Aries woman with a Scorpio man

This topic was created in the Aries and Scorpio Compatibility forum by cookieromy on Saturday, May 18, 2013 and has 4 replies.
I am a 17 year old Aries female and i am completely head over heels over a 19 year old scorpio male _???. I always find myself attracted to scorpios for some reason and i just can't help it, they are just so perfect i can't handle it. Okay so recently, this scorpio guy found me on tumblr and started talking to me and a day later he said he loved me. I didn't know how to react to that, even though i did like him a lot, he was very sweet and open and supportive and he let me talk about myself without telling me i'm annoying like other guys hahaha. I asked him why did he love me and he said you're smart, funny, beautiful nice and i want you. I honestly do not think i am beautiful like i'm the most insecure person ever. To make a long story short, we talked for a while and skyped. Oh and i forgot to mention he lives far away. So one night i asked him if he really thinks this 'relationship' is worth it. Relationship between two people not like boyfriend and girlfriend. I told him if he wanted this to be real he has to be honest with me and tell me what he wants. Because i don't think a long distance relationship would work since we never met, we don't know that much about each other, we can't really trust each other i mean i want to trust him but just knowing there are girls around him that i can't see or punch, that kills me. So he said he wants to keep talking to me and enjoy the time we have together. I told him one day he's gonna get bored of me since he can't see me every day and all (which is impossible no one can get bored of me hahaha) and he's going to break my heart and he's gonna find someone else whom he can touch and kiss and make love and do everything with. Btw DO YOU GUYS HAVE ANY IDEA HOW SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED HE MAKES ME? Its really unimaginable. He stopped talking to me for a week. I waited for him to talk to me and he did and when i answered he completely ignored me. I know he saw my message cause he was online and then he went offline. Another week has passed and he still did not talk to me. I hate being ignored and i hate waiting. He's really really killing me because i fell in love with him (i fall too hard too fast..) and i can't even eat anymore. I feel so empty when he doesn't talk to me i guess i got attached to him. "Once you're attached you're fucked". I don't know what to do. Should i let go since we might never even meet or should i hold on knowing we might meet some day? Be completely honest and thank you for your time Big Grin
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Love takes time to grow and I don't think it's the sort of thing that can happen overnight. It involves knowing someone, not just for their good qualities but for their bad as well, and still loving them anyway. In a new relationship, the bad qualities aren't going to show straight away and when they do, if you've still got your blinkers on, you're not going to recognise them. After a while, when that initial strong attraction and emotion settles down a bit, they may come to the surface. What I'm saying is, everything you go through at the beginning is emotional and subjective; objectivity and logic comes with time. It's a shit, boring thing to base real love on because that rush is so much more exciting but any longetivity in a relationship is going to be based on logic. There potentially comes a time when that massive spark could implode and tear you apart unless you're able to realistically see someone. If you can survive sitting down and talking through problems, which is uncomfortable and unexciting but inevitably necessary at times, that's love.
I'd be very wary of a Scorpio who says he loves you straight away; take it straight from a pentuple Scorpio. It's not that doesn't feel strongly or is lying to you about how he feels but he hasn't learnt how to temper that emotion yet, and doesn't know the difference between infatuation/lust and love. Besides, people who love you don't ignore you for no reason, based on the above.
Hope everything turns out the best for you, you seem like a nice girl and he has to realise that instead of letting whatever's getting to him stop him from doing the decent thing and talking to you openly smile
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Thank you for your time minimalistmike! So you think i should move on with my life and if he wants to talk to me, he will right? I think that's what i'm gonna do :/
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You can never force someone's hand so I think that's the wisest choice. It's a lesser Scorpio trait to do what he's doing and is based either on his own insecurity or his ego, neither of which are fun to be in love with. You might feel bad or a little heartbroken but you shouldn't feel like it's anything you've done to cause it. You're young and it's a nice prospect to fall in love; so is he and same applies. However, you're already showing your wisdom by making the choice to keep being yourself and doing what you want instead of waiting for him to get his shit together. You can never count on that but you can count on doing what's right for you, and reserving the best of you for someone who does deserve it smile
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