Posted by nousername
They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Posted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??click to expand
Posted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?click to expand
Posted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?
@macmiller. Very good advice, however I am not scared of Aries. When I’ve ‘fought’ with one of the Aries guys, he always apologied. And the other didn’t do anything bad. Well, maybe it’s my fault. I don’t like fighting. It’s energy waste. And when I was around an Arian friend I was so smitten and felt so protected that I just couldn’t fight with them. Both the Arian men opened up to me. I guess my problem is that I would like them to engage in a conversation more over a period of time (we are geographically separated). I’d like them to be friends more and just talk more even though we are geographically far away from each other. But I don’t want to force it upon them, I want it to be natural. And if we are going to fight in order to talk like friends more often then it kills the pleasure. I’m gemini btw.
Ahh. I thought Gemini's liked boring guys since it compliments y'alls own chaotic energy? Maybe you're differentclick to expand
Posted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?
@macmiller. Very good advice, however I am not scared of Aries. When I’ve ‘fought’ with one of the Aries guys, he always apologied. And the other didn’t do anything bad. Well, maybe it’s my fault. I don’t like fighting. It’s energy waste. And when I was around an Arian friend I was so smitten and felt so protected that I just couldn’t fight with them. Both the Arian men opened up to me. I guess my problem is that I would like them to engage in a conversation more over a period of time (we are geographically separated). I’d like them to be friends more and just talk more even though we are geographically far away from each other. But I don’t want to force it upon them, I want it to be natural. And if we are going to fight in order to talk like friends more often then it kills the pleasure. I’m gemini btw.
Ahh. I thought Gemini's liked boring guys since it compliments y'alls own chaotic energy? Maybe you're different
We can be chaotic. Let us be. Then we are just fine. But let me ask you simply. Is it possible to engage an Aries in a conversation? It doesn’t have to be on a daily basis. Bc they just want to talk to me if their is a potential for a relationship. When I decide that I want to take my life elsewhere, they suddenly don’t want to talk to me as much only from time to time. And that’s boring
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Posted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?
@macmiller. Very good advice, however I am not scared of Aries. When I’ve ‘fought’ with one of the Aries guys, he always apologied. And the other didn’t do anything bad. Well, maybe it’s my fault. I don’t like fighting. It’s energy waste. And when I was around an Arian friend I was so smitten and felt so protected that I just couldn’t fight with them. Both the Arian men opened up to me. I guess my problem is that I would like them to engage in a conversation more over a period of time (we are geographically separated). I’d like them to be friends more and just talk more even though we are geographically far away from each other. But I don’t want to force it upon them, I want it to be natural. And if we are going to fight in order to talk like friends more often then it kills the pleasure. I’m gemini btw.
Ahh. I thought Gemini's liked boring guys since it compliments y'alls own chaotic energy? Maybe you're different
We can be chaotic. Let us be. Then we are just fine. But let me ask you simply. Is it possible to engage an Aries in a conversation? It doesn’t have to be on a daily basis. Bc they just want to talk to me if their is a potential for a relationship. When I decide that I want to take my life elsewhere, they suddenly don’t want to talk to me as much only from time to time. And that’s boring.
Yea we can be stubborn as FUK. This is probably more-so an individual thing tho - Try dealing with a aries that compliments you more (like venus in gemini) or die. your choice😎😎click to expand
Posted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.click to expand
Posted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousernamePosted by macmillerPosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?
@macmiller. Very good advice, however I am not scared of Aries. When I’ve ‘fought’ with one of the Aries guys, he always apologied. And the other didn’t do anything bad. Well, maybe it’s my fault. I don’t like fighting. It’s energy waste. And when I was around an Arian friend I was so smitten and felt so protected that I just couldn’t fight with them. Both the Arian men opened up to me. I guess my problem is that I would like them to engage in a conversation more over a period of time (we are geographically separated). I’d like them to be friends more and just talk more even though we are geographically far away from each other. But I don’t want to force it upon them, I want it to be natural. And if we are going to fight in order to talk like friends more often then it kills the pleasure. I’m gemini btw.
