For pisces involved with Aries
This topic was created in the Aries forum by CancerPisces on Friday, February 20, 2015 and has 8 replies.
So this post is for any Pisceans involved with Aries who might be finding their relation a challenge.
I am pisces (sun) and Aquarius (moon) and my hubby is Aries (sun & moon)
Our marriage was arranged marriage and just before my marriage I walked away from a short relation with cancerman.
Since my marriage ??? I had hard time living with my hubby and understanding his personality ??? (if you are in astrology ??? you??ll know aries and cancerien are 2 very different personalities. Aries comes across as strong whilst cancer is much gentle). Lots of challenges and differences which always made me think about my cancerian bf.
5 years of my marriage and I have been still thinking about my ex. We didn??t keep in contact during this time but beginning of last year he came into my life. We met and I realized i still had feelings for him.
One full year of push and pull dance between us ??? he wanted to go beyond friendship and have an affair but I didn??t wanted to mess anything so nothing really has happened between us. It??s been 4 weeks my ex has gone silent on me but looking back to everything that has happened between us ??? I have finally realized that I was with wrong person.
I??ve read somewhere pisceans don??t usually know what they want but finally I??ve just wrote down what I want from the man in my life and below is what I want.
?? A man with self-esteem ??? one who would only afford luxury if he can and not ask others
?? A man with honesty ??? one who won??t use me for his needs
?? A man for whom I am the only one and he won??t even think about another women
?? A man who respects me ??? doesn??t leave me hanging or confused
?? A man who has real love for me ??? I don??t need to be always attractive and glamorous and there is no need for me to please him every now and then
When I read above points ??? I realized this is all what my hubby (Aries man) has and cancerman doesn??t have. All the points which mentioned I don??t want is what cancerman showed me he has.
I am not saying all cancerians are bad??_.neither am I saying all cancerman would have negative points I am talking about but the one I know has??_..
I feel as if I have finally awakened from my own illusion about love and the person I loved. So to those pisceans who find understanding aries a bit difficult ??? he is a strong man but that doesn??t necessarily mean he isn??t gentle. Don??t let differences between you ruin this relation ??? maybe he isn??
I am pisces (sun) and Aquarius (moon) and my hubby is Aries (sun & moon)
Our marriage was arranged marriage and just before my marriage I walked away from a short relation with cancerman.
Since my marriage ??? I had hard time living with my hubby and understanding his personality ??? (if you are in astrology ??? you??ll know aries and cancerien are 2 very different personalities. Aries comes across as strong whilst cancer is much gentle). Lots of challenges and differences which always made me think about my cancerian bf.
5 years of my marriage and I have been still thinking about my ex. We didn??t keep in contact during this time but beginning of last year he came into my life. We met and I realized i still had feelings for him.
One full year of push and pull dance between us ??? he wanted to go beyond friendship and have an affair but I didn??t wanted to mess anything so nothing really has happened between us. It??s been 4 weeks my ex has gone silent on me but looking back to everything that has happened between us ??? I have finally realized that I was with wrong person.
I??ve read somewhere pisceans don??t usually know what they want but finally I??ve just wrote down what I want from the man in my life and below is what I want.
?? A man with self-esteem ??? one who would only afford luxury if he can and not ask others
?? A man with honesty ??? one who won??t use me for his needs
?? A man for whom I am the only one and he won??t even think about another women
?? A man who respects me ??? doesn??t leave me hanging or confused
?? A man who has real love for me ??? I don??t need to be always attractive and glamorous and there is no need for me to please him every now and then
When I read above points ??? I realized this is all what my hubby (Aries man) has and cancerman doesn??t have. All the points which mentioned I don??t want is what cancerman showed me he has.
I am not saying all cancerians are bad??_.neither am I saying all cancerman would have negative points I am talking about but the one I know has??_..
I feel as if I have finally awakened from my own illusion about love and the person I loved. So to those pisceans who find understanding aries a bit difficult ??? he is a strong man but that doesn??t necessarily mean he isn??t gentle. Don??t let differences between you ruin this relation ??? maybe he isn??
I'm an Aries woman with Taurus moon and my ex is Pisces with aqua moon and I can tell you it was a difficult relationship.
We had some really great times with lots of laughs and adventures but when it was bad it was really bad.
We lasted 4 yrs and the following 7 were hell from him _???
However hopefully we're getting on OK now which is good as we have a son.
