can i trust my aries "boyfriend"?

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Libralove666
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I don't even know if he is my bf. Met him in a matrimonial site. Long distance. Survived with texting , Skype and finally met him after 3 months of online dating. He was all lovey dovey in the beginning but I could always sense his dominating nature. Never shared too much information about his past, however asked me everything about my life. As a libra, I love to talk and share my feelings, likes, dislikes and never hide anything from him. Ofcourse I liked him and didn't want to play any games with him. But after he went back to his country, he started avoiding me and started accusing for stupid things which I have never done. He also knew he was wrong. However I remained quite and started giving him more space by not texting or bothering him. He stopped texting me or calling me. But he was always online till late night. Really saddens my heart. I resisted not to text him. However after few days he starts texting again. I continued normally with him. However he kept behaving stupid and said that i am not a girl he will want to marry as I smoke or drink and I dont respect him and argue with him too much. Like wtf? And then sometimes he is being all sweet and cute.. Damn I just can't hate this guy though he doesn't deserve me.what is going on ? What does he wants. Oh btw he made me speak to his mom several times , we Skype all the time. I love her and he says she likes me too.But I am so confused. ARIES MAN HELP PLEASE !!
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Libralove666
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I do understand of him asking me not to smoke and drink. I was anyways thinking of stopping these habits as I just started smoking. But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words, I can't tolerate. He always tells me how pretty I am and also said that he likes me a Lot. He knew I love him and he would force me to say "I love you" to him. So when I did, he would change the topic. Wtf. I even confronted him about this but he ignored. He is such a charmer. Cute guy indeed. But his stupid behaviour drives me crazy. But as a true libra, I do understand that i must have hurt him someway or the other. Hence this behaviour. I am not perfect myself, however when I know I did something wrong I try and rectify it or change my habit. Even I appreciate him of saying sorry to me when he accused me for something and later found out that he was wrong. But even then while saying sorry he had to say something harsh like " don't think I am chasing you, I am just saying sorry because I am fair". Oh btw, he came to my country to meet me for 5 days. I didn't sleep with him on the first day. However I couldnot resist this hottie on the 3rd day. After we made love he said he loves everything about me and that he really respects me. I have no clue why he said that. Anyways we always fight for something or the other. May be he likes it but I hate fighting. so after he went back to his country I told him that I didn't get my periods and he freaked out. Lol. I got it after 5 days from my date. But I didn't tell him this. When he started avoiding me and stopped texting me (even before telling him about the period thing) I called him to tell him that I am tired of him ignoring me like this and that I am ending this. But when I called him , the first thing he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad. Then i told him that don't worry even if I am pregnant it's not just his fault and that I should have been careful as well. I told him to leave it for me and that he should enjoy his holidays and stop stressing about this. After this text from him were onand off .but yesterday he sent me my fav song I told him when I met him. then again we started talking and we Skype after so many days. When we both saw each other in video we both had that sweet shy smile and that made me fall for him more. (Damn I LOVE HIM SO MUCH). But today again i was feeling low thinking how uncertain this relationship is going. And I want something I can be sure off. No idea if I should keep going with this guy for some more time and see how things go or should I just move on !
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Haha! Sounds a little similar to the my first contact with Mr Aries about a month ago. Period topic and all. Be very clear communicating with him. You sound maybe a little young? Be the grown up. We are both 31, I've realised how I can say things to leave people maybe in a state of confusion and maybe a little rejected in a bid to protect my ego or being hurt in the past. With him i've noticed I no longer do this-I just don't want to. Just be 🙂 enjoy the good times, leave him happy as us Libra's are great at doing! And don't stress too much.
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Libralove666
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Posted by Libramiss
How old are you both? He seems young. An unevolved Aries that's still trying to figure himself out and pushing his insecurities onto you.

It seems he likes you but still isn't sure of what he really wants.

I'm a libra too together with an aries man. Talk to him and let him know how you feel and would like to be treated and if he can't communicate with you about your needs then it's time to move on. Good luck. 🙂
Thanks for the reply.?

