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Falling for a Aries.
Posted by amethyst2002
Yeah, he's totally getting a kick out of all this attention. Stop communicating with him and do your own thing. It doesn't matter if he gets in touch with you or not after a month. This guy's a douche. He's just eating up this attention and stringing you along. He sounds really immature. PS- LDR are not easy to keep up. You sound young. If you are. you REALLY shouldn't waste your time on this bullshit. You have better things to do than bother with a guy IN ANOTHER STATE playing head games with you. Passing his tests? Really? Wow. How does it feel to be test driven like some car he's gonna buy? That's what he's treating you like- some object that's entertaining him.
Thanks for the advice.
lol but he is really nice, He says he tests me to trust me I guess lol, I think he has some trusting issues.
Dude is really cool he tells me that I have some kind of mind control over him like I can tell him what to do and stuff but who knows then he says I think too much lol. What doe LDR mean.
Do you think I should stop talking to him for about a month I feel like if I do that he won't try to make effort to call me or mesage me or something I noticed like I said I've been doing the chasing he does it once or says sorry all the time lol about him being busy.
Posted by amethyst2002
Yeah, I'd back off. It's not fair to you to do all the legwork. If a guy is really interested, he puts forth effort.
lol your right, I will give him space, Thanks.
Posted by Invigorate_Me
LM1 what do you want from this Aries dude?
I want to be more than just friends I know its going to take some time but if he is hinting or telling me he likes and blushing then I want something we can just be cool lol but don't tease me lol.
Posted by amethyst2002
He's just being retarded. I don't see hinting, I see immaturity and jerking you around. Why would you want to bother with that? Especially with a long distance thing? They're hard enough as it is. You don't need this bs to tack onto it.
What sign are you just wondering, He told me he really liked me and I know he likes me lol.
Posted by amethyst2002
I'm sorry, but if a guy told me I passed his tests and made other idiotic comments like that, I'd be turned off. Who says that?
Also, a good portion of your post was convoluted and hard to read. From what I picked up, he was jerking you around on the whole actual relationship bit, no?
I'm so sorry I was just blabbing off the mouth, Sorry for confusing.
I guess he says you have to test people but like I said he may have trust issues he doesn't trust anybody.
From what you write he doesn't sound that interested... no analysis involved. Try not to chase him and be the fall back gal.
Aries have good instincts, they know when to chase, especially the dudes and will ram you down.
Especially if you are Aqua, it is one of the more compatible signs for Aries.
The only thing I can say is be upfront with him if he makes contact. Very upfront, and ask him what the deal is as it's time to move on so you can get closure. Apparently, women need closure.
Are you sure you are not testing him too? Aquas test a lot too when unsure you know...
Aries have good instincts, they know when to chase, especially the dudes and will ram you down.
Especially if you are Aqua, it is one of the more compatible signs for Aries.
The only thing I can say is be upfront with him if he makes contact. Very upfront, and ask him what the deal is as it's time to move on so you can get closure. Apparently, women need closure.
Are you sure you are not testing him too? Aquas test a lot too when unsure you know...
Posted by zenalchemy
From what you write he doesn't sound that interested... no analysis involved. Try not to chase him and be the fall back gal.
Aries have good instincts, they know when to chase, especially the dudes and will ram you down.
Especially if you are Aqua, it is one of the more compatible signs for Aries.
The only thing I can say is be upfront with him if he makes contact. Very upfront, and ask him what the deal is as it's time to move on so you can get closure. Apparently, women need closure.
Are you sure you are not testing him too? Aquas test a lot too when unsure you know...
Thanks for the advice.
Okay I was being up front with him lol.
He told me he really likes me but he gets busy sometimes and he even said I deserve 200% but he wants to get his shit together.
Trust me I know in my heart that he really likes me but he gets me confused sometimes.
Here is my other thread.
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2030418
Okay I was being up front with him lol.
lol... yea, I know. I said if he does make contact.
I've seen his chart and this stands out to watch out for.
For him,
Moon Leo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aquarius
Mars Aquarius
From my perspective, this will mean, he will be very stubborn in his wants, needs, achievments. They are all fixed signs.
If he feels he needs to get himself together, do his thing before getting in a relationship, he will pursue that.
Also, I see where the testing comes from. A typical aries will not test you and make you jump hoops. Fixed signs are the ones that test loyalty.
And so you will with;
Sun Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
You on the other hand, if you feel there is a good attraction, he could be the one, you may unconsciously want to guide him (the Cancer moon will help you do this by clawing in).
