Posted by Dressa2008Yeah I've noticed the communication thing. He seems to be much better in person over text messages. He reads them and just does not reply. I think I over did it the last 2-3 days (meaning like 1-2 messages and seeing him for a short like 15 min kind of smoke session thing). I guess I'll back off for a bit.
I am an Aquarius female and the last guy I was involved with was an Aries. Although him and I didn’t work because he was overly immature, I think we could have worked out well if he wasn’t and didn’t play games. I think Aquarius and Aries make a great match if both signs respected each other differences. I know for myself and many other Aquarian friends of mine we just suck at communication unless you’re right in front of us. We may talk to a ton of ppl but when we have an eye for a certain someone then they’ll get the most attention out of ppl we deal with. The thing with Aquarian u ha do to find a balance between communicating to show interest but don’t over due it because that comes off as clingy and may be a threat to our independence. So gradually show interest and flirt a bit because sometimes we get confused about others intentions for us and we’ll eventually get the hint. If we’re interedted back then we’ll communicate with you often unless there is some type of turmoil in our life because if there is then we withdraw until our problems are solved.
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by windbells
Does anyone have any stories/experiences with that? I'm an Aries and currently seeing an Aquarius man. Found them very eccentric and unique. Really drawn to their passion and ambition about certain things. Always seems that they're into a lot of new, crazy things, but their communication is literally the worst. I can be pretty impatient, but I'm trying to not contact them often, maybe one or two texts a day? Is that too much? They seem to be an extremely free-spirit and talk to a ton of people. Just confused and unsure how to communicate to them, or will they communicate with me if I just stop communication on my end? Any thoughts
just be who you are and he ll fall in love with you
be open, straightforward, and impatient
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Posted by bittercupcakeThat is definitely very true. We Aries pursue very hard. I'll see what it's like in the next few days. I see him often since our university and grad program in general is small. I'll just smile or wave the next few days and see if he rings me up or tries to strike a conversation. I get so damn flustered when he stares, because when he does stare it's so damn intent and full of something? I don't know. He seems so social and at the same time he locks himself in his room the other 50% of the time, engrossed with his work. I'm trying to figure him out, and I think I'm just overanalyzing things way too much.
Also agree with AquaMan. Aquarius likes a game of cat and mouse, keeps things interesting. Aries tend to pursue hard when they decide they want a person, so backing off a bit after being consistent will throw us for a loop, which is what we Aquarius love.
Posted by windbellsDo not text him first. Make him work for your attention.
Update: He did reach out to me to say hello, but I was quite busy the past 2 days so I kept it short. We sat far away at our university's dining area, but were still somewhat across from each other. He kept staring at me so intensely again, and obviously I have no self restraint so I would stare back. His friends kept staring as well every so often. I assume he was talking about me? I texted him late last night, I noticed that if I ask more thought provoking/mind stimulating questions he is more likely to respond. I kept his attention for about 30 minutes before he disappeared.
Posted by aquarius_manLife has taught me to play games. When I’ve been I’ve been straight forward and honest I’ve been played and taken advantage of.Posted by bkbella86aries, who re straightforward can change their mind & mood just like that and they can play games, too in the beginning. 'chasing' = playing games.
Aquarius men and women play so many games. I don’t think I can mess with them personally. The women as friends yes but I can’t date the men.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by bkbella86aries, who re straightforward can change their mind & mood just like that and they can play games, too in the beginning. 'chasing' = playing games.
Aquarius men and women play so many games. I don’t think I can mess with them personally. The women as friends yes but I can’t date the men.click to expand
Posted by Fragrance
aries in love has no self-control! lol
on a positive note, if you're the one not to reply even for weeks, he/she won't mind
Love Aquas, their communication style is very laid-back
Posted by ariesnoPosted by aquarius_manHuh. Now I'm curious. I agree that we never actually get bored, I think that's a myth (it has never happened to me). But what did you mean by it?Posted by windbellsif you re sexy he ll go all in.Posted by aquarius_manPosted by bkbella86aries, who re straightforward can change their mind & mood just like that and they can play games, too in the beginning. 'chasing' = playing games.
Aquarius men and women play so many games. I don’t think I can mess with them personally. The women as friends yes but I can’t date the men.
