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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
I am currently getting to know an Aries man. He is going through a really stressful situation with work, but he has remained incredibly strong. So much so that I thought about saying something on my twitter account about how much his strength has inspired me. But I paused before doing so. Lol. On one hand I could see him eating it up, but on another hand, I was not sure if he would interpret that as me being too much up his butt. Lol.
Thoughts?
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Jul 21, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 1401 · Topics: 101
If i were him I'd be enjoying the fact you're all over him too... If i remember correctly he is much younger than you.. He's got a true milf all over him.. If he screws this up, hell I'd be pissed.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Hey! I am not old enough to be considered a MILF. LOL. Watch yourself!! Lol.Hmmm.... I want him to feel special and supported not like I am sprung. Lol. Gotta balance this!
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Twodrinkminimum - True. But some men might lose a little attraction for a woman if they feel they have her too soon, and I just wanted to make sure the gesture does not imply that.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
...I guess maybe I will go ahead and do it. Lol.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
But wait... I do not want to be "all over him". See... how men perceive things. I'd look at that as someone being sweet and supportive. A man says, "all over someone".
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Twodrinkminimum - Lol. No I am not at all. That's why i thought it might be a pleasant surprise for him. I mean... I am sweet towards him, BUT I definitely have my own life and I HIGHLY doubt he feels the least bit smothered or anything remotely close to that.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Nope but he has Gem moon. UGH! ;-/
I am a Scorpio, I over think what I am going to cook for dinner! Lol.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
I did it! He loved it. Lol. His friends getting a little jealous probably made him like it even more. Lol. **Curtseys**
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Apr 04, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 604 · Topics: 40
glad he enjoyed it! I wouldn't do it ALL the time though.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
JROI - Yes, of course not all the time. This was a one time small gesture. I think I might be too prideful for "all the time". Lol.
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Starlover and FirstDecan - Yea Aries men are a trip. I definitely see Aries traits in him. He's a little bossy from time to time and a bit competitive. But he has this boyish charm about himself and he's a little cuddle bug. Lol.
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Sep 19, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 1846 · Topics: 42
I think your intent is all that matters...if it's genuine, then yeah sure why not-I don't see a problem with it. Don't overthink it, go with your heart.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Before I even knew I was possessive or jealous my ex bff, which was my first bf took it right out of me.. too much man..too much..we were together for 6 years..
I look at mistakes. But I dont know what else cause I was way to serious and always communicate and honest.. He was a cuddler, and freak..and a cheater with lots of side people. But I have to trust.
We were friends at school. When I graduated I left first and then he moved in awhile after. Was friends for 3 years and 3 more years he was mine and living with me. We were both 19-25 years old when I broke up because he was cheating. I do think it's age and immaturity..
While in school yeah, lots of people around him..too much but I didn't think anything about it. Till rumors started and confronted him..and of course when I left I left before him.. awhile..
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I could no longer feel intimAte with him or forgive him. Cause god knows I tried, to change to be better with him. In the process wanted him to change..but nope.
So I finally left and went to my mom...My mom was a life saviour. Because it wasn't easy at all. Did I forgive and forget, yeah. But just wasn't forgiving ...loving him no longer cause he cheated when I was the good hearted person and loyal.
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So my first Arian male, Hm I learned really not to take crap from anyone after that.. it changed me alright..for better..and I always tried to lower standards but something always kept me ticking and high alert with people.
Which would probably be learning to trust, see consistency, see people actually like you and not just sex. That's when I learned to be a drill sergeant. And each experience kept adding questions I normally wouldn't ask. But now shit. 21 questions here I come.
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Yeah when it comes the right one. My mom told me so. So I might lighten up abit.
Al- Yeah. And how's your celibacy going?
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Temptation is a bitch.. lol good luck.