Aries women and Aries men

This topic was created in the Aries forum by WitchmitchAries on Tuesday, November 20, 2018 and has 37 replies.
Can they really work in a relationship? I am wondering if i am wasting time with this aries guy.
It depends.
I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
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I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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Lol I knoooww... but it made me change my ways maybe.

For some reason I kept telling her I wanted to be more of a team and she kept saying she didn’t know what that means. But it was things like, if I queued for a drink at the bar, I would get her a drink too.. but her.. no of course not, I’d have to queue for my own drink cos she didn’t think about getting me one. Or things like, if I bought groceries, I might buy a pack of four donuts, but she would eat all the donuts while I would put the groceries away, and then I wouldn’t have a donut, she wouldn’t think maybe I wanted one even though I just bought them. Then my next girlfriend after that was a Libra and the difference was massive, it’s like the total opposite.

Lol but come on.. of course Aries women are more selfish than Aries men lol, and we all know Aries men make good listeners? I don’t know why she used to complain.
Posted by Ram416

It depends.
i know it depends on a lot of things. i really am wondering if he is my twin flame thingy. i also think i had a vision about him before he friend me on facebook. I knew him back in school.
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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Lol i dealt with a selfish virgo for 30 years. I love a good confrontation. i never start one but i so can finish one
the other thing is that i am still picking up the pieces from a 30 year married that i end this year. I so didnt want to get strong feeling for anyone. Its a pain and for it to turn out to be a guy i had a crush on back in school. I so didnt see that coming. now i dont know what i want from the whole thing.
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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Lol i dealt with a selfish virgo for 30 years. I love a good confrontation. i never start one but i so can finish one
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Yes Aries like to argue just for the sake of it lol. My ex's (Aries ex's) were all the same like that
Aries men are WAY more selfish than the woman though.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Aries men are WAY more selfish than the woman though.
i disagree. i met mean different signs that were selfish. i have also met a lot of aries guys who are not selfish. my guess is more misunderstood. Just because someone takes care of themselves doesnt make them selfish.

what i find is funny that people call someone selfish when they cant control them or make them do what they want them to do.Laughing my mother would call me selfish when i couldnt help her get out of a mess she got herself into. But she would forget about all the times i did help her and that i needed to take of myself at that time.
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My twin sister is married to another Aries. They have been together for over 15 years. Together 10 years and married for 5 years. My grandparents were both Aries and were married until my grandmother died.
see now why do all those sign relationship things say they dont work? i have heard more stories of them working out from people who are in aries/aries relationships.
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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I noticed with all the Aries-Libra relationships, that there is always a winner and the loser.

The loser stays bitter for all eternity and holding resentment against the other sign. lol
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i have never known an aries to hold on to resentment it kills the soul
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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I noticed with all the Aries-Libra relationships, that there is always a winner and the loser.

The loser stays bitter for all eternity and holding resentment against the other sign. lol
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It's not the sign. It's the person 😁 But ive been with enough Aries partners to know I should probably steer clear of romantic relationships with them.
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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I noticed with all the Aries-Libra relationships, that there is always a winner and the loser.

The loser stays bitter for all eternity and holding resentment against the other sign. lol
It's not the sign. It's the person 😁 But ive been with enough Aries partners to know I should probably steer clear of romantic relationships with them.
I can respect that. Some of us Aries are straight trash when we’re in a bad spot. Sorry for your negative experiences.
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plus we forget that there are other things in our charts that make up who we are too. i cant just go off my Sun sign or others Sun sign
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Posted by AriesJo

I was with an Aries for 7 years. There are some serious arguments where things will get smashed, the house will be a complete bomb site because neither can be bothered tidying up, especially not after someone else. Arguements maybe very public. Then about 5 seconds later, it will be like nothing ever happened and all will be forgotten (literally just forgotten).