Ahh. I thought Gemini's liked boring guys since it compliments y'alls own chaotic energy? Maybe you're different
We can be chaotic. Let us be. Then we are just fine. But let me ask you simply. Is it possible to engage an Aries in a conversation? It doesn’t have to be on a daily basis. Bc they just want to talk to me if their is a potential for a relationship. When I decide that I want to take my life elsewhere, they suddenly don’t want to talk to me as much only from time to time. And that’s boring.
Yea we can be stubborn as FUK. This is probably more-so an individual thing tho - Try dealing with a aries that compliments you more (like venus in gemini) or die. your choice😎😎
Yeah, I guess.
what's ur moon inclick to expand
Posted by nousernamePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.
You’re right. It takes practice until it’s perfected. I just wish if Aries were to talk more. Maybe I need to engage them a bit more. I like Aries men (I know two). But communication and emotions were an issue with us. After some years of knowing each other we managed to open up more but it’s still a problem.click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.click to expand
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
Posted by nousernamePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
It’s more like I’m venting. I gave up on them. I don’t think its meant to be.click to expand
Posted by nousernamePosted by nousernamePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.
You’re right. It takes practice until it’s perfected. I just wish if Aries were to talk more. Maybe I need to engage them a bit more. I like Aries men (I know two). But communication and emotions were an issue with us. After some years of knowing each other we managed to open up more but it’s still a problem.
@ramofpeace. I like both of these Aries man. We are good friends. And you know, I do engage them and I’m not pushing relationship but friendship. Bc I’m not ready for commitment. And I have to say that both of them don’t care about friendship and building a relationship over time. They just want me if there is an opportunity for here and now.click to expand
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by nousernamePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
It’s more like I’m venting. I gave up on them. I don’t think its meant to be.
I'm sure you will meet one who lives closer. :-)click to expand
Posted by nousernamePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by nousernamePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
It’s more like I’m venting. I gave up on them. I don’t think its meant to be.
I'm sure you will meet one who lives closer. :-)
Thank you. I’m sure I’ll will.click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousernamePosted by nousernamePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.
You’re right. It takes practice until it’s perfected. I just wish if Aries were to talk more. Maybe I need to engage them a bit more. I like Aries men (I know two). But communication and emotions were an issue with us. After some years of knowing each other we managed to open up more but it’s still a problem.
@ramofpeace. I like both of these Aries man. We are good friends. And you know, I do engage them and I’m not pushing relationship but friendship. Bc I’m not ready for commitment. And I have to say that both of them don’t care about friendship and building a relationship over time. They just want me if there is an opportunity for here and now.
Any relationship is built in friendship first and foremost.
If you’re pushing friendship because “you’re not ready for commitment”, you’re in the wrong.
If they’re trying to skip friendship and go straight into a romantic relationship, they’re in the wrong.
Out of curiosity, are you trying to choose befween the two or are you all trying to make a non-monogamous thruple? Do both dudes know about each other?click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousernamePosted by nousernamePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by nousername
Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
That’s called being emotionally immature. Has nothing to do with astrology. Plenty of people on this forum are the same way.
You’re right. It takes practice until it’s perfected. I just wish if Aries were to talk more. Maybe I need to engage them a bit more. I like Aries men (I know two). But communication and emotions were an issue with us. After some years of knowing each other we managed to open up more but it’s still a problem.
@ramofpeace. I like both of these Aries man. We are good friends. And you know, I do engage them and I’m not pushing relationship but friendship. Bc I’m not ready for commitment. And I have to say that both of them don’t care about friendship and building a relationship over time. They just want me if there is an opportunity for here and now.
Any relationship is built in friendship first and foremost.
If you’re pushing friendship because “you’re not ready for commitment”, you’re in the wrong.
If they’re trying to skip friendship and go straight into a romantic relationship, they’re in the wrong.
