Ok, so I'm a 23 year old Aries female in love with a 20 year old cancer man. I know he's not ready to pursue anything serious with me but he does visit me and he has taken me out on a date. I text him and he usually responds, but sometimes it takes him forever! And sometimes he will respond to a few texts and then stop. That irks me and I don't send him 20 texts a day so I know I'm not being over barring and I hope I'm not coming off as needy by texting him almost everyday. I usually just say hi or tell him to have a good day at work then wait for a response but it gets on my nerves when he takes 2-4 hours to respond to me and only give me one or two word responses. I guess I'm just being an attention whore, but sometimes I wonder if seeing someone else. We did date for two years and I broke it off because I felt he was cold and I knew he was talking to other women. I'm trying to take things slow but it's hard. I did tell him via text how I felt and he said he didn't know how to respond at the moment and I told him that's ok. He does seem to like spending time with me and he does open up from time to time, so I still have hope. But at times I feel it can't work and I'm afraid of scaring him off, i can be a little intense with my emotions especially love and anger. So what can I do to encourage him to have a serious relationship with me? Should I just wait and try to be patient?
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May 09, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1530 · Topics: 124
He wants needy and persistent unconditional love
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May 09, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1530 · Topics: 124
I promise it'll take a long time to win him but I also promise it's worth very second
Thank you for your advice. I just hate having to wait lol. But I will wait for him.
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Jul 24, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 751 · Topics: 40
He cheatedqith other women and you are nervous about this time is what I read
I agree Cancer and Aries work differently in the way they express themself, but if you stopped texting would you hear from him?
Are you looking for something serious is the next thing? If you know someone is not ready you can not make them ready.