Posted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
Posted by PsychoAriesPosted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
My honest from the bottom of my heart opinion is that she is trying to figure out if she wants to stay with you. I would slowly draw myself back. I can get like that since I hate breaking up and I like to be certain before I do.click to expand
Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by PsychoAriesPosted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
My honest from the bottom of my heart opinion is that she is trying to figure out if she wants to stay with you. I would slowly draw myself back. I can get like that since I hate breaking up and I like to be certain before I do.
But I ask her all the time does she want too she says no ! She loves me and wants a life with me and all this other stuff! I feel like she wants to but her insecurity want let her because she thinks she won't find anyone better! But to behonest I don't care if do or not ! I think I will be happy both ways !click to expand
Posted by PsychoAriesPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by PsychoAriesPosted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
My honest from the bottom of my heart opinion is that she is trying to figure out if she wants to stay with you. I would slowly draw myself back. I can get like that since I hate breaking up and I like to be certain before I do.
But I ask her all the time does she want too she says no ! She loves me and wants a life with me and all this other stuff! I feel like she wants to but her insecurity want let her because she thinks she won't find anyone better! But to behonest I don't care if do or not ! I think I will be happy both ways !
Yeah that's tricky. I'd still say no if I was deciding but I would never talk about our future if I wasn't sure. I would just tread lightly, we Aries can be unpredictable.click to expand
Posted by PsychoAries
Hahaha! I've actually said this before as far as being used for sex. For me it's like, sex is great but sometimes I just want to relax. Maybe try relaxing. I have to be turned on to have sex otherwise it's so boring. I would find out what turns her on and then go for it. Also, maybe jack off sometimes! Not everyone is a sex machine lol.
Posted by MoonBlue8Posted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
Maybe she's really a lesbian.click to expand
Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
A couple of questions.
1) Do you initiate things with her (I'm not talking about sex only, I mean other stuff like going on dates etc.etc) or do you wait for her to initiate?
2) Can you find out what her Moon and Mercury signs are? It might help a bit.click to expand
Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by ThatGemGuy336
I'm a Gemini sun libra rising Aries moon and I'm dating a Aries sun ( idk other placements) well lately things have been off between us ! Well for starters Ive notice she is missing some Areis traits she isn't active or sporty, she is really insecure, and very clingy! Well recently things have been off she doesn't want to have sex anymore all she wants to do is cuddle and sleep, it's very boring. But she doesn't everything with her friends.but when it's comes to spending time with me it's the same old boring stuff, we don't even go on dates anymore.. I ask her what's wrong she doesnt open up to me like she use too. I have to beat it out of her or make her really mad just so she will be honest with me! Is she bored with me ? Do all aries act like this is a relationship ?
A couple of questions.
1) Do you initiate things with her (I'm not talking about sex only, I mean other stuff like going on dates etc.etc) or do you wait for her to initiate?
2) Can you find out what her Moon and Mercury signs are? It might help a bit.
Yeah sometimes! but mostly I wait for her! and all we know is she was born in frankfurt germany.
You don't know her date of birth?
Anyway, I figured initiation was happening mostly on her end. Generally mutables tend to wait for cardinals to start the show for them. So chances are she probably IS bored with you (it can be quite tiring to have to initiate most of the time).click to expand