We both are 28 years old. I feel that he does like me. But this uncertainty kills me.. like I try to understand his side of story and do as much as possible to make him happy but he is so insensitive towards my feelings.?

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Libralove666
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Posted by Moonbutter
What country are you from and is he from? cultures and traditions can override astrology as more important to the whys of somethings.
I am from India and he is half Indian and half italian. But he seems to be drawn towards his Indians cultures like being conservative and all which I like to be honest. However why is he so unpredictable and insenstive to me ? Whatever the outcome will be I will always love him forever.

Thanks for the reply.??
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Posted by Libralove666
But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
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Does he think you are pregnant or did you tell him the truth?


My friends told me not to tell him the truth, because they hate him. But I somehow feel bad that i am hiding it from him. But sometimes I feel it's best to see his reaction. What if I was actually pregnant? ...
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I'm sorry but your friends are wrong. You cannot fake a pregnancy just because he isn't paying you enough attention.

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Libralove666
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Posted by Libralove666
But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
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Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
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Libralove666
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Posted by Libralove666
He knew I love him and he would force me to say "I love you" to him. So when I did, he would change the topic. Wtf. I even confronted him about this but he ignored.


What kind of sick insecure fvck forces his gf to tell him she loves him?

And stop apologizing if you did nothing wrong. None of that Libra sh it. Mmmkay?

Dude is playing games. You got attached after having sex. Detach yourself now Libra.
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What option do I have anyway...

Thank you?

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I don't even know if he is my bf.
Speaks volumes. Clear communication is key.
Thanks for the reply.. yeah we should clear things out but I feel if I push him too much about this, it might scare him away..
Be honest...

We don't like when people play games with our feelings...like...at all...

We are very funny and bla bla bla...but with feelings..just be direct..he will do the same 🙂
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What happens if someone is direct to an Aries and that Aries isn't YET seduced by the person declaring the honest feels?
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Libralove666
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Posted by facepalming
Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by Libralove666
Posted by Arian_Kisses
Posted by Libralove666
I don't even know if he is my bf.
Speaks volumes. Clear communication is key.
Thanks for the reply.. yeah we should clear things out but I feel if I push him too much about this, it might scare him away..
Be honest...

We don't like when people play games with our feelings...like...at all...

We are very funny and bla bla bla...but with feelings..just be direct..he will do the same 🙂
What happens if someone is direct to an Aries and that Aries isn't YET seduced by the person declaring the honest feels?

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Then i believe you laugh at yourself for being for honest and move on... ( I hate this)

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Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by facepalming
Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by Libralove666
Posted by Arian_Kisses
Posted by Libralove666
I don't even know if he is my bf.
Speaks volumes. Clear communication is key.
Thanks for the reply.. yeah we should clear things out but I feel if I push him too much about this, it might scare him away..
Be honest...

We don't like when people play games with our feelings...like...at all...

We are very funny and bla bla bla...but with feelings..just be direct..he will do the same 🙂
What happens if someone is direct to an Aries and that Aries isn't YET seduced by the person declaring the honest feels?


You don't seduce an Aries..

He chooses you ^^

Bear that in mind 😉

And if he does...just be honest with him... 😉
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Seems deep. Thats why aries can't have sharingans

Never been with any aries in my past.. guess this taurus is too boring for fiery devils
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Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by facepalming
Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by facepalming
Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by Libralove666
Posted by Arian_Kisses
Posted by Libralove666
I don't even know if he is my bf.
Speaks volumes. Clear communication is key.
Thanks for the reply.. yeah we should clear things out but I feel if I push him too much about this, it might scare him away..
Be honest...

We don't like when people play games with our feelings...like...at all...

We are very funny and bla bla bla...but with feelings..just be direct..he will do the same 🙂
What happens if someone is direct to an Aries and that Aries isn't YET seduced by the person declaring the honest feels?


You don't seduce an Aries..

