Biggest GF turn off?!#$%@

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Posted by Gobby
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They wouldn't be my gf, in the first place, without having passed a basic checklist (e..g no unusual body odours, not brash or loud, has some tact, etc.).

Yes but once you get to know them usually their true selves come out more. Most girls can pass the basics in the beginning it's more when you are established in the relationship

In my experience, it's possible to suss them out, at least 75% of the time. You just need to stay alert and take off your blinkers.

But, okay, I will play ball...

An Aqua ex sometimes talked too much. Sometimes, it was a good thing, sometimes, it was a little annoying...
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We are annoying sometimes not just Aqua..us all lol
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They wouldn't be my gf, in the first place, without having passed a basic checklist (e..g no unusual body odours, not brash or loud, has some tact, etc.).

Yes but once you get to know them usually their true selves come out more. Most girls can pass the basics in the beginning it's more when you are established in the relationship

In my experience, it's possible to suss them out, at least 75% of the time. You just need to stay alert and take off your blinkers.

But, okay, I will play ball...

An Aqua ex sometimes talked too much. Sometimes, it was a good thing, sometimes, it was a little annoying...

We are annoying sometimes not just Aqua..us all lol

The day I believe that is the day when I either join a monastery or go somewhere quiet to die...
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Yes us gfs can be annoying but Aries are pretty easy going if they love you. Mine has put up with a fair bit but he's no angel..bottom line is I love him he's fun makes me laugh and is my bf. As long as the good outweighs the bad it's usually ok
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Condescending remarks. Say it once, just once, and I'm going to make my exit slow and painful for you.

Whether deserved or not that is the red flag of red flags.

Can you give me an example?

Intelligence attacks. Likely due to them being emotionally driven. But imo not good enough.
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Oh ok like putting you down? That's not nice to anyone but this must work both ways lol aries can be blunt too but I am digressing here.
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It’s probably more something personal and nothing to do with signs.

If they look at a cute dog and call the dog disgusting or something. I just don’t get it. I think women like that must have something wrong in their heads. My brothers wife is like that too, and her parents. I just don’t get it, it’s just a really bad sign in my opinion. I wouldn’t dump my girlfriend if she said it, or even argue with her about it, she’d just be dead to me, id just walk away and never talk to her again. I wouldn’t even feel bad about doing it, she’d be like an alien, so it wouldn’t matter.
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Mine hated when I repeated myself, probably the most out of anything. But it's my anxiety that causes that and him being a shit about it only made it worse.. so yeah, match made in heaven right there lol.

Omg I'm the same. I repeat myself all the time lol x are you still together x
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I repeat myself ALL the time! Because he doesn’t get it unless it’s repeated 5 times...then he understands it might be important...

Does t bother me...I’ll repeat...
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They wouldn't be my gf, in the first place, without having passed a basic checklist (e..g no unusual body odours, not brash or loud, has some tact, etc.).

Yes but once you get to know them usually their true selves come out more. Most girls can pass the basics in the beginning it's more when you are established in the relationship
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Please do tell. I am right there...
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Biggest turn off in a woman...

If she walks with her feet in a V shape. I mean, if that's how she walks, i can't even imagine what the rest will be like. There is just something about walking that needs to be at very least, let's say, gracious. lol

But in a GF, i don't see it that way. If she is my gf, she already crossed a high number of checklists that i have inside my head and i know exactly with what i am dealing with. That's how I operate.

But number one turn on thing for me, and by far, Inteligence. Basicly if i find her aperance to be beautiful (on my own definition of beauty in a woman) and i also reckon her as an Intelegent person, then i will start digging up for more on her persona. It's the mix of my 4 major placements that play's into this and it's te mix of her 4 major placements that will reveal to me who she is.

When it comes to astrology and rships compatibilities, and as i see it, sun and moon play's a huge role on it. Venus is how you "kick" the flame or how you get ignited and mars is how you operate. I think that mars compability is important in any group dynamic, so in just a couple, it's all the more important.

And mars compability isn't the same as in Sun, Venus or Moon. For instance a Mars in Pisces wold be an horrible match for my Mars, altough it's one of the best between their Suns. The language of mars in scorpio is extremly peculiar. Some Mars's wold never get it, others wold only understand some parts of who I am, but a mars in scorpio wold smile back right at me.

And in a rship, when it comes to both, both are allways looking for the same thing. Understanding on their Thoughts, their Feelings and on their Actions.

When it comes to turn off's and turn things on, you know, sometimes that thing that you think is the aspect of a person that you dislike the most about someone, it's sometimes what makes them so special to begin with. Well, as long as she doesn't walk with her feet in a V shape...lol ^^
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Posted by NemDeux

Had a long phone call with a mr aries last night. One of his pet peeves is my style of communication (i can go for days or weeks without a peep). So he said verbatim: "don't make me call you every time. you need to talk to me baby. send me a joke, curse me out, send me a song ....whatever it is you need to be in contact with me. So next time, you're calling me!" 😛😂😂😂

The bottom line is I think they enjoy a pro active partner ...sharing their thoughts or whatever else is going on. We ended up laughing and teasing each other about our vices (of which he has plenty).

And as direct and bossy/assertive as they come across, they do need verbal reassurance.

Being plugged into the other.


They soon tire of the same routine of calling texting etc always got to be changed up.
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Not be complimented, if compliments are given.

Where are you? Long time no see...

I'm still alive. I've just been spending less time online.

WHY?

I mean not why you are alive...

Why are you spending less time online?

Have you obtained a woman or something?

Ok. It takes an hour...then what?

A few reasons one is I'm working more as Christmas is one of the busiest times of the year for me, I'm doing other things like catching up on my films and yep dating again. I really like browsing the internet, but I felt like I was spending too much time being passive.
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What sign is she? Are you a movie director?
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Not be complimented, if compliments are given.

Where are you? Long time no see...

I'm still alive. I've just been spending less time online.

WHY?

I mean not why you are alive...

Why are you spending less time online?

Have you obtained a woman or something?

Ok. It takes an hour...then what?

A few reasons one is I'm working more as Christmas is one of the busiest times of the year for me, I'm doing other things like catching up on my films and yep dating again. I really like browsing the internet, but I felt like I was spending too much time being passive.

What sign is she? Are you a movie director?

The same sign as you. I can't get away from ♊. When I say films I have about 50 waiting to be watched, I've started enjoying watching them again.
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It’s SO funny!

Are our signs cute of what?

I once got these. Read for fun:

You want to know why aries never (or... rarely) fights with gemini? Because you don’t annoy us! It’s so hard to be mad at you innocent devils. Most signs annoy me, but not gemini

And

Ok, we get it. You guys are the cutest couple we've ever seen. You are truly in love and don't care about living in your little bubble of happiness. You sincerely love each other and we all envy you for it!

I’ve asked - Do you agree?

He said —Yeah...when you aren’t psychotic...

Lmao

And I have a small ton of movies to watch. Like 1-2 daily...is this an Aries thing?

Be happy! Tell it all! ❤️❤️
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Not be complimented, if compliments are given.


Just remembered you today...

I am usually showering him with compliments and apparently I haven’t said much for a day or 2 so when I said it he was like...nice to hear it.

I was like...whaaat? He said ‘lately’ he wasn’t sure about my satisfaction:..I almost chocked to stop myself from laughing. He was DEAD serious.

And I wouldn’t even noticed if it wasn’t for you mentioning it. 👍😂😂🤦‍♀️