Aries Women! I need advice.
This topic was created in the Aries Women forum by WeirdoVirgo on Sunday, August 25, 2013 and has 15 replies.
Okay, I know Aries will be the one's to pursue if interested, so how should I show my interest, so she thinks to pursue me? And I already know she has her eye on me. All I need to do is somehow, well, show my interest?
I'm a Virgo.
I'm a Virgo.
Talk to her.. Ask her simple questions about herself.. Single her out. Ask about her opinion on certain things. Don't do this all at once.. You'll chase her away. Subtleness is key.
Already got some ideas. Thanks.
Aries like to win, that doesn't mean she wants to be the one who pursues you in order to win you, she has shown her interest so pursue her.
Second decan aries female checking in... I don't know someone likes me unless they bluntly tell me... U could flirt, make eyes with me, but don't you think other guys do that already?? Most of my friends are male... thats common for me to experience. For me, you need to literally make me focus & listen in & tell me you like me, with a romantic gesture (I dunno... Some minuscule detail I mentioned that I'd be amazed you listened). We're all about ourselves... Show you listened to a tiny detail she mentioned about herself & tell her you like her... She'll see. I don't like to chase either... If someone doesn't show clear interest, I back off... Luckily my current partner kept up the chase, or we'd prob be history by now. Some aries don't like to pursue if we feel like we're gonna lose or be rejected, most of the time this isn't even the case, we're just impatient! Good luck xx
So.. Weirdo Virgo, how is everything? We want the deets.
Or atleast I do.
Tell her she's beautiful. Walk away. DONE
Posted by Aries2help
Second decan aries female checking in... I don't know someone likes me unless they bluntly tell me... U could flirt, make eyes with me, but don't you think other guys do that already?? Most of my friends are male... thats common for me to experience. For me, you need to literally make me focus & listen in & tell me you like me, with a romantic gesture (I dunno... Some minuscule detail I mentioned that I'd be amazed you listened). We're all about ourselves... Show you listened to a tiny detail she mentioned about herself & tell her you like her... She'll see. I don't like to chase either... If someone doesn't show clear interest, I back off... Luckily my current partner kept up the chase, or we'd prob be history by now. Some aries don't like to pursue if we feel like we're gonna lose or be rejected, most of the time this isn't even the case, we're just impatient! Good luck xx
And speaking of "deet," how long was the chase before you allowed your hero his prize?
Im impulsive, ill show you quick I'm interested. I get bored if its not reciprocated as I don't want to 'lose.' But if you drop those hints, even early on it will trigger something in her mind. Perhaps do that a few times & let her know or if you think it's time now, then go for it! My guy was extremely lucky... I was about to give up, he was literally a few days from me walking away as I didn't think he was interested; when an aries convinces herself she isn't.,. You're too late. Her decision is final.
As you know all the details behind your scenario, you be the judge. We are impulsive tho... So don't take too long!
or if you think it's time now, then go for it! My guy was extremely lucky... I was about to give up, he was literally a few days from me walking away as I didn't think he was interested; when an aries convinces herself she isn't.,. You're too late. Her decision is final. As you know all the details behind your scenario, you be the judge. We are impulsive tho... So don't take too long!
He isn't** not she.
I'm an Aries but if you could find out her Mars/Venus placements it could also help you to understand how she relates to love, communication etc. Personally, I like to know if a guy is interested. If he is very aggressive in pursuing me it will turn me off. I like the dance of courtship, so give me the space to reciprocate, and sometimes let me chase you a little. Just a little not too much, my poor Aries heart might feel rejected if you are not flattered by my flirtations.
Tell her straight up that you like her I know it takes a lot of guts but really that is the best way!!
I didn't read responses (I'm an Aries - no time for that.) but if she already has her eye on you, you don't need to do anything. Just sit back and be pursued... nothing really stops us from being persistent when we really want somebody.
Omgoshhh... what is happening...?!?!? I need an update... my poor aries self can't wait any longer!!!! Ahh.
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