Out of curiosity, are you trying to choose befween the two or are you all trying to make a non-monogamous thruple? Do both dudes know about each other?click to expand
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Aries KINGS
Posted by RooSagicorn
The Aries I’ve known tend to be more about action than words. If they like you, you know it. They are fun, joking all the time and love to play. Not a bore in my book.. but they do want what they want lol.. if you’re all about the words, might be tough. I would prefer the actions. Perhaps it’s all about perspective.
Posted by AriesfPosted by nousername
Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by nousernamePosted by RooSagicorn
The Aries I’ve known tend to be more about action than words. If they like you, you know it. They are fun, joking all the time and love to play. Not a bore in my book.. but they do want what they want lol.. if you’re all about the words, might be tough. I would prefer the actions. Perhaps it’s all about perspective.
Oh for sure. The first was quite a charmer. Always kept coming to get me, did little things, and would always make sure I’m safe. He did everything I asked. The 2nd one way later on, was the same. It’s just that I moved away and we stayed in touch. Things actually got accidentally rekindled with both of them recently and now I’m confused and I wish for more clarity, hence this post. Sometimes I’m all words, no action. But this time i changed it and showed the initiative with both of them. I was honest and it went well but I wish for more things to happen in order to know better which is better for me. So, I’d like if they were to try and be more friends. That way I can know better but I guess time will tell.
I was married for a long time to one. I think trying to understand them goes a long ways. My ex always had trouble with expressing or wanting to deal with emotions. But I knew him well, it just takes a bit. It’s the being willing to deal with emotions, working together which is the important part. We mostly did well because we are both independent and supported that in each other. Well he’s a Cap moon too, I always wondered how an Aries with a water moon would be. Perhaps that would help.
But ya know it was relatively quick. As a friend who had a crush on me then said recently, you went out with him and were gone for 20 years. It’s pretty much how it went. Well it was 7 dates when he asked to go steady.. but it was really after one that we were connected forever ( he still has my back).click to expand
Posted by AriesfPosted by nousernamePosted by AriesfPosted by nousername
Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?click to expand
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Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?click to expand
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Hi everyone, thanks for replying and debating Aries men. I’m super friends with two Aries men that I know. Both are awesome, slightly different. Liked them both. My heart is not broken. We never managed to go that far. They are nice to me and I’m nice to them. Went on dates. No disappointment yet. Still are friends who hope to one day maybe have something more. We will see. However, emotionally they are both the same. Both emotionally inept. Unable to express what they feel. They try. I see it. Maybe my expectations of them in regards to emotions are too high. They are emotionally reserved.
Then what are u crying about? What do u want us to do for u??
Hi macmiller, it would be nice if Aries men would to NOT torment me. They drag my likeness of them for far too long, and I’m growing impatient.
Hey nousername, I'm an Aries and I'd like to apologize on behalf of my arian brethren..
We're kinda just shitheads. BUT - If you want to get more out of your relationships with these guys I suggest u try fking with them a lil bit
We like to fight and if we see you can give and take some hits for fun, we're more likely to drop our guard and open up a bit more. If u can't take the heat, then yea u should prolly dip lol.
what's your sign btw ?
@macmiller. Very good advice, however I am not scared of Aries. When I’ve ‘fought’ with one of the Aries guys, he always apologied. And the other didn’t do anything bad. Well, maybe it’s my fault. I don’t like fighting. It’s energy waste. And when I was around an Arian friend I was so smitten and felt so protected that I just couldn’t fight with them. Both the Arian men opened up to me. I guess my problem is that I would like them to engage in a conversation more over a period of time (we are geographically separated). I’d like them to be friends more and just talk more even though we are geographically far away from each other. But I don’t want to force it upon them, I want it to be natural. And if we are going to fight in order to talk like friends more often then it kills the pleasure. I’m gemini btw.
Ahh. I thought Gemini's liked boring guys since it compliments y'alls own chaotic energy? Maybe you're different
We can be chaotic. Let us be. Then we are just fine. But let me ask you simply. Is it possible to engage an Aries in a conversation? It doesn’t have to be on a daily basis. Bc they just want to talk to me if their is a potential for a relationship. When I decide that I want to take my life elsewhere, they suddenly don’t want to talk to me as much only from time to time. And that’s boring.