He chooses you ^^

Bear that in mind 😉

And if he does...just be honest with him... 😉


Seems deep. Thats why aries can't have sharingans

Never been with any aries in my past.. guess this taurus is too boring for fiery devils
mehh...Sharingans are for Scorpios...

We already evolved to Rinnegan..

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hahah xD

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Accordingly to @dolluxe we just need sexy jutsu to win aries xD

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Libralove666
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Wtf. ...guys please tell me something.. I have started ignoring this aries for 2 days and now he is trying to contact me and text me. When he sees me online, he tells me that I am flirting with other guys and that I am cheating him..like seriously— I am online because I am checking him..lol.. and he thinks I am flirting with others..I never replied. Now he is sending me a pic of his with a girl. And then tells me to send me my pic with the guy I am with...wtf. ..when I saw the pic I knew its not a recent pic and he is making me jealous. Later after 3 mins he text me that that girl is his cousin and that he is not like me.. he calls me cheater without any proof. I didn't reply again. Why is he doing this..? Why does he want now. Aries man why so complicated.. ??
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But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
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If you don't get the sarcasm then there really is no hope for you. Continue on in lala land.

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Posted by Libralove666
But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
If you don't get the sarcasm then there really is no hope for you. Continue on in lala land.

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Bingo...and let's be real OP, you're playing mind games as well...you like the drama which is "romance" and "passion" for you. I don't see the point in it but I'm that comes with the assumption that you actually want a healthy commitment...which it's obvious you don't. Why? Easy. For one, you wouldn't sleep with somebody until a). you actually become committed and b). they show they are worth committing to which this guy(regardless of sign) hasn't. You don't even know if he's "your boyfriend" and honestly I don't think you care. You like toying with him(and he you) since he said "you're not marriage material." That's what ironic about this whole situation. Aries men are not as dumb as people make them out to be. They are the Gods of War and very adept at strategy.

He knows you want a powerful, charming, domineering man...that you're weakness. And all he has to do is say...you're not good enough and now he's stringing you along using your competitive nature against you so you feel you have to "prove you're worthy" to him. And in the end, he's not going to choose you anyway and most likely he has other women.

So you can continue down this path or change course but the choice is yours. You're the master of your own fate. But if you continue, don't complain about what happens. Don't go asking your friends "why is he doing this" etc pretending like you don't know...because you do.

Good luck

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Wtf. ...guys please tell me something.. I have started ignoring this aries for 2 days and now he is trying to contact me and text me. When he sees me online, he tells me that I am flirting with other guys and that I am cheating him..like seriously— I am online because I am checking him..lol.. and he thinks I am flirting with others..I never replied. Now he is sending me a pic of his with a girl. And then tells me to send me my pic with the guy I am with...wtf. ..when I saw the pic I knew its not a recent pic and he is making me jealous. Later after 3 mins he text me that that girl is his cousin and that he is not like me.. he calls me cheater without any proof. I didn't reply again. Why is he doing this..? Why does he want now. Aries man why so complicated.. ??
Remember....he thinks you are pregnant with his baby. He thinks you are his now.

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Libralove666
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Posted by Libralove666
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Posted by Libralove666
But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
If you don't get the sarcasm then there really is no hope for you. Continue on in lala land.


Bingo...and let's be real OP, you're playing mind games as well...you like the drama which is "romance" and "passion" for you. I don't see the point in it but I'm that comes with the assumption that you actually want a healthy commitment...which it's obvious you don't. Why? Easy. For one, you wouldn't sleep with somebody until a). you actually become committed and b). they show they are worth committing to which this guy(regardless of sign) hasn't. You don't even know if he's "your boyfriend" and honestly I don't think you care. You like toying with him(and he you) since he said "you're not marriage material." That's what ironic about this whole situation. Aries men are not as dumb as people make them out to be. They are the Gods of War and very adept at strategy.

He knows you want a powerful, charming, domineering man...that you're weakness. And all he has to do is say...you're not good enough and now he's stringing you along using your competitive nature against you so you feel you have to "prove you're worthy" to him. And in the end, he's not going to choose you anyway and most likely he has other women.