Right now seems like wrong timing, chill with the good memories of him. It will be hard knowing it could go somewhere but you gotta let him make his way to you. He has discovered you, you have indicated you are available, you have done your part.
If you do anymore and he does not respond positively, you will be stung with bad memories or something like that.
You are doing the right thing anyway by not making contact. Stay strong! 😉
lol... yea, I know. I said if he does make contact.
I've seen his chart and this stands out to watch out for.
For him,
Moon Leo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aquarius
Mars Aquarius
From my perspective, this will mean, he will be very stubborn in his wants, needs, achievments. They are all fixed signs.
If he feels he needs to get himself together, do his thing before getting in a relationship, he will pursue that.
Also, I see where the testing comes from. A typical aries will not test you and make you jump hoops. Fixed signs are the ones that test loyalty.
And so you will with;
Sun Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
You on the other hand, if you feel there is a good attraction, he could be the one, you may unconsciously want to guide him (the Cancer moon will help you do this by clawing in).
Right now seems like wrong timing, chill with the good memories of him. It will be hard knowing it could go somewhere but you gotta let him make his way to you. He has discovered you, you have indicated you are available, you have done your part.
If you do anymore and he does not respond positively, you will be stung with bad memories or something like that.
You are doing the right thing anyway by not making contact. Stay strong! 😉
Posted by zenalchemy
Okay I was being up front with him lol.
lol... yea, I know. I said if he does make contact.
I've seen his chart and this stands out to watch out for.
For him,
Moon Leo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aquarius
Mars Aquarius
From my perspective, this will mean, he will be very stubborn in his wants, needs, achievments. They are all fixed signs.
If he feels he needs to get himself together, do his thing before getting in a relationship, he will pursue that.
Also, I see where the testing comes from. A typical aries will not test you and make you jump hoops. Fixed signs are the ones that test loyalty.
And so you will with;
Sun Aquarius
Thank you, can you explain more.
I wrote you a mail in your pm box thanks for the advice.
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
You on the other hand, if you feel there is a good attraction, he could be the one, you may unconsciously want to guide him (the Cancer moon will help you do this by clawing in).
Right now seems like wrong timing, chill with the good memories of him. It will be hard knowing it could go somewhere but you gotta let him make his way to you. He has discovered you, you have indicated you are available, you have done your part.
If you do anymore and he does not respond positively, you will be stung with bad memories or something like that.
You are doing the right thing anyway by not making contact. Stay strong! 😉
Posted by zenalchemy
Okay I was being up front with him lol.
lol... yea, I know. I said if he does make contact.
I've seen his chart and this stands out to watch out for.
For him,
Moon Leo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aquarius
Mars Aquarius
From my perspective, this will mean, he will be very stubborn in his wants, needs, achievments. They are all fixed signs.
If he feels he needs to get himself together, do his thing before getting in a relationship, he will pursue that.
Also, I see where the testing comes from. A typical aries will not test you and make you jump hoops. Fixed signs are the ones that test loyalty.
And so you will with;
Sun Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
You on the other hand, if you feel there is a good attraction, he could be the one, you may unconsciously want to guide him (the Cancer moon will help you do this by clawing in).
Right now seems like wrong timing, chill with the good memories of him. It will be hard knowing it could go somewhere but you gotta let him make his way to you. He has discovered you, you have indicated you are available, you have done your part.
If you do anymore and he does not respond positively, you will be stung with bad memories or something like that.
You are doing the right thing anyway by not making contact. Stay strong! 😉
Thank you, can you explain more.
I wrote you a mail in your pm box thanks for the advice.
Ok, I'll check it out.
Lol!!! I dunno what you mean *whistling*... lalala...
Just kidding... what I mean is Leo is fixed/stubborn so will not shake when they come to a conclusion... like most of the fixed signs... lots of determination in getting what they want...
You have a Leo moon sunnyrambi?
I'll kick your behind later for that 'wise zen' crack 😛
Posted by sunnyrambi
ok wise zen...i gotta ask...what's the dealio with leo mooners eh? you had it on your list of shyte to watch out for...so spill it...
Lol!!! I dunno what you mean *whistling*... lalala...
Just kidding... what I mean is Leo is fixed/stubborn so will not shake when they come to a conclusion... like most of the fixed signs... lots of determination in getting what they want...
You have a Leo moon sunnyrambi?
I'll kick your behind later for that 'wise zen' crack 😛
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Sorry for the long jacked up grammar long read, Typing fast lol.
My Question is should I stop talking to him for about a month or something like see if he chases me, Cause I noticed I've been doing the chasing he been doing the running lol, He only chased me once lol.