I went out with a guy for two years who was an Aries and I am a cancer, we used to always fight and clash off eachother but after we’d makeup like nothing happened, I was in love with him and he was my first serious boyfriend I had others but weren’t as serious, he broke up with me 2 months ago over the phone telling me we were only breaking up now and we’ll get back together in the future and when I told him I love you he said I love you more which is why I’m so confused.. and idk if that’s true or not? I’d like to hope it is but I also don’t know why I would even take him back..he’s now seeing a new girl which hurt like fu*k and idk if she’s going to hinder us getting back but I’m convinced she’s a rebound but when he told me about getting back that we would at Christmas 2017 which is just next month so idk to wait for him or not.. anyone know how to help me figure this out? He told me also “if you really love me let me go and if I come back it was meant to be if not then it really wasn’t” I haven’t contacted him since because there was no reason to he’s been going out with this girl just a week after we broke up until now. Idk if there’s a chance we’ll get back.
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Aug 16, 2011Comments: 3 · Posts: 7849 · Topics: 52
It’s not looking good honey. In any event don’t ever wait for a man. Imagine if you would have started moving on when he did. You may have a new beau too. Get on with your life girl. You can cherish those memories and make new ones with someone else. But don’t wait!
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Oct 11, 2017Comments: 17 · Posts: 1181 · Topics: 11
You been ditched basically. The way he did is nasty. Not all aries like this example just letting you know. What is more interesting question how did he get to this point without you notice.
I was thinking on texting him to meet up in a week or two to just talk and see where things go but I’m guessing that’s probably a bad idea and I should just let go of him? Do you ever think he will come back or is that him just saying that to make it less hard of a break up for me, he also said it could be Christmas or June after he finished school so idk? I feel like a fall back plan.
what I don’t understand is why did he ask for my house key a couple of days before breaking up and he’s never asked for his stuff back like his clothes and his favorite jumper he left behind, I just happened to bump into him today and that was the first time he knew he saw me with his new girl but I don’t think he ever looked at me. I know it’s for the best and I will move on, thank you guys it’s good help hearing other people’s opinions.