Reason for breakup, I think she was kind of a bully, unfemine, selfish. There were some very good qualities too.. but overall in my case it was like she was just a really good friend, I wanted the romance but it didn’t happen, the passion can be there but not the romance. Mine had some “pieces” in her, so most days after work when I was tired, it was like “you will listen to me!” ... before I could even take my coat off. This would go on for hours every night.. and that plus the selfishness was too much. There is a lot of intense fire, just be sure you are getting into something you want. As in my case, I don’t think I regret the relationship, but 7 years was too long, and the reason is that no arguement will be that bad you will breakup, you will not break up from an argument, for sure.
LOL. Am I the only one who finds the irony in another Aries calling an Aries selfish, and that they couldn't live with it.

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I noticed with all the Aries-Libra relationships, that there is always a winner and the loser.

The loser stays bitter for all eternity and holding resentment against the other sign. lol
It's not the sign. It's the person 😁 But ive been with enough Aries partners to know I should probably steer clear of romantic relationships with them.
I can respect that. Some of us Aries are straight trash when we’re in a bad spot. Sorry for your negative experiences.
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Thats ok. No need for you to say sorry. My Aries ex of 7 years gave me two beautiful boys. We split up nearly 5 years ago. My last Aries and i split up in August this year, after a year together..... He can go to hell. The compulsive liar and bastard that he is. Its he who has left a very bitter taste in my mouth. Even you would be shocked if you knew the depths of his very dark and twisted soul.
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you got the flu or food poison?

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you got the flu or food poison?

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The thought just made me sick.
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why?

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The thought just made me sick.
why?



Too immature and childish for my taste.
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so you are cereal type of person then?
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The thought just made me sick.
why?



Too immature and childish for my taste.
so you are cereal type of person then?


I don't understand the correlation.

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Bawhahaha
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Can they really work in a relationship? I am wondering if i am wasting time with this aries guy.
1. Phuc no! I like Aries qualities in others and it’s somewhat entertaining but beyond friendship I just don’t see two Aries making a solid go at it. Someone has to be level headed and it’s not Aries.

2. Only you will know. It’s your relationship and only you know how well it works or doesn’t.
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well you cant no because a few people say they know some that have made it. plus i am a very level headed person more so then my ex who was a virgo. so there
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Can they really work in a relationship? I am wondering if i am wasting time with this aries guy.
1. Phuc no! I like Aries qualities in others and it’s somewhat entertaining but beyond friendship I just don’t see two Aries making a solid go at it. Someone has to be level headed and it’s not Aries.

2. Only you will know. It’s your relationship and only you know how well it works or doesn’t.
well you cant no because a few people say they know some that have made it. plus i am a very level headed person more so then my ex who was a virgo. so there (/b>
Lol sure
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Laughingyou dont know me
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Can they really work in a relationship? I am wondering if i am wasting time with this aries guy.
1. Phuc no! I like Aries qualities in others and it’s somewhat entertaining but beyond friendship I just don’t see two Aries making a solid go at it. Someone has to be level headed and it’s not Aries.

2. Only you will know. It’s your relationship and only you know how well it works or doesn’t.
well you cant no because a few people say they know some that have made it. plus i am a very level headed person more so then my ex who was a virgo. so there (/b>
Lol sure
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“Plus I have a very level headed person more so then my ex who was a Virgo. So there”

Than *

Is* a Virgo.

