Aries woman

This topic was created in the Aries Women forum by REpisRies on Monday, May 2, 2016 and has 6 replies.
Hi there guy's i'm a pisces guy, and i have one question for Aries woman or Aries man , i want to ask 1 Aries girl out, we are friends on social media, but we never talked to each other, i've never meet her in real life also, but i'm a known sportman in my city so thats how she knows me and she added me on facebook years back, now i noticed her, i don't want anything serious with her you know, it just looks like's she's strong, condfident person and enjoys challenge, i'd like to invite her to meet each other, i don't know should i ask her out just to meet each other or just ask her like a date, i don't know if there's a difference in these for Aries woman, anyway i like real life talking way more than i like social media, thats why i never texted or talked to her, what would your advise be, should i talk to her and get to know her before asking her out in real life or i can do like i want and just ask her out without no social media talk before? just a little chat one day and the same day i invite her to meet me, i don't know how to approach this, some people would say it's insane to ask girl out without geting to know her, but i don't rly think you can get to know a person on social media, you need to see and feel real connection with a person and how the vibes go, thats why i'm not rly into so much social media chit chat things, any advise would it be ok to talk a little bit just for one day and ask her out or that's just to akward in this technology world nowadays?I'm new on these forums so anything in this theme would be appreciated, thank you guys!
@Arieslove I'm dating an aries and i can tell y you can ask her to hang out on first time you chat with her, just make sure you don't look boring or somth like that , if you can get her interested or curious you can get her to hang out with you, but make sure you don't come on to strong on that hanging out thing and make sure you don't get overwhelmed by your sensitive emotions, the thing is the aries i'm now dating asked me out to hang out, or it was a date, i don't know, but we just wanted to see each other, but she made the move, i'm also not that much into social media, she's 2, so when we met it was nice, talked, had fun, went to ice rink and i was like a cow on ice, we were both laughin lol, had some walks, had some food, did some silly things that was 1st hanging out with aries woman for me, i kissed her on the cheek she slaped me on the face and then kissed me on the lips, was epic one, goodluck with this girl! be brave!
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Posted by rakac
@Arieslove I'm dating an aries and i can tell y you can ask her to hang out on first time you chat with her, just make sure you don't look boring or somth like that , if you can get her interested or curious you can get her to hang out with you, but make sure you don't come on to strong on that hanging out thing and make sure you don't get overwhelmed by your sensitive emotions, the thing is the aries i'm now dating asked me out to hang out, or it was a date, i don't know, but we just wanted to see each other, but she made the move, i'm also not that much into social media, she's 2, so when we met it was nice, talked, had fun, went to ice rink and i was like a cow on ice, we were both laughin lol, had some walks, had some food, did some silly things that was 1st hanging out with aries woman for me, i kissed her on the cheek she slaped me on the face and then kissed me on the lips, was epic one, goodluck with this girl! be brave!

Yeah but she asked you out. So she knew what she wanted. She already had her eyes on you. That's different.

I don't like it when guys bombard me like that out of nowhere....of course if I'm already interested I might say yes to a later date.
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yup, but same with him, he knows he wants to hang out with her like the aries girl wanted with me Big Grin kind of the same just different signs asking, either pisces aries or aries pisces, hanging out isn't something like a date but it can become one if to people like each other, 3of my best friend i've met one facebook, just went to the beach together and that was it, best friends scince whaha. social media can help you, but to much chating on it just gets on me, i want real life experience, not social media, because it's already taking over the world, more than 50% of people live in social media, facebook/insta/televission always, sad to see so many people change real life for technology experience ..
Posted by AriesLove
@rakac

I never said they should chat over social media. I said conversing...so if that means getting her phone number and vibing with her that is better.

I didn't say for weeks either. I think talking for about a week or 2 and slowly building curiosity should make for a good first date. Getting to know what she likes her interest and his interest and decide on something fun from there.

And yes he knows what he wants but he doesn't know what she wants.

Well when she asked to hang out she didn't know me at all, only that she knew that i enjoyed sports and that's it, but anyone can tell that because my of my pics, lol. sometimes you have to make a bald movie and just go with it i think, if he wants to do it, why not, if she doesn't want to she wil tell her, maybe then they will build up slowly, i would also make somth like this, either 1day or maximum 5 day chat on the phone, i'm not technology person, i enjoy real life experience more, i'd rather be with a person than sit and write messages while being anti social with others, i agree tho, try 1-5day's and then see if you even have somethin to talk about, keep convo's light and funny, goodluck to you pal, no one ever got something by doing nothing, rather fail than live in what if Winking your choise, you should do what you feel you want to, we can only suggest, last word is yours and your should feel it in your balls/heart. most of the time when i see posts people don't realy want to know somthing, most of the time they just want someone to tell it's ok to do what they want, and i'm telling y it's ok, either 1st day or 5th, you feel you want it, go for it, if you doubt it, make a longer run not the 1st day Winking goodluck, post how it goes man Big Grin
Posted by AriesLove
@rakac

I also don't like to be in someone's face all the time. I get bored with them. I like to build interest.

But there have been guys who I have grown to like based on personality rather than looks. I just know if I don't know a little bit about you I'm not going on a date with you. It would be awkward!

BTW anti social means no communication and not wanting to be around people. It does not mean taking your time.


I've seen people who are in circle of friends and all they do is chat on phone for hours, they say couple of words, laugh a little and then once again they go in chating on a phone, they seem 2 addictive on these things these day's, many people i see always has a phone in their hand and from time to time looks at it even if no one texts or rings. Big Grin personality is what counts, looks are just a cover of the person, looks are like the price you put on a nice cover, the book cover might be nice, but inside you can find a shit show, and it can be reverse, cover looking ugly but inside its pure and amazing, that's why people shouldn't judge by it's cover, ofc looks matter 2a little, but it's not the main thing in a person smile yeah i know what you're talking about, i get bored fast 2,especialy on social media and texts, thats prob the reason i don't text or chat 2 much on it with people, unless in forums like this one smile
You don't know because you don't know me Winking She might not like him, but what will he lose if he tries?Nothing will chop hi's head off, either talk on a phone or chat a little and ask her to hang out, isn't that difficult, you're also a cusp, pisces want to take things slow while aries always go with a rush and they are little spontaneous thats what i like about them, i have sag asc sag moon and leo venus, that might be the case why i vibe good with this aries i'm dating now, either way it's not post about me, pal i'd say chat a little and see how it goes, if you feel like it's ok to ask her to hang out after 1day of chating then do it, but if it doesn't feel right, chat a little more 5days or a week, like arieslove said she might not even like you, don't get hopes up and don't get hopes down, flow and see where the decisions you make lead you, goodluck! Big Grin