So you can continue down this path or change course but the choice is yours. You're the master of your own fate. But if you continue, don't complain about what happens. Don't go asking your friends "why is he doing this" etc pretending like you don't know...because you do.

Good luck



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As harsh as it sounds.. it's the reality.. tbh even I don't see any bright future with such an immatured person. But I like to give chance to things and see if they work..

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But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
If you don't get the sarcasm then there really is no hope for you. Continue on in lala land.

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Libralove666
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Update :

So I was ignoring his msgs and calls for 3 days. I did it all of a sudden. Everything was good but I got pissed off because he always comes online and replies my text after hours.. I said hey after i landed back from work. He replies me after 4 hours. I then decided not to reply to him at all for 3 days.. like really 3 days..lol.. I was counting.. he was going crazy but was not showing me much because he knows that is his weakness. He was texting me things like my fav song..and suddenly saying things like " I know you are partying with guys. It's ok send me your pics with your guy." I ignored ...then day 2 he sends a picture of his with 2 girls partying.. lol. One could clearly see it's an old pic still he was trying to make me jealous. He msges with the pic " I am sending you mine, now send yours. Lol wtf. . I was angry and sad at the same time but after 5 secs he says " haha she is my cousin, I am not like you.. cheater.. Go to parties and smoke and drink." I ignored his text again but remained online . He was also online the whole time. Day 3 he text me " Run run run..

After travelling whole world u ll always hv to go home at the end" . I don't even know what he meant. Then after few hours he called me in Skype. As I am obviously foolishly in love with him, I picked the call. I didn't show my face but I could see his face. First thing he says is something so stupid like "hey tell me the name of the app where you are learning new language." I said calmly I don't know.. (just like that). Then he flashes that cute smile and says you know it comeon. Then i thought this is the right time to tell him what's in my mind. I told him everything what was bothering me and that I am not who thinks I am and that i am just pretending to be someone I am not just to make him jealous.also told him that I love him a lot. I said " I don't care how you will behave after this confession but yes I do love you and I am telling you this to have peace in my heart." He was first trying to as usual debate with me but then I kept listening to what he was saying quitely. I was feeling so stupid to confess all these to him and I started crying silently ( my face still not visible to him). He stopped suddenly and asked me to come infront of the camera. As stubborn as he is I had to come infront of the camera. Though I wiped me tears before that but one can easily make it out with my red nose and swollen eyes. He then said " talk to me ... I wana listen to you today." But then he continues his speech. " I like you but I don't TRUST YOU. We both are very different. Your culture, your life style , your social circle. I want a conservative girl who respects me and doesnot argue with me.( basically one whom he can dominate... oh comeon!!) Then i told him that i am trying to understand him and that i do sometimes behave childish and think every person will accept my behaviour and I forget that not everybody is same. He then quietly listened to whatever I was blabbering... i got so emotional in my speech lol.. he also told me things like his astrologer said that he will do arranged marriage and not love marriage ( Indian thing..?) Then I somehow got a clue that he doesnot want me. I kept going on and off from the camera. He then says "Listen I am not getting married tomorrow..".then he giggled. I didn't get it. After sometime I told him that may be he is right and we are actually not meant to be together. But he will always remain in one special corner of my heart. ( awwww...me hopeless romantic ?) then he changed the subject and starts telling me about the stress he is going through because of his dad's loss in business. I calmly listened to him and supported him whatever he was telling me. But then I was like what the were we talking and what is he talking now...? Oh damn This guy is so confusing... anyways...love him so much... sorry the long potato post. Thanks for the reply guys..
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Posted by Libralove666
But the way he sometimes hurts me with his harsh words

he would force me to say "I love you" to him.

I even confronted him about this but he ignored.

he asked me if I was pregnant. That moment something clicked me to actually keep him in confusion because that day was my last day of my periods. Haha.. it was sad and funny at the same time seeing him freak out so bad.


