Aries woman Virgo man

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Yeah, it takes them a long while to open up and then they usually show their affection through acts of service...like pumping your gas or cleaning your car lol. Doing things for you rather than telling you how they feel. They are usually good gift givers though.

Posted by BlackMamba
My Ex dated an Aries after he disappeared on me. She blows up his phone all the time and texts him. She's obviously not over him.

Posted by wecarealot
Wait, how do you guys know that's CC? lol

Posted by derpette

Posted by Laniyaravonn
Sooooo I recently started dating this Virgo guy & he's quite interesting to me.. But I keep feeling like he's just not too interested in me as much as I'm interested in him. Any comments?

Your interest in him will probably be more pronounced, than his for you. Also, it may feel challenging at first, but if you're patient with him and give him space, you will see that he is interested (and cares) and will show it in his own way. Slowly he will open up, and it will be the most exciting, exhilarating, unfolding...like a million presents you can unwrap.

Your situation is the same experience that brought me to join this site. It's been 9 months since my Virgo guy and I started talking. There were a lot of moment of insecurities initially because the way we express ourselves are different. I suggest try not to think too much of it, appreciate every moment with him, and remind yourself he wouldn't be with you if he wasn't interested.

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Posted by AriesGirl74
What I don't understand is the patience thing... I mean where do you draw the line between having patience yet waiting too long for them to come through and communicate that you realise it's a play? Mine disappears only to come through eventually with "I'm really sorry, I thought you were going to contact me?"
Like...REALLY?????!!!

One of the characteristics that I find compatible (as an Aries) with my Virgo man is that we're both independent. A lesson I learned is that I don't have to wait for him idly, I can do my own thing and he will come to me. His aloofness used to deter me from speaking to him first, now I just go with the flow. If there's something I wish to share with him, I don't hesitate. But if I don't hear from him, then it doesn't make a difference since there are other things that need to be done. Eventually he will come around as you mentioned...and that's the time you know he misses you.

It's been said that Arians hate beating around the bush, playing games, or when people are not forthright. Personally, I agree with this. Before I used to see my Virgo lover's "hot-cold", "detached-attached" moments as playing games. They are very loyal if they decide that you are someone important to them. When they're recluse, it doesn't mean they stop caring.

Ultimately, it's based on your discretion. If you feel like communication with him is straining and feels like he is playing a game, then it's probably not worth sweating over and just let it go.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Jo March,

Just keep it sexy and sweet. Leave the past behind... it apparently doesn't matter... it didn't dampen your crush none, right?

You're at crush stage... not really the stage of expectations.

If you miss the man, show him.

Posted by VenusAquarius
You will get glimpses of affection, then a window, a door, a room, and finally a house.