Aries woman who is falling for a very handsome (sexy) Capricorn man.Would love some Advice!

Posted by LadyNeptune
"On the 6th i had told him that i someone had asked me on a date. So, being me after this i did message him asking if he was okay if i were to start seeing other people. He told me “ Yeah,sure go ahead. My life is too complicated right now.” But then i told him i wasn’t interested in anyone else but him and he knew how i felt about him."

This was a major misstep here. At the very least he is looking at you with new eyes and stepping back a bit (hence the silence on his end). At the very worst he has now downgraded you and will not pursue you for a relationship if that was his endgame.

Posted by Aries18

Posted by LadyNeptune
"On the 6th i had told him that i someone had asked me on a date. So, being me after this i did message him asking if he was okay if i were to start seeing other people. He told me “ Yeah,sure go ahead. My life is too complicated right now.” But then i told him i wasn’t interested in anyone else but him and he knew how i felt about him."

This was a major misstep here. At the very least he is looking at you with new eyes and stepping back a bit (hence the silence on his end). At the very worst he has now downgraded you and will not pursue you for a relationship if that was his endgame.

I always ask for advice from him, and i wanted to asked how he would feel about it. I even told him i wasn't interested in anyone but him so i made it clear (i hoped did) that my feelings towards him will never changed. This is why i'm so confused and frustrated with myself.

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Posted by Aries18
I have never had someone come into my life and show so much respect and care towards me, and opened up my eyes to love someone again, and that I could be happy. He makes me very happy and lucky to even have him as a friend in my life that cares about me. I never open up to just anyone i am very caution when it comes to online friendships and who i talk too. With him i could trust him and he wouldn't judge me, but at the same time i was very nervous and kept a wall up at times. Especially when we would talk on teamspeak with our voices and not through text.


I will keep you Updated for sure, and thank you

Posted by FireChild
Me being an Aries also dating a Cap/Aquarius man all I can say is back off a little. I think you might be smothering him and just expecting too much too soon.

In dealing with my Cap, I'm just letting him lead right now. You should not be the one saying "good morning" every day. My Cap tells me good morning every day and when he doesn't I don't freak out I don't even text him. I give him space and the next day he's back to normal. I might initiate once or twice during the week and it's always something random, or funny nothing serious asking "why this or that".

Just be patient. And when you guys get together face to face just talk about what you want out of life and see if he is on the same accord.

Caps work hard but they also rest a lot. You can't blame everything on work.

Posted by SourPie

Posted by Aries18
I have never had someone come into my life and show so much respect and care towards me, and opened up my eyes to love someone again, and that I could be happy. He makes me very happy and lucky to even have him as a friend in my life that cares about me. I never open up to just anyone i am very caution when it comes to online friendships and who i talk too. With him i could trust him and he wouldn't judge me, but at the same time i was very nervous and kept a wall up at times. Especially when we would talk on teamspeak with our voices and not through text.


I will keep you Updated for sure, and thank you

What are your placements?

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Posted by FireChild
Me being an Aries also dating a Cap/Aquarius man all I can say is back off a little. I think you might be smothering him and just expecting too much too soon.

In dealing with my Cap, I'm just letting him lead right now. You should not be the one saying "good morning" every day. My Cap tells me good morning every day and when he doesn't I don't freak out I don't even text him. I give him space and the next day he's back to normal. I might initiate once or twice during the week and it's always something random, or funny nothing serious asking "why this or that".

Just be patient. And when you guys get together face to face just talk about what you want out of life and see if he is on the same accord.

Caps work hard but they also rest a lot. You can't blame everything on work.

Thanks for the advice, I will step back, i'm not very good with patience i am gonna work on myself and focus on other things. I haven't "talked" to him since Sept 8/9 so im going to do what you suggest to text him once/twice a week i will do that and see what happens. Again thank you for the advice

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Posted by Aries18
Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice

Posted by SourPie

Posted by Aries18
Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice

Did you guys sort your worries out?

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Posted by Aries18

Posted by SourPie

Posted by Aries18
Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice

Did you guys sort your worries out?

I'm not really 100% sure at this point :/ I asked him if he still wanted to do our Question Game - we started with this when we first talked and he had promise a month ago another but we didn't end up doing it, so i thought i would asked if he was still interested in doing the question game with me since he did promise and he usually keeps his promises.No reply yet.

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