aries man and aries woman

I'm an aries female and i've been liking this guy who is also an aries...and i have heard that 2 aries people usually dont get along. We've been good friends for a while, and he knows I like him but he doesn't like me as much as i do back. We decided we would try things and see if it could possibly work out. But he always told me that he didn't have time to see me and that he had other people to see. He also told me he was a bad person and that i shouldn't like him. So things are pretty much over between us and we haven't been talking for a couple days. What can i do to get our friendship back? Can things actually work out between an aries man and aries woman? and how?

I'VE BEEN COMITTED TO MY ARIES FOR GOING ON SIX YRS. NOW..WE HAVE A 2YR.OLD DAUGHTER..BUT SOMETIMES I WISH I NEVER MET HIM..BECASUE IT IS A HARD RELATIONSHIP TO MAINTAIN..ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE IS CONSTANT COMPETITION BETWEEN US..FOR WHO IS RIGHT /WRONG...LOTS OF JEALOUSY ISSUES..BUT HE IS VERY CARING WHEN WE AREN'T IN A WAR ZONE..HE IS THE BEST FATHER IN THE WORLD..HE IS DEDICATED TO FAMILY AND FAMILY VALUES..HE JUST HAVE THOSE ARIES TRAITS THAT GETS ON MY NERVES..AND HIS..BECAUSE I AM AN ARIES TOO..SO YOU HAVE TO MENTALLY ALWAYS TRY TO BE COMPROMISING IN THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP AND VERY STRONG..AND REALLY PUT THE EFFORT TO MAKE IT WORK..OR ELSE YOU WILL FEEL DEFEATED AND GIVE UP..AND BE LEFT IN A LOT OF EMOTIONAL PAIN..REMEMBER ARIES MEN ARE CHARMERS..AND GO AFTER WHAT THEY WANT..SO IF HE IS NOT SHOWING THAT MUCH INTEREST THEN HE'S PROBABLY NOT TAKING YOU SERIOUSLY...JUST A THOUGHT