He sounds like a winner. And you sound like a prize.
Lol I didn't get you...is it something good ?
If you don't get the sarcasm then there really is no hope for you. Continue on in lala land.

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Lol. OP is Indian. Possb slight language barrier that won't allow for sarcasm to be picked up on :-P
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Libralove666
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so I met him again.. I flew all the way to another country to meet him. Mr Aries was different this time. last time I told him that I don't care about expensive gifts, I am easy girl to impress and a simple rose can make me happy. he remembered ! he did get me flowers this time. Of course I had a huge smile on my face when I saw him. we both look so good together ...ahhh... but after 10 mins of chatting his eyes started wandering around the airport. he saw a team of female hockey players and got so excited. he asked me to take a picture of him with them . I was like seriously— instead of paying me attention he was in his wonderland . one thing is for sure I noticed that he loves to take pictures and he cares a lot about his looks. but I ignored that. we went to a hotel , stayed for 3 nights. first 2 days everything was good. 3rd day omg...i was literally one step away from throwing things and screaming my heart out. when he was sleeping in the morning on the 3rd day , I woke up to use the washroom. I saw his phone blinking. he has 2 missed calls from some girl and this smarty saved her number as "someone's mom" . even the first time we met he had msg from some other girls' mom. like why will someone's mom msg a guy at night. I freaked out and I asked him what was this all about. he started laughing and said it's nothing like you thinking.. he then after sometime tells me that his dad is looking for a girl for him for marriage and he wants her mom to call him.. I was like wtf.. such a stupid excuse.

then i started feeling really destroyed and used by him as i really love him so much but he is doing this with many girls. I was so furious I wanted to smoke. I asked for cigarettes from the hotel and started smoking right infront of him. it's was stupid of me to act so impulsively and I regretted it so much because I knew somehow he was trying to change himself a bit for me and although he may be talking to other girls , I knew that i was something more than the other girls. he got angry ofcz. we had to go out at that particular moment and he asked me in a non interested tone if I want to go with him. I said no. he said" are you sure, I will not beg you " I told him yes I am sure. omg ...he actually went out without me. I followed him after 10 mins. I called him and asked where he was he said he is down near the hotel and that he is looking for an atm. i met him and we both went out . he basically wanted a picture in that particular place as that place was very famous. oh this guy is so obsessed with his looks.. so shallow to be honest. my bad that I love him so much. so after that we went for dinner and drinks. before that when we came back to hotel we started talking again and he said this is why I will never marry you. you are a smoker. I said you are anyways playing games with me .. you are a cheater. how does this matter to you anyway if I smoke drink party. he just ignored me. then in the evening we went to our for drinks and dinner. I thought that it's anyways not gona gonna work with him ...so why should I stop myself from having fun anyways. so we both had drinks ..he specially ordered some shots for both of us. we both drank so much that day.. ok in the club the photographer took several pictures of us and separately few of mine single pictures. after the photo session Mr Aries says "this is why I don't marry you.. how could you allow them to take pictures of you. you are like everywhere on Facebook pages ". I said what's the harm in taking pictures. he just ignored. then slowly as I was getting drunk I was getting emotional and stupid. I asked him what type of girl is your girl. he says " who is only mine..who is not into all these flashy world. " he said I will make you meet her when I get married. I was so heartbroken like what am I doing here. I asked him why is he behaving like this in this relationship and cheating me . he said, " first of all I am not cheating you because we are not in a relationship. " I was like wtf.

