me to make me do what He wanted in our life together, then ONLY cared about me when I left him!
Then he accused me of cheating on him! Ok being married and seeing someone else IS cheating!!
But..I had reached a point where I'd had enough and therefore all that was left of our marriage was a piece of paper.
I was alone and lonely as his wife all because of his extreme selfishness and extreme -abusive - control!
The Pisces guy was in contrast warm, sensitive, loving, understanding, an amazing listener, learned to understand me, shared himself with me- emotionally and deeply - and therefore our connection was breathtaking!
So this is why I allowed myself to open my Closed Cold heart to him that had become closed cold and hard yo my husband.
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Posted by black773Lol..you mean in a rship between Aries man & Sag woman?
Neither will be challenged in the right way by the other. Both will enable one another to be emotionally stunted and socially inept.
Posted by Librasetting777Just read this. Sounds cute.
My grandfather and grandmother signs,it definitely works. He died before I got to meet him but my sagittarius grandmother never did remarried she always wore her engagement and wedding ring till she died. My Taurus mother inherited the rings and she gave them to me. Btw their actual made of platinum and diamonds.
Posted by UndineNot necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.Posted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?click to expand
Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
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Posted by SagSeason2000I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And not did he..
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No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?click to expand
Posted by pooface222That sounds terrifying and traumatic š¢Posted by SagSeason2000Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And not did he..
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No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?
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I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Nevertheless you misunderstood.
I WANTED to leave! HE THREATENED me that he will destroy my life if I leave him!
I COULD NOT HAVE "just left'
(Excuse,Capital letters. I'm not shouting. Just making it obvious).
I mean seriously how is That going to make me love him again?? How are Threats a way of making your wife/husband/partner come back to you??
Threats are what started to kill my love for him in the first place. His Control became Threats!
So..
I became even more scared of him. So I stayed to stop him destroying my life. His Threats terrified me.
He then acted as if his threats had never happened. As if his control never happened, and then behaved as if everything was normal again between us.
So he either acted normall or SCREAMED at me to Control me round the house!
I then told the other guy to Go because despite him telling me he wants to leave his partner for me, he wasn't leaving her.
So I left him.click to expand
Posted by pooface222Posted by SagSeason2000Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And not did he..
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No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?
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I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Nevertheless you misunderstood.
I WANTED to leave! HE THREATENED me that he will destroy my life if I leave him!
I COULD NOT HAVE "just left'
(Excuse,Capital letters. I'm not shouting. Just making it obvious).
I mean seriously how is That going to make me love him again?? How are Threats a way of making your wife/husband/partner come back to you??
Threats are what started to kill my love for him in the first place. His Control became Threats!
So..
I became even more scared of him. So I stayed to stop him destroying my life. His Threats terrified me.
He then acted as if his threats had never happened. As if his control never happened, and then behaved as if everything was normal again between us.
So he either acted normall or SCREAMED at me to Control me round the house!
I then told the other guy to Go because despite him telling me he wants to leave his partner for me, he wasn't leaving her.
So I left him.click to expand
Posted by SagSeason2000You're right. The whole situation between me and Aries was Exactly that - Confusing!Posted by pooface222Posted by SagSeason2000Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And nor did he..
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No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?
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I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Nevertheless you misunderstood.
I WANTED to leave! HE THREATENED me that he will destroy my life if I leave him!
I COULD NOT HAVE "just left'
(Excuse,Capital letters. I'm not shouting. Just making it obvious).
I mean seriously how is That going to make me love him again?? How are Threats a way of making your wife/husband/partner come back to you??
Threats are what started to kill my love for him in the first place. His Control became Threats!
So..
I became even more scared of him. So I stayed to stop him destroying my life. His Threats terrified me.
He then acted as if his threats had never happened. As if his control never happened, and then behaved as if everything was normal again between us.
So he either acted normall or SCREAMED at me to Control me round the house!
I then told the other guy to Go because despite him telling me he wants to leave his partner for me, he wasn't leaving her.
So I left him.
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You said you would have stayed though? You confusing because you said before he refused to say he loves you etc thatās why you let the divorce happen.
And if you can leave the house to have an affair, you can leave and donāt come back? You wasnāt held hostage as you were sleeping with someone else.. ? Meaning you got to leave.
Also if it was this bad why would you want to stay or still worried about him? Youāre free now?click to expand
Posted by StubbornSagš„ overload maybe?Posted by MyStarsShine
Sag woman ~ Aries man
They seem very compatible ~ both playful, sexy and fun together š
It's a difficult combo, Idk why astrology hypes it as something great. Yesterday saw my ex Aries and made me think about this topic lol he was impossible to take for me. Extremely straightforward to the point of making it embarrassing, not very bright, makes fool of him self constantly when public speaking and is a mockery among many people (he's a politician now, used to be a soccer player and a model), he's a cheater and a liar too. In general, I never got along with Aries people, they are tough bunch imo. I have several Aries cousins and only 1 I got along with very well. Had a good friend too for a while and she was way too reckless, arrogant, stubborn and unreliable imo. In general, I prefer mutable signs or water signs as my close people in every aspect. I know two Aries-Sag couples and can't say they are the greatest loving couples. More likely would be to say that Sag is tolerating Aries lolclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineHi yaPosted by pooface222Posted by SagSeason2000Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
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Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
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Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And not did he..
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No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?
click to expand
I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Nevertheless you misunderstood.
I WANTED to leave! HE THREATENED me that he will destroy my life if I leave him!
I COULD NOT HAVE "just left'
(Excuse,Capital letters. I'm not shouting. Just making it obvious).
I mean seriously how is That going to make me love him again?? How are Threats a way of making your wife/husband/partner come back to you??
