Aries Taurus relationship

This topic was created in the Aries forum by MissArVr on Monday, September 19, 2016 and has 15 replies.
Hi guys! Can anyone give me any advise on relationship like this? I'm an Aries man she's Taurus woman.We have been together for 7 months. Lately for about 2weeks I've had hard time with communication, talking, loads of misunderstanding, so I've decided i'll stop talking and texting to her, she always initiates but I didn't text her back thinking this will fix itself, I've heard this month is huge month for miscommunication with people so I've decided I'll back off and do my things I need to first because i have loads on my plate right now. All family members say I'm really weird this month like not myself. Anyways I reached out to my Taurus and he neither replied neither picked up his phone, I wanted to know what's wrong so I went to his place and find him there. For those weeks I wasn't in contact she was really ill, he was in hospital for a week and had really bad time, she said he wanted to see person he loved in those 2weeks but I wasn't there.I feel so bad right now because of this, I told her I'm sorry, but she said she needs time alone to think, she said you disappeared for 2weeks from my life when i needed you, and said she doesn't want to see me anymore. I got a little angry and lashed out on her and left.Ofc that anger didn't last long and i texted her I'm sorry. No reply no nothing.Anyone have any advise for me? I realise it's my fault, but can't a person forgive once? I'm 28 she's 26

"Anyways I reached out to my Taurus and he neither replied neither picked up his phone, I wanted to know what's wrong so I went to his place and find him there. For those weeks I wasn't in contact she was really ill, he was in hospital for a week and had really bad time, she said he wanted to see person he loved in those 2weeks but I wasn't there.I feel so bad right now because of this, I told her I'm sorry"

Why are you using him/her & he/she interchangeably? Are you dating a man or woman?

Anyway, Taurus like consistent, stable behavior & disappearing for weeks, ignoring texts etc isn't that. Ignoring someone is disrespectful & manipulative. I don't even see how logically you could think that would improve the situation lol On top of that YOU lash out at him/her (whichever it is) because you flaked out? You sound selfish in that you expect to be welcomed back with open arms whenever you decide that your ready with no regard for how the disappearing act made the other person feel.

Can't a person forgive once? I know that I (Taurus woman) can forgive & give second chances but not when there isn't genuine remorse & a plan to change.
Posted by MissArVr
Hi guys! Can anyone give me any advise on relationship like this? I'm an Aries man she's Taurus woman.We have been together for 7 months. Lately for about 2weeks I've had hard time with communication, talking, loads of misunderstanding, so I've decided i'll stop talking and texting to her, she always initiates but I didn't text her back thinking this will fix itself, I've heard this month is huge month for miscommunication with people so I've decided I'll back off and do my things I need to first because i have loads on my plate right now. All family members say I'm really weird this month like not myself. Anyways I reached out to my Taurus and he neither replied neither picked up his phone, I wanted to know what's wrong so I went to his place and find him there. For those weeks I wasn't in contact she was really ill, he was in hospital for a week and had really bad time, she said he wanted to see person he loved in those 2weeks but I wasn't there.I feel so bad right now because of this, I told her I'm sorry, but she said she needs time alone to think, she said you disappeared for 2weeks from my life when i needed you, and said she doesn't want to see me anymore. I got a little angry and lashed out on her and left.Ofc that anger didn't last long and i texted her I'm sorry. No reply no nothing.Anyone have any advise for me? I realise it's my fault, but can't a person forgive once? I'm 28 she's 26



Can forgive of course but what's the one thing Taurus looks for most of all?