...i asked why are we still sleeping together. he said because I like you.

after that we went to another club and we got super drunk and when we were going home on the way to our taxi we saw a small vendor with balloons and I said wow balloons. he ignored. then i started crying thinking of all these he said and thinking how stupid I am to come all the way to meet him thinking he started loving me again. I was walking down the street crying and he went somewhere wandering. one girl and a guy ( looked like a couple) were passing by and when they saw me crying asked me if they can help. i started crying more and started telling about this Aries guy and how he is treating me even though I loved him so much. suddenly this Aries appears with a balloon in his hand and when I saw the balloon , I don't know why exactly I did that , I took my cigarette and burst it. Then this couple started talking to him and told him I am very upset . in a fun way the guy asked him infront of me if he likes me why is he not committing to me. This rude Aries says " No I will never marry her". How can someone be so heartless.? on top of it he starts flirting with that girl (we thought they were couple but they said they are just friends), asked her name and said let's add each other on Facebook.. like are you kidding me.?? on my face?? and that other guy starts flirting with me.. what the hell is going on here. is this a fucking movie. ? next day we woke up and had breakfast together.. he expected me to feed him because he was too hungover. I happily did as I love him though my head was hurting too.we acted again like nothing happened and we cuddled the whole day. in the evening when I was supposed to go to my country back after few hours i started playing some romantic sad songs and we were cuddling again. he somehow seemed to love it...( usually he says he doesnot understand these sad dramas). when I went for shower I left my phone in charging and some guy from my dating site msged me with whom i started talking casually after i started seeing red flags from aries. omg Mr. Aries got very upset and started lecturing me that I pretend to be Angel and I am no less than him in cheating .when i started proving myself he hugged me weirdly and said it's ok in a sarcastic way. I was like "of course if you not giving me commitment what do you think I should ... never move on..?" he said "yes move on but not like this. these dating sites are bad, these guys will just use you nothing else( like seriously what are you doing with me). tell your parents to look for you a nice rich guy". then before I was supposed to leave for airport I asked him to take pictures together and he said enough of pictures. he was being very far and sitting distant with me. I felt really bad. he said let's not take so many pictures . who knows may be you will show it to my future wife tomorrow. OMG , I WAS TOOO DEVASTATED TO HEAR SUCH THINGS. I didn't cry this time

he dropped me at the airport and after he reached hotel he started texting me that he is missing me so much. he said it atleast 20 times. I am acting cool but still I told him that it's fine, he just needs to go online and start talking to other girls and will be happy again. He told me he wants to go to Bangkok next month with because he likes to spend time with me (and also he gets cheaper tickets from me.. such a devil). i said I will see. he said he is looking forward to it. of course now it's clear that he used me nothing else. but I would like to hear any idea or interpretations from you guys..

Thanks!
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Libralove666
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Posted by ImTheRam
I actualy read all of that ^^

I will comment latter on what i think of it, when i got time 😉

But i can tell you this...he likes you 🙂

You are just doing some silly mistakes...

He is not inocent by all means...but he his clearly playing your *game*..

And you dont want to do that with an Aries...you will probably *loose*...we are *masters* at playing those types of games, arent we kids after all ? 😉

He still doesnt trust you...you have your escape valves (dating site)..and he is allways showing you..that he also does... 😉

I will add more when i can ^^




What game am i playing? I am obsessed with him and i cant seem to like anyone else. Cant he sense that ? Anyways i know my post is too unnecessarily long but i wanted to share every detail so that you guys can actually see whats happening. I am so heartbroken and i feel i am falling into depression because of this.

will love to hear more from you @ ImTheRam.

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Posted by ImTheRam
I actualy read all of that ^^

I will comment latter on what i think of it, when i got time 😉

But i can tell you this...he likes you 🙂

You are just doing some silly mistakes...

He is not inocent by all means...but he his clearly playing your *game*..

And you dont want to do that with an Aries...you will probably *loose*...we are *masters* at playing those types of games, arent we kids after all ? 😉

He still doesnt trust you...you have your escape valves (dating site)..and he is allways showing you..that he also does... 😉

I will add more when i can ^^




What game am i playing? I am obsessed with him and i cant seem to like anyone else. Cant he sense that ? Anyways i know my post is too unnecessarily long but i wanted to share every detail so that you guys can actually see whats happening. I am so heartbroken and i feel i am falling into depression because of this.

will love to hear more from you @ ImTheRam.

