Aries with rejection fear or some strange game?
This topic was created in the Aries forum by GemSunVirgMoon on Monday, February 5, 2007 and has 1 replies.
I just met an Aries guy through a very great friend, we have fooled around twice. We met on Halloween of 06 and didn't say more than 2 words to each other. He bought me a couple drinks that night, but i didn't give him any attention really and did my own thing with my friend anyway (my friend is a co-worker of his). At the end of the night he invited us to go to his place, and we did. However once we got thier his friend and my friend immediately took off together (sounds like a setup huh?). The next morning I smiled said I had a great time and just left, I was hoping he would offer me his number during the little wierd pause. He had no way of getting a hold of me other than calling my friend his co-worker. Which he did not do, but about 2 weeks ago (3 months later) he found me on myspace and sent me a friendly email. So I went from "wow cool guy would love to get to know him better to oh well guess i went to fast with him back to wow cool guy i hope he is actually intrested!" The second time we hung out, we actually talked to each other and i loved everything that came out of his mouth, then we preceeded to have the most pasionate make-out session ever. I fell asleep in his arms, woke up in his arms, and there was no wierdness. He had to go into work so we walked out to our cars together and he kissed me goodbye and said "I get off at seven give me a call" I liked this because it sounded kinda like a command, so i waited until about 10:15 to call. My friend told me that the last relationship he was in ended badly (not his doing) I trust my friend completely. I am wondering if he is being careful to date and become attached because he was hurt? Is this just a purely physical thing (which is ok by me, but I want more)? I just want to know what direction he plans on taking our interaction, so that I can either dive right in or protect my heart? I instantly got the impression that whatever happens its got to be all him initiating, which i also like. So how long do i have to play hard to get but still give him subtle hints that I am intrested in a commitment?
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