From girl to lady: growing up
This topic was created in the Aries forum by arieswoman on Tuesday, June 27, 2006 and has 20 replies.
This is to all the aries female out there. I had to learn the hard way. I just read JennaT's post and it reminds me of me when I was a younger, I just turned the big 30... and let me tell ya, growing into a woman and prying myself out of the immaturity that I now left behind was painful. It takes many hard hits to teach an aries female that true confidence within oneself is not by displaying an array of fireworks and setting them off all the time. Confidence (not conceit) is built by teaching yourself patience. Step back for a minute and look at the world around you, your family, friends, co-workers, etc. Hold a mirror up to yourself and look deep within. Stand still long enough or else it won't work. Search for the truth in the reflection, even if it takes days, months, or even years, but if you have the real determination (a true arian quality) it will turn into patience you will eventually see who you really are. Aries females are part of this world just like all the other people. We are "part" of the world, not "the" world...
That was beautiful.
Wow, Arieswoman, you're an amazing woman.
Rock on !!!!
Wow, Arieswoman, you're an amazing woman.
Rock on !!!!
which one of my posts did you exactly read? my post on the scorp board? which one made you think i am conceited? my comments on the scorp board were all in a fun and light tone until somebody insulted me saying that i must be stupid because all i relied on was my looks.
i have been 100% in all my posts. if you are referring to the 'pretty people' thread then you would know that is how this all got started. you mean to sit here and tell me you wouldn't charm your way out of a speeding ticket? you have never used your feminine charm to do something like this? or are you going to use your intelligence and good character to try and talk your way out? well if this is so...then good for you. i commend you.
i am an honest person and if that means admitting to doing something like smiling to get what i want then just shoot me now OK? at least i am real. i was trying to prove a point that is very real in society today and that is that good looking people get away with more crap...its true and that's a fact.
so why does that make me conceited? because i reply to the insult on my intelligence with saying i have an engineering degree and am now in medical school? do you like to be insulted? how would you have replied? ask yourself that. if you are really an aries then you would know that being attacked is not cool with us. did i attack anybody? did i really come across as so damn obnoxious that i deserved to be berated by all those people? i was simply agreeing with the guy who started the thread originally...that is it. and i believe my style was light, funny, and joking. it is not my fault there are a bunch of very insecure people on this site. i mean if that is all it takes to get your panties in a bunch then i feel sorry for you...sorry, but i do.
furthermore (are you sick of reading this yet? LOL) nobody really likes to be insulted now do they? we all learned that when i called sagitaurius ADHD. it could be true or not...but it isn't my place to make a judgement. just like i was automatically judged as being a stupid bimbo and then i was conceited and not humble. i mean come on people....are you all serious?
what i really think it is is the fact that for reasons that i don't know or care to know, many people here think i am another user/users. ya know what? i can't make anyone here believe me because we are all just a bunch of anonymous people punching away at computer keys anyway, aren't we? peace to you all and tha
i have been 100% in all my posts. if you are referring to the 'pretty people' thread then you would know that is how this all got started. you mean to sit here and tell me you wouldn't charm your way out of a speeding ticket? you have never used your feminine charm to do something like this? or are you going to use your intelligence and good character to try and talk your way out? well if this is so...then good for you. i commend you.
i am an honest person and if that means admitting to doing something like smiling to get what i want then just shoot me now OK? at least i am real. i was trying to prove a point that is very real in society today and that is that good looking people get away with more crap...its true and that's a fact.
so why does that make me conceited? because i reply to the insult on my intelligence with saying i have an engineering degree and am now in medical school? do you like to be insulted? how would you have replied? ask yourself that. if you are really an aries then you would know that being attacked is not cool with us. did i attack anybody? did i really come across as so damn obnoxious that i deserved to be berated by all those people? i was simply agreeing with the guy who started the thread originally...that is it. and i believe my style was light, funny, and joking. it is not my fault there are a bunch of very insecure people on this site. i mean if that is all it takes to get your panties in a bunch then i feel sorry for you...sorry, but i do.
furthermore (are you sick of reading this yet? LOL) nobody really likes to be insulted now do they? we all learned that when i called sagitaurius ADHD. it could be true or not...but it isn't my place to make a judgement. just like i was automatically judged as being a stupid bimbo and then i was conceited and not humble. i mean come on people....are you all serious?
what i really think it is is the fact that for reasons that i don't know or care to know, many people here think i am another user/users. ya know what? i can't make anyone here believe me because we are all just a bunch of anonymous people punching away at computer keys anyway, aren't we? peace to you all and tha
what i wanted to finish with was that i wanted to thank the people that have given me good advice and who took me seriously. thank you all.