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Laughingi typed that to fast. So even level headed people mess up from time to time.
yes! Aries likes to argue as a bonding mechanism and I don't think any other zodiac sign understands that other than another aries! The passion is there and we don't take temper tantrums to heart as they don't last very long. However, I would look at other planets to see the whole picture. My last bf was an aries too but his mars squares my moon and its just GOD AWFUL!!! He irritates me just by sitting there breathing! But in all it could very well work. Do a synastry chart and there will be your personlized answer
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yes! Aries likes to argue as a bonding mechanism and I don't think any other zodiac sign understands that other than another aries! The passion is there and we don't take temper tantrums to heart as they don't last very long. However, I would look at other planets to see the whole picture. My last bf was an aries too but his mars squares my moon and its just GOD AWFUL!!! He irritates me just by sitting there breathing! But in all it could very well work. Do a synastry chart and there will be your personlized answer
i looked up his birth chart. it looks like he has a virgo moon. gggrrr lol it doesnt matter it looks like it is coming to end and it never got going in the first place. lol
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Aries men are WAY more selfish than the woman though.
I disagree. We're selfish in different ways - it's a man vs woman perspective I guess.
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and what ways would that be? the different ways?
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Aries men are WAY more selfish than the woman though.
I disagree. We're selfish in different ways - it's a man vs woman perspective I guess.
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True. You have a point. Woman ive been friends with. The men romantic so i see what you saying but ive also had aries men friends and the selfish streak is definitely there
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Aries men are WAY more selfish than the woman though.
I disagree. We're selfish in different ways - it's a man vs woman perspective I guess.
and what ways would that be? the different ways?
Hmm one example is how each of us is willing to entertain our partner. The aries women I know are chill but wouldn't be a goofball to make a guy laugh. they usually need to be charmed first before they give any attn away

basically, aries guys imo are more likely to want to please people upfront. so I see that as one way of us being less selfish.
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oh i can be a goofball. lol and i have many aries guys and selfish does not come to my mind. now my virgo ex was selfish. most of the aries guys i have met trying to help me feel better about myself and have had my back at one point or another.
Posted by ScorpioTruth

I feel like that would be one hostile ass relationship 😳 all the Aries I know are hot headed and short tempered af.

i only loose my temper after putting up with a lot of shit for months. but no one remembers the 4 months i didnt loose my shit only the time i loose it because i was pushed to far. just saying
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I feel like that would be one hostile ass relationship 😳 all the Aries I know are hot headed and short tempered af.

i only loose my temper after putting up with a lot of shit for months. but no one remembers the 4 months i didnt loose my shit only the time i loose it because i was pushed to far. just saying
I get it! I understand. smile

- sincerely,

My mars in Sagittarius lol
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yea i cant help that i am great at loosing my shit when i do. i go all outLaughing
Ram boy tried to put it on me is the reason why we have not gotten together. Bull honky tonky shit. lol its his virgo moon. i am starting to think virgos are very delusional. really i am thinking that.

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update. stupid aries guy unfriend me on facebook but still has the balls to lie and say he really does want to see me. bull honky tonky. he just doesnt have the balls to say he cant handle the real me. he said he could. i warned him that i am to much for people and can be very overwhelming. he didnt even have the balls to tell me he unfriend me. he can take his nice looking cock and stuff it in a food grinder. at less other guys would have banged me first. what happen to the good old days where a girl could at less get a good bang before a guy starts acting like an ass. i got all the guy bull and no cock.
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It depends.
i know it depends on a lot of things. i really am wondering if he is my twin flame thingy. i also think i had a vision about him before he friend me on facebook. I knew him back in school.
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The one who doesn’t stop you from moving away? Fuck him! And I don’t mean have sex with him...
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It depends.
i know it depends on a lot of things. i really am wondering if he is my twin flame thingy. i also think i had a vision about him before he friend me on facebook. I knew him back in school.
The one who doesn’t stop you from moving away? Fuck him! And I don’t mean have sex with him...
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i wanted to get something out of the whole thing.Laughing
Aries women can make it work with any of the 4 Cardinal men, with growth and some sacrifice.

In my experience though, Libra and Cancer are less likely to find common language with them. Due to the fact that most possible Merc-Merc combinations here have a much too different language and approach.
This is definitely one of my favorite pairings. The Aries couples I know are so in love and have so much fun together. Aries men and women are meant to be together. Aries women are best friends to us lady Libras. Our partners in crime.
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This is definitely one of my favorite pairings. The Aries couples I know are so in love and have so much fun together. Aries men and women are meant to be together. Aries women are best friends to us lady Libras. Our partners in crime.
i have not been around very many libras, but my first granddaughter who was just born is a libra with aries rising. so i have been looking into libras