feel disgusted and stupid . I trust no man...no relationships.

Posted by Gemitati
Ok! I know it's seems so bad but I want to ask - how bad is it for men to read Playboy and other magazines? Is this considered cheating?

Just trying to give this guy benefits of the doubts..

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Posted by Libralove666

I knew he was a charmer and sort of a playboy. But I thought may be if things become serious or if I give it sometime may be he will be dedicated only to one single person. because i really liked him.

And you made the classic mistake: you thought you could change him, based on your own delusions.


You've got no sympathy from me...

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Posted by Libralove666
How much can a man or a woman cheat their partners.? I mean till what extend. And till what extend can you be fake with people.


Me and my aries been dating since Oct'16. I knew he was a charmer and sort of a playboy. But I thought may be if things become serious or if I give it sometime may be he will be dedicated only to one single person. because i really liked him.


We had lots of fights ...every now and then. It's a long distance relationship. But I did trusted him that he likes me hence all these fights and possessiveness. For good 4 months we were on and off. His conversations seemed like I am actually his gf. He will let me speak to his mom in Skype and tell me that she really liked me.


But from March I have been travelling his country for my work and I stay overnight with him. In this 1 month we really started becoming closer and closer and I could see his changed behaviour. Met his mom and all his family.. everybody seemed happy with me.


Once I saw his phone vibrating from some girls msg. I told him strictly that i didn't like what I saw. He begged ..pleaded and apologised and said that these girls he has met them before me and that are just friends.

I pouted for sometime but he was all romantic and cute and told me that he will stop doing all this. I forgived him after few hours.


After few days I saw his phone unlocked and started reading his chats. I know I am a bit*ch to do that.. but wait before you judge me. Omg I was literally shivering when I saw how many girls he speaks to. I am not kidding..around 50 girls he speaks to and around 10 are exclusive. He talks the same sh*t he talks to me. I thought I am special by no I wasn't. To be honest the only difference I found in his chats was that he asks these girls to send him naked pics and he never asked me. Infact once I sent him one and he scolded me for being so careless as he says that sending such pics in text are not safe. Wtf. .


During these visits his mom always told me how he has changed so much and that he wants to marry me. He even told her to select a ring for me.


But again I told him that i saw his chats and it's not funny anymore.. he told me that he accepts that he flirting with so many girls but he is only serious with me. I told him to delete them and start fresh with me. He said he doesn't want to delete them but he will get a new phone and start new.


And me I am still talking to him and haven't blocked him yet. To be honest I don't want to be alone all of a sudden and break up. I seriously loved him so much but he is a jerk .


My post is getting longer and longer but there are certain things which will definately make a huge shift to your opinions. I can't explain everything.


Don't know where to share all these feelings..

Please guide me and give me honest opinions keeping in mind that i love him like crazy. And I am not insecured. I am pretty independent and earn more than him and live a luxurious life.


Just want to know how difficult is it for a man to stay loyal to a relationship. If not in love why not just be straight forward aries?

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Posted by desilove333
??? he is a jerk, leave him. This is not OK for any man, no matter the zodiac, to do to a woman. Plus I heard a couple people say that most Aries are liars. (Naturally) so yeah I'd break it off. I think you have a hint of insecurity simply because some women who have everything in their life but a man starts to wonder why she doesn't have one. That leads to having one by any means, even if the guy is a jerk. A man is the one thing your money can't just buy you so you are more prone to deal with bull because that's the one thing you are missing. Just move on sweety. Plus he said he won't delete the messages. If you continue to deal with him, you have accepted thems and honestly can't complain about them again. Your decision.....

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Posted by desilove333
??? he is a jerk, leave him. This is not OK for any man, no matter the zodiac, to do to a woman. Plus I heard a couple people say that most Aries are liars. (Naturally) so yeah I'd break it off. I think you have a hint of insecurity simply because some women who have everything in their life but a man starts to wonder why she doesn't have one. That leads to having one by any means, even if the guy is a jerk. A man is the one thing your money can't just buy you so you are more prone to deal with bull because that's the one thing you are missing. Just move on sweety. Plus he said he won't delete the messages. If you continue to deal with him, you have accepted thems and honestly can't complain about them again. Your decision.....

Nah your sign is known for being liars. Big ones.

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