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Read this again::: *but after 10 mins of chatting his eyes started wandering around the airport. he saw a team of female hockey players and got so excited. he asked me to take a picture of him with them* . Can you imagine, if he does that when you hardly know him, he will be off like a shot when he has become a little bored of you

Well, instead of being obsessed with a guy that treats you this way, how about concentrating on getting your self esteem and self respect in order.....do you really want to be with someone that leaves you *heart broken*?

Do you think you are worth this kind of treatment?

If so, Wow

I would tell him to feck off, he sounds like an immature idiot
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No they are whores. But they do come home.
Lol true. My dad had a harem but always came home to my mom.
But would you want a guy like that to come home to you?

I wouldn't




Ofc I wouldn't. Hence I left the Cancer ex.
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Nice one.

You know, i am amazed at the way women tolerate bad behaviour from men....it is almost as though they will put with any old shit just to keep one

Jesus H Christ!



*desperation*
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No they are whores. But they do come home.
Lol true. My dad had a harem but always came home to my mom.
But would you want a guy like that to come home to you?

I wouldn't




Ofc I wouldn't. Hence I left the Cancer ex.
Nice one.

You know, i am amazed at the way women tolerate bad behaviour from men....it is almost as though they will put with any old shit just to keep one

Jesus H Christ!



*desperation*


Ehhh.. I've zero tolerance for infidelity.. I know other women who do let that crap slide, including my Pisces sister and my Leo mom. Something I'll never understand.

My Aries dad may have been a womanizer but I still love him very much and had a great relationship with him. I miss that man.
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It is good that you made a stand....i too have zero tolerance for that crap

I too had an Aries Dad...he was faithful to my mum for over 40 years, but used to flirt with women which i found annoying, but that is the Aries man for you (not for me). I miss my Dad too...huge role model for me 🙂

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If it would have happen with anyone else I would have said the same " have some self respect and move on lady". And I understand and see what's happening with me.. however I refuse to let it go. It is a vicious cycle and I know it's gona be like this forever. But it's getting so tough for me to let him go. Even i tried .. I texted him yesterday that i just wana be friends with him but initially he said ok as you wish and then he started saying things like "so now you are ready to date others right?" I mean comeon ...shouldnot I move on. ? He wants to have sex with me, pamper him and respect him but he said on my FACE that i will never marry you. is he testing my patience or what? I don't mind his bluntness because it's good for me to see his real thoughts though it hurts too much. But why is he texting me again and again after i told him just be friends. He sent me romantic song when I stopped replying to his nonsense. He is repeating the same old jokes we laughed about when we were together.

Comeon he can't have both.. I believe in this astrology s h i t too much anyways and when I read his horoscope for next year it says all beautiful things about his love life and all. And mine is s h i t as 2016. I don't want to be miserable again. I can't see him with another woman....I JUST CAN'T..
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You two both need to calm down.

It seems like he is instigating and you are overreacting.

Why did you get upset when he wanted a photo with hockey players? Was he checking them out or just a huge hockey fan?

Stop playing into his game. When he says he won't marry you just say, "good cause my parents would kill me if I brought you home" or don't say anything at all. Give him zero reaction.

The thing that I don't understand is telling strangers on the street details about your relationship. Why do this? I understand that you were drunk but that was unnecessary on your part. For me personally, that would really big me if my partner cried to strangers about me.

He definitely likes you but he also likes the power that he has over you. Take that power away.
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You two both need to calm down.

It seems like he is instigating and you are overreacting.

Why did you get upset when he wanted a photo with hockey players? Was he checking them out or just a huge hockey fan?

Stop playing into his game. When he says he won't marry you just say, "good cause my parents would kill me if I brought you home" or don't say anything at all. Give him zero reaction.

The thing that I don't understand is telling strangers on the street details about your relationship. Why do this? I understand that you were drunk but that was unnecessary on your part. For me personally, that would really big me if my partner cried to strangers about me.

He definitely likes you but he also likes the power that he has over you. Take that power away.