now lets have some fun....life is too damn short
now lets have some fun....life is too damn short
i have absolutely no idea what you're talking about..but then again i never do when i read what you write...
stop trying to be my enemy...you would like it more if we were friends..and so would i
stop trying to be my enemy...you would like it more if we were friends..and so would i
its purple, blue, green, and white
what does it matter sag...like you would believe me anyway
what does it matter sag...like you would believe me anyway
my hair is long, and dark. it's really very wavy, but usually i straighten it. actually it has a mind of its own and doesn't like to be told what to do, so i beat it into submission, LOL
what about you mexican man?
what about you mexican man?
LOL..that sounds kinda like my hair too!! but i think yours is much much curly!! i have this columbian friend with hair like that..its long so he puts it in a ponytail. but boy when he lets it down its like EVERYWHERE!!LOL.
i like it though...its sexy.
no i don't beat people into submission anymore after that damn charge i got..LOL
i like it though...its sexy.
no i don't beat people into submission anymore after that damn charge i got..LOL
"mine is dark and wavy.. if it's raining or very humid, it will become curly automatically. it's at it's straightest from the minute i get out of the shower, and throughout the day goes into various phases depending on wind speed, humidity, sunlight, and general mood. if too many people are noticing me in one day, it will automatically revert to the most embarassingly messy style possible at the time. it's very thick and dense, and if i let it grow out, that's exactly what it will do, into an afro-like entity which makes the opposite gender run from me like frankenstein. i used to shave my head bald religiously to avoid having to use styling products, but even that got too demanding. mmmm, nah, i guess it just got too boring. my hair is so thick that it would mate my scalp and my pillow together like velcro when i would try to sleep. i keep it tame now, and that's all it can ask of me.
hair is an awesome barometer for many personal traits, including body hair, facial hair, placement of hair.
i.e. did you know that men who are bald on the front of their heads are thinkers? and men who are bald on the back of their heads are lovers... and men that are completely bald just think they are lovers
i don't like to be told what to do either, are you going to beat me into submission??"
LOL sag...i just went back and read that again. you're funny
"which one of my posts did you exactly read? my post on the scorp board? which one made you think i am conceited? my comments on the scorp board were all in a fun and light tone until somebody insulted me saying that i must be stupid because all i relied on was my looks." JennaT
-No, not the scorp board, the one on this board about how not to offend people. My post was not to offend you, but to hopefully give a little advice to those that can identify with me in our growing up process. If you take this to personal offense, then accept my apologies for that was not my intention. However, do keep in mind that jumping to conclusions is also one of our downfalls. Acting on impulse and pure emotions without thinking things through can be very deadly. Many people get hurt that way, then they will all just kind of dissapear, and it takes hard work and twice as long to win their trust back and prove to them that it was just impulses, a downfall that you will try to overcome. Thanks for reading my advice...
-No, not the scorp board, the one on this board about how not to offend people. My post was not to offend you, but to hopefully give a little advice to those that can identify with me in our growing up process. If you take this to personal offense, then accept my apologies for that was not my intention. However, do keep in mind that jumping to conclusions is also one of our downfalls. Acting on impulse and pure emotions without thinking things through can be very deadly. Many people get hurt that way, then they will all just kind of dissapear, and it takes hard work and twice as long to win their trust back and prove to them that it was just impulses, a downfall that you will try to overcome. Thanks for reading my advice...
you mentioned my name at the begining...of course i am going to take it personally. you said it as though MY words had reminded you of the way you used to be....but i will give you the benefit of the doubt out of aries-to-aries respect.
and i may have already said this but i agree with every word you wrote...i am glad you weren't refering specifically to me
and i may have already said this but i agree with every word you wrote...i am glad you weren't refering specifically to me
"JennaT, Hey there fellow Arian! I read what you wrote and I think we clique"
Well, I guess so, you're the same person. Do you really think you're fooling anyone?
Well, I guess so, you're the same person. Do you really think you're fooling anyone?
p-angel--go to hell and get a life.
why don't you and officer agua hold hands and go sleuth together. you can fan each other's egos about your amazing detective abilities, HAHAHA
Sure, I'll tell you.
Virgo101 is Mr. Negative, aka jennaT, aka AriesLovesVirgo
I just wonder how many more names she has.
