Posted by Simba22Go get her Simba!
I replied so I guess I'll see
Posted by Simba22Were you?
She broke up w/me because she thought I was cheating
Posted by DMVShe thought I was cheating
Why did she break things off?
If whatever reason hasnt changed, why even entertain it?
Posted by MadMarchRamYea shes never bitten her tongue for sure
I would agree with most of the others and say she wants you back.
I can only speak for myself and say that I would only do that if I regretted the break up.
If I felt it was the right decision you would never hear from me again, but that's just me.
Posted by Simba22We generally tend not to do that. We just get a bit more diplomatic as we get older.Posted by MadMarchRamYea shes never bitten her tongue for sure
I would agree with most of the others and say she wants you back.
I can only speak for myself and say that I would only do that if I regretted the break up.
If I felt it was the right decision you would never hear from me again, but that's just me.click to expand
Posted by Simba22
Maybe have been more of a paying homage type thing. She didn't reply
Posted by Pandora101Posted by Simba22
Maybe have been more of a paying homage type thing. She didn't reply
what did you write her?
how was the break-up? did you tell her you didnt cheat and you love her and dont want to break-up?click to expand
Posted by AriesJo
Hmmz I dunno if this whole thing has been handled badly. I think she might have been drunk at 4am, who knows, just a possibility. But I think she likes you.
Aries women can be like trying to handle a stick of dynamite, they can explode, and usually they do damage they didn’t want to do. They feel a bit uneasy when things are calm, and they can be impatient, they don’t want you to commit too soon because they are a bit of a commitment-phobe and want their freedom, but they sometimes want to know soon what the answer is, are you a jerk or a good guy? For this reason they may test you a bit, not just to test you but to find out how they feel themselves. She will not care about this other woman, but her question to you is very clear “do you think it’s ok to look at other women?” .. and what is your answer? You need to address this issue. And you need to be stronger than this, Aries respond to strength, passion and courage, honesty, and speaking from the heart. Your response needed to say who you are, and it needed to defend yourself, are you the guy who loves a woman but looks at other women, is this what love is to you? The Aries woman wants adrenaline, something unexpected and something to get her heart pounding, they want the competition. She shows her fire, now you show yours, but turn it up a notch. Your message unfortunately is a little too cutesy in my opinion, your overall response too agreeable, and nothing new brought to the table. I know what you were trying to do.
You must also give her the chase, so it isn’t passion for her you want to show just yet, you need to show potentially you’re a different kind of guy to everyone else she’s met, and a fighter. Show passion for her when she’s worked for it. And this may not be obvious to a non-Aries, but her words are competitive, she wants to go at it, she doesn’t want your words to be reasonable or calming. She loves you “more than you will ever know”, but how much do you love her? Not the same mate, it’s boring, it needs to show more, something unexpected, but give her the chase.
At the end of sex and the city, the tv series, Carrie Bradshaw, who is probably a typical Aries woman, or written by an Aries woman, probably Sarah Jessica Parker. She says that she is “looking for real love”. I know a lot of Aries women, and they may say they are happy with the day to day routine, waiting around for their boyfriend to ask them to get married, when he’s saved up enough money or something, I’m sure they are happy. But what they really want is the “real love”, the next level. So just decide how you really feel, and go from there. She didn’t ask you to “beg”, she asked for your thoughts on love.
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