To be honest i was so emotionally imbalanced I didn't know what else to do than to share with random people about my life. I felt stupid next day. But I have noticed this thing in me that I like to open my mouth about my life too much to my colleagues at work. I always like to hear people's opinion about certain things I can't figure out myself. And also it's a way I feel it helps me lighten the burden I am carrying in my life.
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You two both need to calm down.

It seems like he is instigating and you are overreacting.

Why did you get upset when he wanted a photo with hockey players? Was he checking them out or just a huge hockey fan?

Stop playing into his game. When he says he won't marry you just say, "good cause my parents would kill me if I brought you home" or don't say anything at all. Give him zero reaction.

The thing that I don't understand is telling strangers on the street details about your relationship. Why do this? I understand that you were drunk but that was unnecessary on your part. For me personally, that would really big me if my partner cried to strangers about me.

He definitely likes you but he also likes the power that he has over you. Take that power away.



To be honest i was so emotionally imbalanced I didn't know what else to do than to share with random people about my life. I felt stupid next day. But I have noticed this thing in me that I like to open my mouth about my life too much to my colleagues at work. I always like to hear people's opinion about certain things I can't figure out myself. And also it's a way I feel it helps me lighten the burden I am carrying in my life.

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You mentioned that you were drunk. Alcohol and emotions never mix well.

I don't know this guy so I can only speak for myself. I have Aries moon and it's my #2 dominant but if a guy made it a habit of dragging strangers into our arguments I would dump him. If I really liked the person they would get 1, maybe 2 warnings at the most. The fact that these strangers were giving advice and making comments would've sent me over the edge. I would've left you right then and there and never looked back.

You gotta get those emotions in check. Have a friend you can text or post on here but don't make public spectacles.
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I don't even know if he is my bf. Met him in a matrimonial site. Long distance. Survived with texting , Skype and finally met him after 3 months of online dating. He was all lovey dovey in the beginning but I could always sense his dominating nature. Never shared too much information about his past, however asked me everything about my life. As a libra, I love to talk and share my feelings, likes, dislikes and never hide anything from him. Ofcourse I liked him and didn't want to play any games with him. But after he went back to his country, he started avoiding me and started accusing for stupid things which I have never done. He also knew he was wrong. However I remained quite and started giving him more space by not texting or bothering him. He stopped texting me or calling me. But he was always online till late night. Really saddens my heart. I resisted not to text him. However after few days he starts texting again. I continued normally with him. However he kept behaving stupid and said that i am not a girl he will want to marry as I smoke or drink and I dont respect him and argue with him too much. Like wtf? And then sometimes he is being all sweet and cute.. Damn I just can't hate this guy though he doesn't deserve me.what is going on ? What does he wants. Oh btw he made me speak to his mom several times , we Skype all the time. I love her and he says she likes me too.But I am so confused. ARIES MAN HELP PLEASE !!

I cant believe what i read. Woman you dont love yourself at all.

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And they say Libra is bad at relationships bbboooyyy

Leave that P.o. s. Alone asap. All the signs are there
Wold you say you "love" to a woman that have a acc on a dating site?..and receives messages from them on the phone when you are on the hotel with her ?..

Wold you trust her?..

True..all the signs are there 🙂

They are both doing the same thing..the same mistakes...

What wold you do if you bought a balloon for her and she poped it right away....humm...i guess a Cancer could have slaped her in the face...a Scorpio could have left her leaving at the hotel room in the middle of the night...A Pisces wold buy a new balloon...welll the Aries..he flirts in front of her to tease her again....after all..he knows this is her downfall..lol ^^

"Don't look at the finger...look at were the finger is pointing." 😉
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Ok so , did I tell you guys why I was in that dating site? It's because if he can be in dating sites, flirt infront of me , make me jealous , is it wrong if I do the same? I turned down so many better guys just because I started loving this Man so much. But when you see all these behaviour of him and saying things right on my face , is it bad to do the same to make him feel what I am feeling? My probIem is i try and give as much chances i can in relationships but ofcourse some take advantage of it. I can say that when libra is finally in love , they love hard! And I don't ever cheat if I see that the other person is as committed as I am.

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