I don't know how inform everyone is with my saga with aries man,child and now mom......
But he hasn't called since our falling out and I've heard from mom several times since telling me she is talking to him.....
and volunteering to babysit.............
he's back with ex.........but mom has been keeping in touch....
don't know what to make of it.......
wether its him putting her up to it or she has her own agneda.....
aries men or aries period what is up when it comes to moms and your relationships and children......
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
BlueVirgo .. most males Aries I know are close to their mothers, so this doesn't seem abnormal to me. You have to keep in mind, to her son is where her loyalty will be, so it's possible that when she's calling you, she's actually inquiring on how your doing for his benefit.
So, how are you doing?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
She may just be sincerely concerned about you and the baby.
Ladies...... I guess your right about her being CONCERN about the baby and I....
Its just when she calls she not asking for me to BRING her the baby...
I understand aries being close to mom But Gosh he's a man and his mom is really concern about his babies and women.....
she talks about talking to him and has he called or don't let him know she talk to me and she won't let him know I talked to her nothing direct....
I'm thinking about asking directly WHAT"S UP.....
but I'm afraid it may build a wedge btween us....
meaning her thinking I'm trying to use her to find out info about him.....
I mean through out my hold prgnancy she never called once....
Didn't even come to see me at the hospital after having the baby....
Now suddenly she's on my line......
He hasn't made no attempt to contact me at all in reference to anything... us or baby....
It's been weeks......being that he made the decision to leave.....I felt he was the one that was running from something and needed to get away....
So, I figured just fall back and give him SPACE and he will call when he's alright....
But he still has NO CONTACT......I mean what's up is he still hurt or angry in some way....
I mean ladies I still have a CHILD THAT NEEDS CARE from him.....So, I went to file support papers and he may have gotten them by now.....
Because he's not letting me know his INTENTIONS and niether is the mom....
What am I suppose to do ladies in the meantime waiting for him to gather his thoughts...
My mind is totally thinking she no longer a PRIORITY for him since he's back with his ex and child...
Maybe the ex has told him not to deal with me or its over and he loves her that much that he's doing just that....
I mean when there is a child involve how long can a aries man stay away....
Maybe Roxi can chime in for that one.....