That is very true. I find this situation more difficult this time. I'm usually quite good at the chase, but this time he's playing veryyy hard to get. I guess to reel me in and keep me entertained..or just confused? It's aggravating, but addicting. I'm glad it isn't boring, losing interest is a common problem for an Aries.
he does that to keep you confused, not entertained.
aries and aquarius never get bored. but they...anyway ill let you discover it all on your own.
but from my encounters with aries girls...i chased them the moment they disappeared from sight if i really cared about them. coz ive met aries girls who after an exciting and unusual start-off, insisted on asking me out and i couldnt ( i really couldnt, i wasnt playing hard to gey), and then they just lost their patience and interest and gave up on me
if he flirts with you, he is interested. if you intrigue him, if your mind does this to him, then he's interested. but the antitdote to his playing hard to get - i was playing so hard to get with my 1st aries she thought i wasnt even interested - is a cold shoulder and ignore. it. works. every. time. with. aquas.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manI take people for face value. The aqua I dated told me to my face that I’ve wanted you for years and gassed me up. The min I gave in he gave me the cold shoulder. Like shut down and all communication. When I would see him Around it was almost as if he was running from me. I never chased this guy ever. Then he came back claiming he went through something code for im not that into you and insisted he was into me and it would be diff and he literally did the same thing.Posted by windbellsif you re sexy he ll go all in.Posted by aquarius_manPosted by bkbella86aries, who re straightforward can change their mind & mood just like that and they can play games, too in the beginning. 'chasing' = playing games.
Aquarius men and women play so many games. I don’t think I can mess with them personally. The women as friends yes but I can’t date the men.
That is very true. I find this situation more difficult this time. I'm usually quite good at the chase, but this time he's playing veryyy hard to get. I guess to reel me in and keep me entertained..or just confused? It's aggravating, but addicting. I'm glad it isn't boring, losing interest is a common problem for an Aries.
he does that to keep you confused, not entertained.
aries and aquarius never get bored. but they...anyway ill let you discover it all on your own.
but from my encounters with aries girls...i chased them the moment they disappeared from sight if i really cared about them. coz ive met aries girls who after an exciting and unusual start-off, insisted on asking me out and i couldnt ( i really couldnt, i wasnt playing hard to gey), and then they just lost their patience and interest and gave up on me
if he flirts with you, he is interested. if you intrigue him, if your mind does this to him, then he's interested. but the antitdote to his playing hard to get - i was playing so hard to get with my 1st aries she thought i wasnt even interested - is a cold shoulder and ignore. it. works. every. time. with. aquas.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manThis is one of the reasons I avoid them now but I have more.Posted by bkbella86this sounds similar to my own story, but you know, we do go through some shit that s why we need some time out to recharge and rekindle..and we really try to change. i mean, i changed a lot since my immature 20's.
Then he came back claiming he went through something code for im not that into you and insisted he was into me and it would be diff and he literally did the same thing.ok, this idiotic by any standard. as an aqua u do all kind of dumb sshiit but this is a bit too much, looks like an abusive relationship. yea, avoid all contact. hmm, wonder if my aries exes think the same about me..an aries ego should never be hurt, agree
Then try’s to act like nothing happened when I see him next. I don’t even look his way now. He will yell my name across a street knowing I’m avoiding him. These are the games aquas play. My ego is still hurt, actually my feelings because I hate to get toyed with.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manNope I had a aqua girlfriend who was ruthless with men. Only used them. I now wish I was I had done the same, she was happy and well taken care of. And a aqua step brother who betrayed me several times. I also seen my friend get used a dogged by her aqua bf for years. I know this sign well.Posted by bkbella86yea, i hear you. i would do the same. was this ur first encounter with this sign
This is one of the reasons I avoid them now but I have more.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manTo change in what way? These days I don’t verbalize that much. I will say my peace maybe once then I’m out. If it feels like too much work I’m out.Posted by bkbella86he literally did the same thing.
let me ask you this: what do you - aries women - expect when you want a man to change? in which ways? do you verbalize or wait for them to feel it/ guess it?click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manI still like the sign I just don’t trust them. I had an amazing aqua boss who miss a lot and who would have been great for my career but he got sick and had to leavePosted by bkbella86betraying aquas. never knew these existed, i know of loyal aquas. i mean i am loyal to the point of being stupidly blind
Nope I had a aqua girlfriend who was ruthless with men. Only used them. I now wish I was I had done the same, she was happy and well taken care of. And a aqua step brother who betrayed me several times. I also seen my friend get used a dogged by her aqua bf for years. I know this sign well.
not that it should change your opinion of aquarius - u know bestclick to expand
Posted by ariesnoHe must really care for you and like you.Posted by aquarius_manSorry for intruding on your convo again, but hey, I'm an aries woman.Posted by bkbella86he literally did the same thing.
let me ask you this: what do you - aries women - expect when you want a man to change? in which ways? do you verbalize or wait for them to feel it/ guess it?
I verbalized it to my cap ex. I didn't say "You need to change", but I told him specifically all the things he did or said to hurt my feelings. 'Cause I couldn't take it anymore. He said I was being impossible and that I had to leave him alone. Which I did. For months. About six months later, he came back (I never expected that, actually), and now he no longer does any of the things that used to hurt me (I didn't expect that either). I never expected him to change (just be nicer), and I never thought he would, either -- at least not for me.click to expand