First Date with SAGITTARIUS male...advice?
This topic was created in the Aries forum by ariesbella30 on Thursday, February 26, 2009 and has 10 replies.
Hi! I met a nice Sag male online a few weeks ago... He lives in my city, actually just a few blocks away! lol Well, we've been communicating online, through messenger and this past week over the phone every night. We have a lot in common and laugh a whole lot together so I feel like it's a very refreshing beginning. The conversations have been very nice and "light", nothing too heavy but very informative and friendly. I am attracted to his pictures and he is attracted to mine. He has asked to meet me a few times but I haven't had the time yet but today we made plans for Friday night. He is going to pick me up and we're going to go eat and to a movie. I know that I'm not going to base everything on our astrological signs but I was wondering if there is anything you can tell me as far as our signs go that will help me to avoid common mistakes and also any advice on likes/dislikes, etc? I would greatly appreciate it!!
I think this is a good match.
I wanted to let you know how it went... We had a nice first date. He is very handsome, like his pictures and he was very pleased with my appearance as well 
. We went to the movies, had nice conversation, went to a club for a drink... then we drove around talking for a while and then he asked me if I wanted to come by his place, lol... I said yes... He was a complete gentleman the whole night and we had a lot of laughs. He was very close to me physically the whole night, putting his arm around me and talking very close to my face, etc... but he didn't try anything else. I only stayed at his place for about 30 mins and asked if he could take me home (I was having a great time but it was getting late and I needed to get home, that's why I left when I did). He did take me home and then we had the awkward 'goodbye' moment, lol... I went to give him a hug goodbye and he caught me off-guard with a kiss. I didn't expect it so my first instinct was to laugh, lol... I apologized for laughing and made a joke about understanding the awkwardness of the first-date goodbye... He laughed too and then he kissed me again, this time I didn't laugh 
.
The next day we talked on the phone and he asked if I wanted to come over to hang out and watch a movie or something. I said sure. We hung out, laughed a lot, watched a movie and kissed a little, but nothing too heavy. We talked again on the phone on Sunday and Monday. On Monday he asked if I wanted to go over again but I wasn't able to go so we set it up for last night. I went over and we had a wonderful time again. He asked me what I thought of him and I told him that I definitely liked him and liked spending time with him but that I still needed to know a lot more about him. He said whatever I want to know to just ask him. He is affectionate, nice, laughs at my silly sense of humour and is able to have intelligent conversations, which I love! I just got off the phone with him again after another great conversation. I am busy tomorrow night but we agreed to do something on the weekend. Our phone conversations are never under an hour long and we talk about everything under the sun, lol. It's obviously too soon to tell if anything will come out of this but I do know that we like eachother and enjoy eachother's company very much!
From what you have read here I'm wondering what your thoughts and suggestions would be as to how to keep this moving forward in a positive direction...
. We went to the movies, had nice conversation, went to a club for a drink... then we drove around talking for a while and then he asked me if I wanted to come by his place, lol... I said yes... He was a complete gentleman the whole night and we had a lot of laughs. He was very close to me physically the whole night, putting his arm around me and talking very close to my face, etc... but he didn't try anything else. I only stayed at his place for about 30 mins and asked if he could take me home (I was having a great time but it was getting late and I needed to get home, that's why I left when I did). He did take me home and then we had the awkward 'goodbye' moment, lol... I went to give him a hug goodbye and he caught me off-guard with a kiss. I didn't expect it so my first instinct was to laugh, lol... I apologized for laughing and made a joke about understanding the awkwardness of the first-date goodbye... He laughed too and then he kissed me again, this time I didn't laugh .The next day we talked on the phone and he asked if I wanted to come over to hang out and watch a movie or something. I said sure. We hung out, laughed a lot, watched a movie and kissed a little, but nothing too heavy. We talked again on the phone on Sunday and Monday. On Monday he asked if I wanted to go over again but I wasn't able to go so we set it up for last night. I went over and we had a wonderful time again. He asked me what I thought of him and I told him that I definitely liked him and liked spending time with him but that I still needed to know a lot more about him. He said whatever I want to know to just ask him. He is affectionate, nice, laughs at my silly sense of humour and is able to have intelligent conversations, which I love! I just got off the phone with him again after another great conversation. I am busy tomorrow night but we agreed to do something on the weekend. Our phone conversations are never under an hour long and we talk about everything under the sun, lol. It's obviously too soon to tell if anything will come out of this but I do know that we like eachother and enjoy eachother's company very much!