Move on, Taurus can hold a grudge for a long time, they are stubborn. They like steady long term stable behaviour and this isn't you. I wouldn't say rule out all Taurus because it can work, but in this case it isn't, don't just repeat the problem, find something new.
I'm dating a girl, sorry my English isn't perfect sometimes I mix up she and he somehow. Well I had loads on my plate and I felt if our communication was bad maybe some time will make it better, turned out to be worse, I'm genuinely sorry as i said and I can't rewrite the past, if you Taurus are with Aries you know we are bold and make mistakes, you learn from them, that's how you grow as a person. I told her everything I had to say really. If she forgive's she forgive's. I'm not going to beg to take me back just because i made a mistake smile Thanks for reply.
What does anyone really look for the most?
Posted by MissArVr
I'm dating a girl, sorry my English isn't perfect sometimes I mix up she and he somehow. Well I had loads on my plate and I felt if our communication was bad maybe some time will make it better, turned out to be worse, I'm genuinely sorry as i said and I can't rewrite the past, if you Taurus are with Aries you know we are bold and make mistakes, you learn from them, that's how you grow as a person. I told her everything I had to say really. If she forgive's she forgive's. I'm not going to beg to take me back just because i made a mistake smile Thanks for reply.
I have tons experience with aries. Haha

My ex was and my new found friend of an aries.

People make mistakes but of course it doesn't take much for hmm to get back on track usually it doesn't take long to get together again. Fire and earth is magnetic and strong.

@Op I tell you what happened recently and you tell me is this right. I found out he has a phone I had seen it a few times but never said anything. I wanted to see it, what brand it is and he did the whole unplug the phone from charger and put it in his pocket. He said I let no body see my phone. I said whatever. He said why you getting butt hurt. I said I'm not how about we work on trust. I was merely curious that its. Then I did the okay so how many woman you got on there then approach because that was sneaky shit. So do I forgive him or not?
Posted by AriesJo
Move on, Taurus can hold a grudge for a long time, they are stubborn. They like steady long term stable behaviour and this isn't you. I wouldn't say rule out all Taurus because it can work, but in this case it isn't, don't just repeat the problem, find something new.
Or work on the problem and continue why move on?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by AriesJo
Move on, Taurus can hold a grudge for a long time, they are stubborn. They like steady long term stable behaviour and this isn't you. I wouldn't say rule out all Taurus because it can work, but in this case it isn't, don't just repeat the problem, find something new.
Or work on the problem and continue why move on?
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Only move on of you tried everything possible.. its not cake walk with most friendships going towards relationships. It's work especially with earth and fire. We're similar were so close to signs that we probably have alot of the same characters or personality traits. So it's all about not rushing and taking the time but not letting people take advantage but really adapting.
I dated a two Aries men and both relationships later about 4 years off and on. When it comes to dating a Taurus like myself, communication is really big for us. So if you have things you need to do and work on, tell us that. Dont just be so busy that you can't text or call back. Only thing I can say is make things clear for her if you really like her and care. Communication is very big for Taurus woman.
Im and aries woman and my relationship with a taurus man wasn't working out because he said my capacity of love was too overwhelming for him.
Well my Taurus reached out to me today and said that I don't show her attention she wants that I've been 2 bussy and didn't give her enough attention, she said meeting 2-3 times a week wasn't enough for her, as I have things to do, job to go to and also my friends . 3times a week is enough for me i'D like to have more time together ofc but I'm a bussy man. It's not been perfect and she said she wants more of our time only now, after I was absent for 2weeks, she said she always felt this way and wanted to be more with me, I asked why didn't you tell me, she said I thought you'll understand, if not i'll look needy. Idk should I even try to continue this relationship, she wants things I can't offer right now because I have loads on my plate, I just don't understand how she doesn't understand this, even when I'm telling her this.
Because she may like it to work and wants to know for long term relationship purposes only.. through thick and thin bullshit. Be be real and honest takes alot of pent up energy to express ourselves to yall fire signs.

Taurus like stability.

So the disappearing thing isn't going to work.

You will probably have to bend over backwards and let her know that you really care and you're not going anywhere.

She is patiently waitting for proves and demonstrations how much you care. I know you just meant well and you are easy going. Just be persistent Winking

Also, work on your communication. Or she'll alwsys assume the worst