Normally I would say men because they are straightforward...but I mostly don't have the patience to deal with their egos...the women I know are strong but open-minded as well
indeed it is...major props coveredinscars!
Yeah because "just friends" does make it clear he doesn't want relationship, but still leaves the tree-trunking option open...
I respect a guy for saying that more than a guy who knows he doesn't want anything telling me he is totally in-love/wants me forever....if that was never his intention in the first place.
But also saying that upfront to the chick will get mixed reaction, they will either think you just aren't ready yet or could take it at face-value... There are some crazy stalker chicks out there who don't know a No is a No...so whether you say it don't doesn't stop the chick from falling for you one way or another.
Signed Up:
Feb 29, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1789 · Topics: 62
ok this is something that never fails to get on my nerves...the girls that say a guy is their "best friend" and then one day they realize they are desperately in love with him and they start dating. i have a few really good guy friends and i'm 100% sure that i will never up and realize im in love with them (and vice versa). those girls arn't "best friends" with guys, they have ulterior motives and they give friendship a bad name. i'm not being bitter i just think it's false advertising
i think most girls have encountered this situation at least one time: you're dating a guy, he has a female best friend, you meet her and she's either overly annoying nice to you or she's a total bitach and makes you feel like an outsider, stuff doesnt work out with the guy but whatevs, a few months later you hear that he's now dating his "best friend" hahahahaa
Signed Up:
Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
men friends... they don't store every little mishap and bring it up in tiny mean ways
Signed Up:
Apr 21, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 101 · Topics: 34
id say about 90% of my friends are guys, i generally prefer them as there is less bullsh!t
i am in to rock music, and fast cars and have more in common with guys. i spose im a bit of a tomboy under my girly exterior hehe.
girls are annoying, and just bitch behind backs, and are too "orange" with their fake tan lol
when im around girls i dont feel like i can be myself because there is pressure to look n dress a certain way.
so i feel more comfortable around guys.
usually tho after a couple of months my guy friends always declare they like me and wana be more than friends. duno why but this is impossible for me to get my head around. even if they are fab and i think theyr good lookin i cant think of them "that" way and the thought of being intimate with them feels wrong and almost like incest :S
the only girl friends i have, are strong characters, and who i see a bit of myself in.
Signed Up:
Dec 25, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 4299 · Topics: 74
I can't keep guy friends, they all fall in love with me and then I have to break their hearts.
I like having girlfriends... they're not all that bad :/.