From what you have read here I'm wondering what your thoughts and suggestions would be as to how to keep this moving forward in a positive direction...
Update... things are still going great... and NO I have not had sex with him yet, lol. I know 'coverdinscars' will be dissapointed to read this, lol.
We've talked a whole lot and spent a lot of time together. We have made out quite a bit, but I haven't felt comfortable enough to have sex.
He has told me that he really likes me, he is very nice and still talks to me on the phone nightly for hours. We have talked about sex (he has expressed that he definitely wants to), and I explained to him that I need to feel comfortable and in an exclusive situation before I choose to go there with someone (these are my boundaries and I'm not changing them). He told me he is not seeing anyone else and that he loves spending time with me and wants to know everything about me. I am assuming we are exclusive now, lol. I don't know if having the 'exclusiveness talk' will benefit or not at this point? All signs point to yes... but my personality is very 'over-analyzing' and needs to know all the details before I make final decisions. I know it's only been 3 weeks so I realize that it may be too soon to talk about this with him but if we are to talk about getting intimate then I think I need to clarify exactly where this is going... what do you think? Do Sags get weird about being asked about being a couple? Is this something that I should just relax about and 'go with the flow'? I really don't think he's in it just to 'get some' but I don't want a casual dating situation, I want a monogamous relationship... Any thoughts/ideas/comments/opinions??
We've talked a whole lot and spent a lot of time together. We have made out quite a bit, but I haven't felt comfortable enough to have sex.
He has told me that he really likes me, he is very nice and still talks to me on the phone nightly for hours. We have talked about sex (he has expressed that he definitely wants to), and I explained to him that I need to feel comfortable and in an exclusive situation before I choose to go there with someone (these are my boundaries and I'm not changing them). He told me he is not seeing anyone else and that he loves spending time with me and wants to know everything about me. I am assuming we are exclusive now, lol. I don't know if having the 'exclusiveness talk' will benefit or not at this point? All signs point to yes... but my personality is very 'over-analyzing' and needs to know all the details before I make final decisions. I know it's only been 3 weeks so I realize that it may be too soon to talk about this with him but if we are to talk about getting intimate then I think I need to clarify exactly where this is going... what do you think? Do Sags get weird about being asked about being a couple? Is this something that I should just relax about and 'go with the flow'? I really don't think he's in it just to 'get some' but I don't want a casual dating situation, I want a monogamous relationship... Any thoughts/ideas/comments/opinions??
First Date with SAGITTARIUS male...advice?
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Update...
Today he was the one who initiated the 'exclusive relationship' conversation! We were on the phone for a while talking like we always do and then I told him I was going to get off the phone to have a relaxing bath... he got quiet and said that he had a question... I said, 'sure, ask me anything!' He then proceeded to ask me where we were at in our situation. He asked if we were 'friends', 'dating', 'more', etc. I first told him that we passed being just 'friends' from the first time we met, lol. I also told him that I really liked him and have been thinking about this very thing myself and was happy that he brought it up first. I then told him that I was looking for an exclusive relationship and he asked me 'well, do you want an exclusive relationship with ME?' and I said 'yes, of course with you, I'm not talking about anyone else :-)' and he said he wanted that too.
I am so relieved that he brought it up first :-)
Just wanted to let you know how this is going so far.
Today he was the one who initiated the 'exclusive relationship' conversation! We were on the phone for a while talking like we always do and then I told him I was going to get off the phone to have a relaxing bath... he got quiet and said that he had a question... I said, 'sure, ask me anything!' He then proceeded to ask me where we were at in our situation. He asked if we were 'friends', 'dating', 'more', etc. I first told him that we passed being just 'friends' from the first time we met, lol. I also told him that I really liked him and have been thinking about this very thing myself and was happy that he brought it up first. I then told him that I was looking for an exclusive relationship and he asked me 'well, do you want an exclusive relationship with ME?' and I said 'yes, of course with you, I'm not talking about anyone else :-)' and he said he wanted that too.
I am so relieved that he brought it up first :-)
Just wanted to let you know how this is going so far.
great match... I had a 7 year relationship with a Sagg, AWESOME!!! but be careful, they're kind of sneeky and tend to wander. but overall it was still my best match. Lots of fun.
Just to let you know... Sag and Aries are a perfect match. I dated a Sag for a year and I'm an Aries, we broke up mutually because of the long distance but we're still good friends. My Sag was very loyal, but than again I was only with him for a year. And you guys will have a lot of fun together, promise.
Oh yeah and the sex should be awesome, it was for me .
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