Yea we can be stubborn as FUK. This is probably more-so an individual thing tho - Try dealing with a aries that compliments you more (like venus in gemini) or die. your choice😎😎
Yeah, I guess.
what's ur moon in
Scorpio.
That might have a lot to do with it.
My sis is a gemini sun/scorpio moon. She told me one time that her experience with an aries guy was pretty negative.
We get along extremely well tho, It might have to do with my taurus moon.click to expand
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Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?
Both Aries answer and pretty fast (hit and miss). However, one in question always works, works out, and then sleeps. He wants to talk to me when there is a potential to see each other (we were always geographically distant). The other one responds too. But I can’t tell when they just stay out of topics to talk about and just don’t really want to talk. Although, this other Aries has changed too. He is growing up and now he is in a situation where started working a lot too, he didn’t used to be like that. So, both respect me and talk but not as much as I’d like.
Aaah, makes sense. He prefers actions, not words, I gather. Yes, we tend to be like that.
Maybe they’re just bad at texting? 🤷🏽♀️ Idk, most guys I’ve dated weren’t great at texting. I’ve never dated or been close friends with an aries male, so I have no idea what they’re like in that setting. But there have been a few aries guys who have seemed into me, and although we never texted much, they seemed to enjoy discussing various topics in depth, like literature, philosophy, our goals and ambitions in life... (but no small talk). Or they would just write me random phrases in foreign languages, lol... Anyway, I don’t know how your convos usually go, but maybe talk about something non-personal as a way of (in time) getting to know them better? Like a tv show you both enjoy, or something like that. In my experience, most men will start to get more personal and emotional after a while, no matter what you talk about. And also more clingy...click to expand
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Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?
Both Aries answer and pretty fast (hit and miss). However, one in question always works, works out, and then sleeps. He wants to talk to me when there is a potential to see each other (we were always geographically distant). The other one responds too. But I can’t tell when they just stay out of topics to talk about and just don’t really want to talk. Although, this other Aries has changed too. He is growing up and now he is in a situation where started working a lot too, he didn’t used to be like that. So, both respect me and talk but not as much as I’d like.
Aaah, makes sense. He prefers actions, not words, I gather. Yes, we tend to be like that.
Maybe they’re just bad at texting? 🤷🏽♀️ Idk, most guys I’ve dated weren’t great at texting. I’ve never dated or been close friends with an aries male, so I have no idea what they’re like in that setting. But there have been a few aries guys who have seemed into me, and although we never texted much, they seemed to enjoy discussing various topics in depth, like literature, philosophy, our goals and ambitions in life... (but no small talk). Or they would just write me random phrases in foreign languages, lol... Anyway, I don’t know how your convos usually go, but maybe talk about something non-personal as a way of (in time) getting to know them better? Like a tv show you both enjoy, or something like that. In my experience, most men will start to get more personal and emotional after a while, no matter what you talk about. And also more clingy...
Lol. Clingy. I should try asking some of those questions. Although with one of the two Aries, I kind of don’t even wanna ask haha. A little break will probably do us good.
A break can be good once in a while imo! If we really like you, we won’t forget you. I just got back in touch with a gemini friend, and it’s kind of like no time has passed.click to expand
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Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?
Both Aries answer and pretty fast (hit and miss). However, one in question always works, works out, and then sleeps. He wants to talk to me when there is a potential to see each other (we were always geographically distant). The other one responds too. But I can’t tell when they just stay out of topics to talk about and just don’t really want to talk. Although, this other Aries has changed too. He is growing up and now he is in a situation where started working a lot too, he didn’t used to be like that. So, both respect me and talk but not as much as I’d like.
Aaah, makes sense. He prefers actions, not words, I gather. Yes, we tend to be like that.
