can aries love again after a bad heartbrake—?

can aries love again after a bad heartbrake—?

sorry for not putting in anything on top

what i meant to say is that its been a while for me after a devastating break up by a gf of 5 years and im not sure if i'll ever be able to love anyone like i did
I know so many great girls but i have this mental block that i cant get pass it and i'm worried that i wont be able to give them the love they deserve
actually i think im in process of letting down one and i feel pretty crappy about it because she has not done anything worng

is that typical aries behavior or maybe one of my planets controling me?

Its all psychological...if you let her empower your mind..she will continue to do so....if you break free, you will be able to love again..everyone does...After my first boyfriend and i broke up, I thought love had no meaning and wanted to top myself..glad I didn't cos I wouldn't have met the wonderful Leo that I shared a very big part of my life with...wouldn't change that for the world...and now its my aries turn..he will get all my love and then some...

CAA .. I think it has a lot to do with failures. A lot of people have a hard time getting past the fact that something didn't work. When this happens, the situation seriously needs to be put into perspective.

Is it the person that one can't get past .. or, the action of not succeeding at something wanted?

Why let anything consume your life sooo much that its hard to overcome..I hate obstacles..in any shape or form..they should be blown to smithereens...and if that is a human being..then so be it too..My happiness comes first and foremost..

Also, CAA .. I want to add something, comment about something you said that has struck me.

Quote, "im not sure if i'll ever be able to love anyone like i did"

You never will, none of us do .. and perhaps this is something that would benefit you if you contemplated this for a while. Every person to whom we love or have a great fondness for .. our care for each of them comes in different forms, the care we recieve back is also unique because each person is different and has something different to offer. If you stress yourself out over thinking that you will never love the same way again, then you might never find another love because each person who touches our lives holds their own place in our hearts.

Only to her will you be able to love like her .. because she is only her and nobody else is her.

To love another person, means you love and adore a different part of them that belongs to only them.

Hope that helps 🙂🙂🙂

"what i meant to say is that its been a while for me after a devastating break up by a gf of 5 years and im not sure if i'll ever be able to love anyone like i did
I know so many great girls but i have this mental block that i cant get pass it and i'm worried that i wont be able to give them the love they deserve
actually i think im in process of letting down one and i feel pretty crappy about it because she has not done anything worng"

I witnessed this happen just recently...

Well, Class Act Aries (nice name)

I suppose like everything else in life - it is how we choose to see through our eyes the experience. How we choose to see it, is what we will experience.

All of life is an experience - and just that. Nothing lasts forever - we are each only given moments and it is up to us to decide how we want to use those moments. Do we want to see them as an opportunity for growth and find the good in them or do we want to focus on the bad and see the saddness in them? Moments are moments until we, by our thoughts give them a name and from that name comes our feelings.

What you are feeling is perfect for you at this time - you are learning something about yourself that only you can learn. We have all been where you are CAA, - it does get easier, time does heal, you will love again because you my friend are love. You are just hurting at the moment and this is okay...have faith in yourself - love is one of those things that never dies...it comes in all shapes, sizes, day or night...it is an unexpected pleasure.

*you heal faster when you focus on the good that your relationship brought to you along with being grateful that she came into your world.

Bestest to you CAA 😉

Hey class I am sure there is hope for you. My Aries boyfriend was married for 14 years. He caught his exwife cheating on him in the act. He kicked her out and burned the bed and it took two years before he was even interested in the idea of meeting any females. He dated a few woman, very casually before we met. He decided he liked what he saw with me and pursued me quickly and made sure I became his girlfriend without too much delay. Now he is as he likes to put it 110% committed and completely in love with me and he spoils me rotten. If it doesn't feel right, move on, don't feel bad about it, some of us are just meant to be short termers for whatever reason. The long term one who will really matter to you is out there and you will meet her when you are ready to. Keep in mind that love grows, if it isn't growing, it isn't love.

Definately, it's just a matter of finding someone else that you really like who presents themselves as a challenge you have to win over. This will force you to focus your energy on winning that person over and away from your ex. What seems like the end of the world today will be meaningless eventually so hang in their!