Aries women, are you personal conflict adverse?
This topic was created in the Aries Women forum by TheLioness79 on Monday, June 30, 2014 and has 4 replies.
I have an Aries Moon and my oldest daughter is an Aries Sun (March 21). First I adore her and we understand with each other which runs deep. I love Aries! I was speaking with her yesterday and she was telling me about a conflict between two people at school and how she wasn't sure exactly what to do, how to handle it and how to help resolve it. She has always avoided personal conflict and if there is an external conflict she is able to take action on, then she tries to find a just resolution or play the mediator. I find myself the same, as personal conflict causes me way to much anxiety but I am able to play mediator and find just resolutions in external conflicts between other people. Does this make sense?
Yes I can understand that..
I am always one to poke my nose in if there is an issue as I think I know best in how to resolve it lol.
I also usually stick up for the underdog as I HATE unjust and unfair behaviour and I cannot let that go when I see it.
But yes, personal conflict.. It depends... I have a quick temper if I feel that someone is having a go at me and they don't have their facts straight and I'm right there with a comeback, but if someone faces me up and says they are hurt because of my actions then I feel very embarrassed and cannot deal with that emotional sort of conflict.
I am always one to poke my nose in if there is an issue as I think I know best in how to resolve it lol.
I also usually stick up for the underdog as I HATE unjust and unfair behaviour and I cannot let that go when I see it.
But yes, personal conflict.. It depends... I have a quick temper if I feel that someone is having a go at me and they don't have their facts straight and I'm right there with a comeback, but if someone faces me up and says they are hurt because of my actions then I feel very embarrassed and cannot deal with that emotional sort of conflict.
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I am conflict adverse like David Banner.
Posted by AriesGirl74
Yes I can understand that..
I am always one to poke my nose in if there is an issue as I think I know best in how to resolve it lol.
I also usually stick up for the underdog as I HATE unjust and unfair behaviour and I cannot let that go when I see it.
But yes, personal conflict.. It depends... I have a quick temper if I feel that someone is having a go at me and they don't have their facts straight and I'm right there with a comeback, but if someone faces me up and says they are hurt because of my actions then I feel very embarrassed and cannot deal with that emotional sort of conflict.
Yes agreed!
But I notice if you face it head on and let yourself feel whatever it is you feel naturally... whether it be shame, guilt, sadness, vulnerability... then forgive yourself for it realizing everyone is human and everyone makes mistakes, it will get easier.
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