Maybe they’re just bad at texting? 🤷🏽♀️ Idk, most guys I’ve dated weren’t great at texting. I’ve never dated or been close friends with an aries male, so I have no idea what they’re like in that setting. But there have been a few aries guys who have seemed into me, and although we never texted much, they seemed to enjoy discussing various topics in depth, like literature, philosophy, our goals and ambitions in life... (but no small talk). Or they would just write me random phrases in foreign languages, lol... Anyway, I don’t know how your convos usually go, but maybe talk about something non-personal as a way of (in time) getting to know them better? Like a tv show you both enjoy, or something like that. In my experience, most men will start to get more personal and emotional after a while, no matter what you talk about. And also more clingy...
Lol. Clingy. I should try asking some of those questions. Although with one of the two Aries, I kind of don’t even wanna ask haha. A little break will probably do us good.
A break can be good once in a while imo! If we really like you, we won’t forget you. I just got back in touch with a gemini friend, and it’s kind of like no time has passed.
It’s like that with both of the Aries guys. It’s like, hey I gotta go do something and when I’m done I’m gonna holla at you. It doesn’t matter how long that something lasts lol but I guess I’m growing some sort of feelings and I want more. Oh well, time will tell. Idk.
Well, good luck to you! I think for aries, it’s best to try and take it slow with us anyway, establish that friendship first. Sort your feelings outclick to expand
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He’s not that into you
Posted by nousernamePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
It’s more like I’m venting. I gave up on them. I don’t think its meant to be.click to expand
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Aries men just burry themselves in work in order to avoid their emotional emptiness brought upon them due to life. Emotional life requires work just as any career or any other aspect of life. Aries men piss me off; they completely avoid placing enough of attention to their romantic life and so they become complete bores. They are annoying and boring even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.
Hmmm. Do you know these guys’ placements?
Yes, we tend to be pretty focused on work/career/school/learning, in my experience. But I’m surprised that the intellectual gemini finds that boring tbh. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I feel like some geminis expects us (and possibly other signs?) to entertain them. Like you’ll spend all day at work, and then you want the aries to entertain you with topics not concerning work when you get home. And if we don’t deliver on that, if we ourselves are very focused on work at the time, then we’re boring. Gemini is my favorite sign, though, so no shade. I’m just trying to understand.
‘even though they are sweet and quite handsome and charming.’ - the way I understand it, you want this side of your aries men. When they’re focused on work, you get bored, because they won’t engage in casual conversation with you. I don’t know if you’re the very chatty kind of gemini, or the more shy kind? I just know that some geminis will talk my ear off (and tbh I love the attention, so again no shade), and if it’s just small talk, I don’t always have a lot to say. But I love to discuss different topics or just vent about my day if something’s bothering me, with my gemini friends.
Anyway, the thing is... what you want from these guys - their emotional side, them investing time in you... I think you can only get that from an aries if you’re either really close friends, or if you’re in a relationship with them. It takes time for us to really open up and focus on you. Some of us aren’t that emotional, true, but we tend to be secret romantics. But that side of us is reserved for a special someone of our choosing, who we feel comfortable with and passionate about.
And another thing. I notice with you, and I’ve noticed it with other geminis, that you can get pissed off if you know/think that someone likes you, but they won’t verbalize it and make the next move. It seems natural to you that THEY have to make that move. But why can’t you make that move, if you share the same feelings? The thing is, in my experience, that geminis seem just as emotionless on the surface as aries - you won’t offer your emotions on a silver platter, and as a result, neither will we. There’s no way for your guys to know that you want them to share their feelings with you if you insist on the friendship thing. That sounds unnatural to me. I wouldn’t profess my love for someone who said they don’t want a relationship with me because they’re doing their own thing.
You have to choose between these two guys, though. Otherwise I think it would be difficult for you to create a real friendship and in time maybe a relationship, the way you want. I think that - deep down - you know you like one more than the other.
You hit the nail right there. But I’m quite self aware and I don’t demand so much entertainment but I do wish to have a companion that I can’t to about many diverse topics. And it seems like avaries chooses work, workouts, eating and sleeping. I believe there should be some balance between work and leisure. I myself work a lot too. So, I understand the need for work and accomplishments.