Threats are what started to kill my love for him in the first place. His Control became Threats!
So..
I became even more scared of him. So I stayed to stop him destroying my life. His Threats terrified me.
He then acted as if his threats had never happened. As if his control never happened, and then behaved as if everything was normal again between us.
So he either acted normall or SCREAMED at me to Control me round the house!
I then told the other guy to Go because despite him telling me he wants to leave his partner for me, he wasn't leaving her.
So I left him.
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That sounds terrifying and traumatic š¢
Are you single now?click to expand
Posted by pooface222(((ā¤ļø)))Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pooface222Posted by SagSeason2000Posted by pooface222Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by Undine
By far not as awful as your own (Cap) relationship would have been for the last decade, should you have stayed with the Aries.
Just seen your post. Are you asking that question to me?
If so then Yes. I should have stayed with my Aries! Because now things are far far worse!
click to expand
Wasn't the Aries who didn't want to stay with you any longer?
click to expand
Not necessarily. He wanted to stay. I even have a very unhappy message from him from years ago when we were still married - but not talking to each other - where he could see that I was never coming back to him.
I couldn't bare his control, manipulation, lies and screaming at me in demand to make me obey him every time!
His message was about not knowing what to do or where to go. It was him letting go because he realised I wasn't coming back to him. I think he felt helpless and that the only thing he could do was divorce me.
He never actually came to me and said I Miss you. I Love you. He just sat and sulked and felt sad I had left him.
He basically wanted me to come back to him by him doing the bare minimum to make it happen.
He didn't want divorce. But he did it because he didn't know what else to do. He didn't know how to bring me back to him.
He'd screamed at me so much, insulted, manipulated, lied to me so much and including silent treatment that I was done!
Deep down I wanted to stay. On the surface i wanted to leave.
Anyway..I've said enough about me and Aries.
I'm left feeling sad and regretful because deep down I didn't want to leave.
And not did he..
click to expand
No offense, but you seem like the manipulator here? You cheated, but didnāt leave.. so if course heās thinking you were working things out. But because he didnāt say the exact words you wanted and how you wanted, you let him divorce? I see this happen a lot when women are dealing with two dudes..
Use the first person behavior as an excuse to continue to be with the second person.. and the first person is angry , but who wouldnāt be? You sleeping with someone else but laying in a house with me. You couldāve just left? And I wouldnāt tell you I love you either if you are sleeping with someone else. Thatās wanting your ego to be fed.
You keep making it seem like the Aries did everything wrong , but blowing off your mistakes.
And with all due respect, if he was that much of a terrible person would he have allowed you to stay there while screwing someone else? Are you missing him or something?
click to expand
I knew I shouldn't have said anything more. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Nevertheless you misunderstood.
I WANTED to leave! HE THREATENED me that he will destroy my life if I leave him!
I COULD NOT HAVE "just left'
(Excuse,Capital letters. I'm not shouting. Just making it obvious).
I mean seriously how is That going to make me love him again?? How are Threats a way of making your wife/husband/partner come back to you??
Threats are what started to kill my love for him in the first place. His Control became Threats!
So..
I became even more scared of him. So I stayed to stop him destroying my life. His Threats terrified me.
He then acted as if his threats had never happened. As if his control never happened, and then behaved as if everything was normal again between us.
So he either acted normall or SCREAMED at me to Control me round the house!
I then told the other guy to Go because despite him telling me he wants to leave his partner for me, he wasn't leaving her.
So I left him.
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That sounds terrifying and traumatic š¢
Are you single now?
Hi ya
It was very terrifying and very traumatic sadly!
And I've ha to heal from it all. Alone, right through Lockdown. With no-one.
When U had my little one, it was lovely x we would play together, watch movies, and gave fun together.
But when she was with her father, I would get so depressed I would sleep all day and find it hard to function normally.
I've finally healed but its taken me 9 years!
And now I'm a,struggling single mum.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
Sag woman ~ Aries man
They seem very compatible ~ both playful, sexy and fun together š
Posted by MyStarsShineThey are too cute love them together
Sag woman ~ Aries man
They seem very compatible ~ both playful, sexy and fun together š
Posted by bkbella86Yes theyāre adorablePosted by MyStarsShine
Sag woman ~ Aries man
They seem very compatible ~ both playful, sexy and fun together š
They are too cute love them togetherclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88
The Aries women and men I know in real life were way too controlling and nosy in relationships.
I don't want to be tracked and restricted in a relationship.
They take up too much freedom and time, and if they do give you space, they need to know your whereabouts at all times.
Way too smothering for for my taste.
Posted by MyStarsShineMaybe the women are different lolPosted by saggurl88
The Aries women and men I know in real life were way too controlling and nosy in relationships.
I don't want to be tracked and restricted in a relationship.
They take up too much freedom and time, and if they do give you space, they need to know your whereabouts at all times.
Way too smothering for for my taste.
I don't want to be tracked and restricted in a relationship.
That sounds more like Scorpio
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Posted by saggurl88Thatās his Mars ~ (planet of action) ~ acting like a Scorpio šPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88
The Aries women and men I know in real life were way too controlling and nosy in relationships.
I don't want to be tracked and restricted in a relationship.
They take up too much freedom and time, and if they do give you space, they need to know your whereabouts at all times.
Way too smothering for for my taste.
I don't want to be tracked and restricted in a relationship.
That sounds more like Scorpio
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Maybe the women are different lol
I've never had issues with a Scorpio doing this. The Scorpios I have dated usually like some space as well.
I have had a Aries stalker though. He was a double Aries with a Scorpio Mars.click to expand