I personally wouldn't go with anyone with a chart like that again, but that's just me
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We had some really great times with lots of laughs and adventures but when it was bad it was really bad.
We lasted 4 yrs and the following 7 were hell from him _???
However hopefully we're getting on OK now which is good as we have a son.
I personally wouldn't go with anyone with a chart like that again, but that's just me
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Thanks for your reply MadmarchRam,
may be you can help me here - as you know its difficult relation and i have now started to appreciate him a lot more than before and i try to understand all differences between us but what i would be interested in knowing is what you found difficult about your ex? did you notice differences? when i ask my hubby - he says we dont have differences but i always feel as if we are so different.
i know i have need to feel a bond which i used to feel with my ex but no matter how much i try i dont feel same with my aries man.
if you are happy to share - do let me know your views on what your ex could have done differently? or where you think pisces dont match with aries and need to work in different way?
may be you can help me here - as you know its difficult relation and i have now started to appreciate him a lot more than before and i try to understand all differences between us but what i would be interested in knowing is what you found difficult about your ex? did you notice differences? when i ask my hubby - he says we dont have differences but i always feel as if we are so different.
i know i have need to feel a bond which i used to feel with my ex but no matter how much i try i dont feel same with my aries man.
if you are happy to share - do let me know your views on what your ex could have done differently? or where you think pisces dont match with aries and need to work in different way?
Hi Starlover,
sorry to know about your friend - its kind of true many people take Pisces advantage and we dont even realize that's where it gets messy.
so far money has not been an issue (fingers crossed) but yes i do know Aries do have impulsive buying habits and with my hubby this usually is when he is sure he has enough to spend and not ask others for it.....weird enough my cancerian ex used to ask others for money and has asked me to buy him things
sorry to know about your friend - its kind of true many people take Pisces advantage and we dont even realize that's where it gets messy.
so far money has not been an issue (fingers crossed) but yes i do know Aries do have impulsive buying habits and with my hubby this usually is when he is sure he has enough to spend and not ask others for it.....weird enough my cancerian ex used to ask others for money and has asked me to buy him things
Posted by CancerPisces
Thanks for your reply MadmarchRam,
may be you can help me here - as you know its difficult relation and i have now started to appreciate him a lot more than before and i try to understand all differences between us but what i would be interested in knowing is what you found difficult about your ex? did you notice differences? when i ask my hubby - he says we dont have differences but i always feel as if we are so different.
i know i have need to feel a bond which i used to feel with my ex but no matter how much i try i dont feel same with my aries man.
if you are happy to share - do let me know your views on what your ex could have done differently? or where you think pisces dont match with aries and need to work in different way?
It was very difficult at times, what I found most difficult was his seemingly lack of emotion at times.
I have Venus Mars and mercury in Pisces so maybe that helped in the bad times with understanding. The love was there even if not shown at times.
We got on if we had other things to concentrate on. If we spent too much time together that's when it got bad.
Maybe we were still too young to understand each other properly. I was 24 and he was 27 when we got together. After 4 years we split. But like I said now we seem to get on.
Patients and communication were definitely lacking. So maybe more of both could work for you
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Oh yes money was always an issue in our relationship _???
We got on if we had other things to concentrate on. If we spent too much time together that's when it got bad.
I so agree to this!!! that's the most diffcult part - its like even though we hardly get much time together - when we do - i end up feeling annoyed or frustrated with him! happened this weekend but i reminded myself to talk to him about it...as pisces i find it hard to put my emotions in words but am learning to do this...
Thanks so much for your feedback MadMarchRam - indeed same with our relation - love is there but not shown. I am going to work on patience and communication - like tomorrow is my birthday - he hasnt planned anything but i told him I want to go restaurant (even that is sometimes difficult to just sit and enjoy a meal together!) let's see. Fingers crossed!
We got on if we had other things to concentrate on. If we spent too much time together that's when it got bad.
I so agree to this!!! that's the most diffcult part - its like even though we hardly get much time together - when we do - i end up feeling annoyed or frustrated with him! happened this weekend but i reminded myself to talk to him about it...as pisces i find it hard to put my emotions in words but am learning to do this...
Thanks so much for your feedback MadMarchRam - indeed same with our relation - love is there but not shown. I am going to work on patience and communication - like tomorrow is my birthday - he hasnt planned anything but i told him I want to go restaurant (even that is sometimes difficult to just sit and enjoy a meal together!) let's see. Fingers crossed!
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