I don’t press on conversation during any kind of work, or during busy time but I do wish for these two Aries to talk on a more consistent basis. I’m telling you, these two particular individuals are over doing their life style of work, workouts and sleep a bit too much.
I’ve realized some of the things that I have been doing so I ended up taking a step in right direction emotionally and both Aries guys liked it (no dating, no sex, nothing like that yet). Ummm, we are all good, geographically separated and I’m consciously taking my life in the opposite direction. If I’m going to sacrifice other opportunities in order to be with them, I need more from an Aries guy. I haven’t chosen either one of them and I might never do if they don’t act. I’m not expecting love profession but more of an action. I’m afraid that we will never meet in the middle. I probably do like one more tha the other but currently I really can’t decipher which one it is. Btw idk their placements. Just that they are Aries.
I see. I guess they’re a bit different from me, because I like talking to my friends and romantic interests as a way of chilling after work. But sure, sometimes I just want to be left alone and sleep. I think I’m pretty consistent, but I won’t always answer right away. Do you expect an answer right away? I used to talk to a gemini male pretty regularly, and he would often reply to me asap, while I often took a few hours to respond :p Because I wanted me-time, but I still wanted to check in when my mind was clear and I could really focus on him. I think most arians are like that; we would rather talk when we don’t have a lot going on, because then we know we can really focus on the conversation.
What kind of action? You say they live far away, so is a date pretty out of the question?
Both Aries answer and pretty fast (hit and miss). However, one in question always works, works out, and then sleeps. He wants to talk to me when there is a potential to see each other (we were always geographically distant). The other one responds too. But I can’t tell when they just stay out of topics to talk about and just don’t really want to talk. Although, this other Aries has changed too. He is growing up and now he is in a situation where started working a lot too, he didn’t used to be like that. So, both respect me and talk but not as much as I’d like.
Aaah, makes sense. He prefers actions, not words, I gather. Yes, we tend to be like that.
Maybe they’re just bad at texting? 🤷🏽♀️ Idk, most guys I’ve dated weren’t great at texting. I’ve never dated or been close friends with an aries male, so I have no idea what they’re like in that setting. But there have been a few aries guys who have seemed into me, and although we never texted much, they seemed to enjoy discussing various topics in depth, like literature, philosophy, our goals and ambitions in life... (but no small talk). Or they would just write me random phrases in foreign languages, lol... Anyway, I don’t know how your convos usually go, but maybe talk about something non-personal as a way of (in time) getting to know them better? Like a tv show you both enjoy, or something like that. In my experience, most men will start to get more personal and emotional after a while, no matter what you talk about. And also more clingy...
Lol. Clingy. I should try asking some of those questions. Although with one of the two Aries, I kind of don’t even wanna ask haha. A little break will probably do us good.
A break can be good once in a while imo! If we really like you, we won’t forget you. I just got back in touch with a gemini friend, and it’s kind of like no time has passed.
It’s like that with both of the Aries guys. It’s like, hey I gotta go do something and when I’m done I’m gonna holla at you. It doesn’t matter how long that something lasts lol but I guess I’m growing some sort of feelings and I want more. Oh well, time will tell. Idk.
Well, good luck to you! I think for aries, it’s best to try and take it slow with us anyway, establish that friendship first. Sort your feelings out
Thank you! It definitely looks like it. Except that we have one little problem. I’m impatient. Lol
Hahaha. Aries is the same way 🙂 Just try and make sure you know what you want, is my advice. Although you can never be 100 % sureclick to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by nousernamePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Am I understanding right.... you are complaining about two Aries men who live FAR away from you. You want friendships with them and they not opening up to you in a way you want them to? So you come here for advice on what to do? Is this the gist of it all?
It’s more like I’m venting. I gave up on them. I don’t think its meant to be.
If you've given up on them and realize it wasn't meant to be why are you venting about them?click to expand
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