Funny how on the thread Virgo101 is Gone, Mr. Negative is very active, responded in fluid conversation, until someone asked jenna a question, she jumped in and we never heard from Mr. Negative again, that was on page 5 and there were over 13 pages. Furthermore, you can tell when Mr. N talks that it's female. Jennifer, or whatever you're real name is, we can tell the difference, we're not fools. You are however, for thinking that you have the wits to trick anybody.
Also, there are certain words that all 4 of these alias mispell consistantly. We all have typo's and we all have troubles spelling some words. Don't you think it's odd that these 4 people mispell the same words - EVERYTIME
I know I said I would keep silent, but, I can't any longer, this is driving me nuts.
Lady, you're pshycho, you have 4 identities. Yes, yes, yes, come back and argue this point, that is fine, but, it doesn't change the fact that you're pshycho and many people are in here telling you so. Forget about the ex-V boyfriend needing mental help, that is, if he ever existed, you need it, desperately.
Virgo101 is Mr. Negative, aka jennaT, aka AriesLovesVirgo
I just wonder how many more names she has.
Funny how on the thread Virgo101 is Gone, Mr. Negative is very active, responded in fluid conversation, until someone asked jenna a question, she jumped in and we never heard from Mr. Negative again, that was on page 5 and there were over 13 pages. Furthermore, you can tell when Mr. N talks that it's female. Jennifer, or whatever you're real name is, we can tell the difference, we're not fools. You are however, for thinking that you have the wits to trick anybody.
Also, there are certain words that all 4 of these alias mispell consistantly. We all have typo's and we all have troubles spelling some words. Don't you think it's odd that these 4 people mispell the same words - EVERYTIME
I know I said I would keep silent, but, I can't any longer, this is driving me nuts.
Lady, you're pshycho, you have 4 identities. Yes, yes, yes, come back and argue this point, that is fine, but, it doesn't change the fact that you're pshycho and many people are in here telling you so. Forget about the ex-V boyfriend needing mental help, that is, if he ever existed, you need it, desperately.
wow p-angel. i am truly impressed by the amazing work!! i really do think you need a promotion...such a shame the police force has forced you to work as a message board detective...you should be out there busting real crime!!
so is everybody ready for a real good hearty get-your-day started laugh??
so far i have been accused of being (this is gonna kill ya!)
1)virgo101
2)us
3)ariesbaby
4)aprilbaby
5)random
6)juiCy
7)Arieslovesvirgo
8)mr.negative
That would be 8 identities dear...do your homework better next time or get a calculator please.
so ms. p-angel (this is your big chance to prove your case sweetie!!), can you please tell the court room exactly which words these characters consistently misspell?
also please embellish on your previous statement about when negative gets off, jennaT gets on.....
please please please do enlighten us all...we are waiting with baited breath.
so is everybody ready for a real good hearty get-your-day started laugh??
so far i have been accused of being (this is gonna kill ya!)
1)virgo101
2)us
3)ariesbaby
4)aprilbaby
5)random
6)juiCy
7)Arieslovesvirgo
8)mr.negative
That would be 8 identities dear...do your homework better next time or get a calculator please.
so ms. p-angel (this is your big chance to prove your case sweetie!!), can you please tell the court room exactly which words these characters consistently misspell?
also please embellish on your previous statement about when negative gets off, jennaT gets on.....
please please please do enlighten us all...we are waiting with baited breath.
If a person doesn't get the attention they need, then they will do anything to try and impress others. I'm not sure of the motives, but, what I am sure about is that they are the same person. I don't know Scorpius.
There are too many similarities, that can't be coincidences. Also, if I were the only one thinking this, then I would back down and think, ok, it's just me, but, there are many people who are suspicious of this.
Strangly, with her focus on herself, it's likely that she is indeed an Aries because the self-centeredness is obvious - what's wierd, is that Aries aren't normally so deceptive, that's just not in thier character. What happened to her, I don't know. She's a throwback.
There are too many similarities, that can't be coincidences. Also, if I were the only one thinking this, then I would back down and think, ok, it's just me, but, there are many people who are suspicious of this.
Strangly, with her focus on herself, it's likely that she is indeed an Aries because the self-centeredness is obvious - what's wierd, is that Aries aren't normally so deceptive, that's just not in thier character. What happened to her, I don't know. She's a throwback.
that is not a valid case proving argument...i am sorry...please try again...but make it more convincing this time..the judge is growing impatient
"or the person must seriously be... not normal to say the least"
Seriously, dude . . . frightening
Seriously, dude . . . frightening
you have an incredibly overactive imagination....you should be the author of mystery novels with an imagination like that...
or is that your job?
or is that your job?
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