clinginess and Aries

Do any of you Aries people find to become emotionally attached to everything especially people? Do you find you can be alone? Or always want company?

Do any of you Aries people find to become emotionally attached to everything especially people? Do you find you can be alone? Or always want company?

How do you deal with yourself ? Especially when you cant control something?
I usually skip town or change something or cut someone ogf completely.

I love my space & freedom. sometimes when im in a relationship i can be hot & cold. i dont remember my chart bt i have Capricorn some where in there lol. so .. somtimes i like to be affectionate & touchy & i want to be around my bf then sometimes id rather be alone or out with friends.

i honestly think its a perfect combination for a healthy relationship(:

Posted by kindleberry
Do any of you Aries people find to become emotionally attached to everything especially people? Do you find you can be alone? Or always want company?

Not usually

Yes, I can be alone.

When I need company it is usually a wedding or funeral.

Nope i never get too attached to people anymore...not my friends not my fam not anyone....I am not clingy and I love to be alone. When I want company I have many people I can be with. When I was younger I would get attached to my friends alot....I would spend a bunch of time with one friend for like two months straight and then that would die down and then get close to another not purposely but it always worked out like that. The brief occurences when I have dated I wasnt clingy then either, I dont like people clinging to me and I return the same courtesy.

People are too fickle for me to get so attached now...I hate being let down.

Posted by bkbella86
People are too fickle for me to get so attached now...I hate being let down.

This is exactly how I feel...no more expecting things from people cause they always change and leave 😢
I can get pretty freaking clingy in relationships and can even be a tad jealous/possessive with new friends even! I blame my mars in cancer and afflicted venus... I hate caring too much and not getting enough in return. It's funny though cause if I'm by myself I'm content and would rather be alone many times.

Hey, I am an Aries new to the forum and yes I do get v emotionally attached to guys; currently a Leo man who it feels like has really broken my heart! When I'm with someone I'm all in and if I get the right signals I'm honest about my feelings and my impatience gets the better of me if I don't get the same loyalty back! I have found it hard to let him go so I have had to cut him off completely for my own sanity - and self respect. I am a loner Aries in the fact that I really like my own company but I also need to keep busy to keep myself in check :-)

If I really like somebody I tend to cling as well. It takes a lot of conscious (almost fake) control in order to hold the balance and not smother that person. It really makes me feel at ease when I find out that person actually enjoys it and when they don't I feel awkward..

One way to deal with myself, especially when I can't control something is to get busy with my own life. Just do things for yourself, keep yourself busy and use that time to grow. Read, discover new music, spend time with the family and direct your energy onto things that make you happy. Try to remain independent and don't attach your feeling of self worth to a specific person.

Im not literally clingly when in love. But i do want to treehump him over and over again and..... ok i do become clingy. I think i become clingy because in my perspective is the person your in love with is either going to make you or break you. And i keep trying to protect myself from breaking (being the person is slow or lacks ambition)I want to build a whole action, drama, thriller, romance genre story with my love, those are my ties. Lets explore the world together spending almost every minute building with eachother.