Aries Venus, anyone?

I hear they're forever alone...the thought of that isn't exactly scary for me, it's actually a bit relaxing, but still. I'd like to know what other venus is aries are like? Do you chase, are you really passionate when you like someone, etc...?

Posted by arietteheart2
Forever alone in what respect? I'm only alone when I want to be alone.

Like they won't have a steady marriage type thing. That's what I heard, I don't think it's true, but I can see it happening.

Haha why be alone? I go for what I want and I'm not shy about it. In relationships I'm loyal and will pretty much pounce as soon as my man opens the front door. They're all I want and my brain doesn't think outside that box.

A steady marriage/relationship depends on many factors, one importantly is the other partner.

Posted by sassafras
Haha why be alone? I go for what I want and I'm not shy about it. In relationships I'm loyal and will pretty much pounce as soon as my man opens the front door. They're all I want and my brain doesn't think outside that box.

A steady marriage/relationship depends on many factors, one importantly is the other partner.

I see what you mean and it's how I am for the most part, but I get bored so easily, I can't help it. It just happens, and then I move on really quickly to the next.

I know a Venus in Aries woman who is getting married in a couple of weeks.

The one I know literally jumps from guy to guy in a few weeks to a few months... they always screw her over... 😢

Posted by starlover
I was with two Venus in Aries men (both Aries sun) and also another Venus Aries man chased me for a few years but never caught me as i was with one of the other Aries. The thing i noticed about all of them was a restless kind of loneliness .... none of them as far as i know are settled with anyone, they also told me they found it very difficult to connect with women on a deeper level...one of the reasons i had to end the r.ships was because they always seemed to be *looking forward* even though they were faithful to me

It makes sense that Venus in Aries could be lonely in the long term, as the nature of the sign is prone to restlessness?

Hope that helps?

I know how they feel. And the looking forward, yes, and It does make it really hard. Not connecting, yeah, I see it because I want someone who's a bit immature, and has a childlike personality, and very adventurous, but a lot of people aren't like that. And I also want someone dreamy and mysterious so it's really confusing. Flirting seems to be a problem, I flirt with everyone and it's almost like it's so I make sure everyone has their attention on me, it's weird, and it's almost like my relationships and flirting is like me controlling my surroundings as if I'm playing with Barbie and it really makes it boring. It's hard to explain really.

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Posted by sassafras
Haha why be alone? I go for what I want and I'm not shy about it. In relationships I'm loyal and will pretty much pounce as soon as my man opens the front door. They're all I want and my brain doesn't think outside that box.

A steady marriage/relationship depends on many factors, one importantly is the other partner.

I see what you mean and it's how I am for the most part, but I get bored so easily, I can't help it. It just happens, and then I move on really quickly to the next.

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I've never been restless in that sense. Other things bore me but not a partner I choose. Once I have feelings dats it! Maybe its my aqua-ness keeping things interesting lol.

Posted by sassafras

Posted by SuperMissMan

Posted by sassafras
Haha why be alone? I go for what I want and I'm not shy about it. In relationships I'm loyal and will pretty much pounce as soon as my man opens the front door. They're all I want and my brain doesn't think outside that box.

A steady marriage/relationship depends on many factors, one importantly is the other partner.

I see what you mean and it's how I am for the most part, but I get bored so easily, I can't help it. It just happens, and then I move on really quickly to the next.

I've never been restless in that sense. Other things bore me but not a partner I choose. Once I have feelings dats it! Maybe its my aqua-ness keeping things interesting lol.

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I have an aqua moon, and I think it makes it worst. But I can get that, when I'm in love I'm in love, but if that interest isn't kept up, bye bye!

Posted by Curiousram

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Posted by sassafras
Haha why be alone? I go for what I want and I'm not shy about it. In relationships I'm loyal and will pretty much pounce as soon as my man opens the front door. They're all I want and my brain doesn't think outside that box.

A steady marriage/relationship depends on many factors, one importantly is the other partner.

I see what you mean and it's how I am for the most part, but I get bored so easily, I can't help it. It just happens, and then I move on really quickly to the next.

You are 15 years old of course thats how its going to be

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It's true. I didn't used to be like that though. A few years ago before I dated a Taurus (never making that mistake again) I'd like one person for looooong periods of time...it all started in first grade actually. I had a little "boyfriend" hahaha.

Posted by SuperMissMan
I hear they're forever alone...the thought of that isn't exactly scary for me, it's actually a bit relaxing, but still. I'd like to know what other venus is aries are like? Do you chase, are you really passionate when you like someone, etc...?

I'm Aries Sun, Aries Merc/Aries Venus

I was married for 17 years (to a Taurus, and now engaged to a Leo. I have to have a deeper emotional connection with my partner and have found that a Leo can provide that intense emotional connection and all the passion needed.I'm very passionate about things, love, life, career, etc.... Everything for me is passionate. Most signs cant handle that side, I think having so much Aries in my chart and other Fire sign influences makes me more intense/passionate that most Aries.

I'm a....

Taurus Sun
Aries Venus
Gemini Moon

I don't chase at all. I'm rather shy and introverted. I prefer to beckon men to me instead.
However, despite many conventional aspects to my personality (Taurus sun), nevertheless, once I feel that my independence is being compromised in a relationship, I tend to bail out ASAP! I answer to no one. My biggest attraction to a potential mate? A conventional, self-assured man who also answers to no one! I'm turned off by doormats. Own up to who you are!...and be unapologetic when you do. How else do you keep things interesting?

During the initial stages of dating, I date more than one people. Unlike the traditional Aries who put their energy into one person, chase, lose interest and move on to the next. I move a little differently. I beckon men to me, date more than one person, begin the selection process, ween others off, and make a final choice.

Once I make a choice, I stick it out with that one person. They have all of me, my loyalty, my consistency, my reliability, my honesty, my generosity, my love, and my protection.

But don't confuse this or take it as a sign of weakness. I belong to no one. Attempt to take away my independence, and be prepared to lose everything I'm offering you.

Posted by SuperMissMan
I hear they're forever alone...the thought of that isn't exactly scary for me, it's actually a bit relaxing, but still. I'd like to know what other venus is aries are like? Do you chase, are you really passionate when you like someone, etc...?

I was single for 4 years after a 5+ year relationship. It was needed but there were times that I felt like I was going to be, "forever alone" ... but I didn't want to settle. I refused... to settle.

And for a good reason. I met a man and about a year 1/2 later after being friends and taking things slow... we began to date.

It took 4 years but I am a better person for it.

Aries in venus can be tough... but we love strong, and purely... we love like we've never been hurt before. our love holds no grudges... we love for the sake of love.

Sun Gemini
Moon aqua
Venus and Mars Aries

I have mostly been in long term relationships and I am extremely loyal. I know I stay in relationships far too long. That is something I have worked to change. It is important for the man I date to be strong and confident in his own skin and not try to control me. I must maintain my independence and will occasionally need my space. I am currently dating a Virgo Sun, Taurus moon, Scorpio Venus that gives me that. It's been 18 months. I hope it stays this way.