Get the Aries girl back

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So, here's my story:
I'm a Pisces male, and about a month ago, i just met this absolutely wonderful Aries girl. We clicked instantly, she was very into me, and in a typical Aries manner she told me right up front that she's interested. She told me that i was only the second guy to stir up such a reaction in her, and that she found this fascinating.

So, we started conversing on IM, phone, sending an awful lot of texts to each other, and everything was going swell. Until i got it in my Piscean head, that things are moving too fast, that is, and getting scared that such a wonderful thing could end too soon, i started testing her. Trying to see how she'd react if i talked about other guys with her, not returning her compliments all the time, "jokingly" musing on the lack of compatibility between our signs, and assuming that we won't work out. Idiotic things like that, that at that moment, seemed ok to me. I mean, "i gotta be sure", don't i?...

Well, obviously these kinds of things started wearing her out, especially since we were actually talking for only about two-three weeks. And she started backing off too. And told me she doesn't like to be tested, and made a scene once. And from then on, it went down hill. Which, in turn, scared the crap out of me, and i stared panicking, and getting in all sorts of dumb fights, and so on. Until a few days ago, when she told me that she doesn't think it's working out anymore, or worth it, for that matter, and that we should get a break, at least, to think things over.

That freaked me out big time, so, in the morning, i texted her, saying she's an awful person, and made me fall in love with her, only to dump me. Some really crazy shit, that I didn't even believe. That pissed her off big time, and then said that she doesn't even want to speak to me anymore. I did appologise, i did explain, but it was no use. So, i professed my love for her again, i told her that i hope we'll get another chance sometime, and didn't say anything else.

And i, of course, am miserable right now, because i really love this girl, and before i started freaking out, she was really almost perfect for me in every sense. And i for her, because she told me that. So i'm not ready to leave it like that. I want this girl back, and i'm willing to fight for her attention again. But i do know quite a lot about Aries, to know that constantly pursuing won't solve anything.
So what do you think the chances are, based on what i just said?
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Posted by Treplev
Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"




Oh dear, I feel weird just reading this...."games".. "feeling her out"....ick.

If we are into you we are into you. We don't kinda act like we sorta might like you a bit, kinda.


Just keep it real Treplev. I do hope things work out for you, whatever happens.

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Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"




Oh dear, I feel weird just reading this...."games".. "feeling her out"....ick.

If we are into you we are into you. We don't kinda act like we sorta might like you a bit, kinda.


Just keep it real Treplev. I do hope things work out for you, whatever happens.

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We don't play bs games were in or out. When were out you will be wondering Wth happened to the person who liked you so much and that's because you took it for granted. If given another chance I hope you do the right thing.
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Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"




Oh dear, I feel weird just reading this...."games".. "feeling her out"....ick.

If we are into you we are into you. We don't kinda act like we sorta might like you a bit, kinda.


Just keep it real Treplev. I do hope things work out for you, whatever happens.


+1

We don't play bs games were in or out. When were out you will be wondering Wth happened to the person who liked you so much and that's because you took it for granted. If given another chance I hope you do the right thing.
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So, what i'm actually getting from all you're saying, is that she's probably been completely put off by my "game-playing". And i kind of figured that out myself too, because... well, she told me. Yeah, i know it wasn't the greatest thing to do, but i had some trust issues from past relationships, and i just wanted to be really sure about it, before diving right in. Because, when i do dive in, i do it completely, and i've made that mistake before, with people that "seemed" to be very interested, only for them to change their minds, and the like.

What i was actually asking, of course, is how can i proceed to actually get in touch with her again, without ruining any slim chance i may still have? Ok, i made a mistake, i'm aware of it, it was mostly because of insecurity on my part. And i'd like another chance at it, because other than this "little thing", we were absolutely great for each other. And i don't know how to get about it. And this is where i need your insight, as people, who, up to some point (as i have clearly been proven) think quite a lot like her.
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It really depends has she been hurt before? For me though its really hard for me to like someone again after I have detached my feelings. Actually I have never gone back to any of my exes except one and he didnt hurt me so it was easy to give it another try. The second time around he did and now he would like another shot and as bad as I would like to give it a third try I can't seem to let go of what happened ( he's a Pisces too btw. I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned. I do think Pisces and Aries can be an amazing match though lots of chemistry, passion, understanding, romance I could go on. Although I have been hurt by a few Pisces I still think its a great match minus Pisces games and deceit.
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It really depends has she been hurt before? For me though its really hard for me to like someone again after I have detached my feelings. Actually I have never gone back to any of my exes except one and he didnt hurt me so it was easy to give it another try. The second time around he did and now he would like another shot and as bad as I would like to give it a third try I can't seem to let go of what happened ( he's a Pisces too btw. I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned. I do think Pisces and Aries can be an amazing match though lots of chemistry, passion, understanding, romance I could go on. Although I have been hurt by a few Pisces I still think its a great match minus Pisces games and deceit.




Yeah, she was hurt before too. Pretty badly, as well, by a fellow Aries, too. And she told me that it was that particular bad relationship, that made her think twice about me. But then, when she was angry, she went as far as to say that she doesn't think she could love anyone as much as she loved him, or get hurt by anyone as much. Well, he was her first real relationship, so that kind of explains it, though.

As for the telling the truth part, i always did that. I mean, aside from the two or three conversations that could have been called "game-playing", most of the time i was very honest, and i went to great lengths to explain all my reasoning for doing all that, and assuring her i intended no disrespect with it. She seemed to understand it too. On a rational level only, i guess. Because subconsciously, once the line has been crossed, she started drifting off, and i felt it. She even told me that she absolutely hates herself for drifting off, because she really liked me very much, but couldn't help herself, and actually tried not to do that. But, as it turned out, the mixed feelings got the better of her, in the end.

So, it does seem a bit redundant to try and explain it all again, seeing that she has already acknowledged it.
And i know that all the signs say that i should probably let this one go, and "chalk it up as a lesson learned", but it's such a waste, 'cause i really didn't feel such a strong connection with a woman for quite a long time. And the thing that really bugs me to b
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*yes, you damned text limiter! i know i'm writing too much✨

And the thing that really bugs me to bits, is that she said she felt the same for me. And we quarreled over some really stupid things, that had nothing to do with our feelings for each other. They were only past baggage residues.

Oh, and bkbella, you do seem to think quite a lot like her, with that unability to let go of what happened. I also found a very special connection with Aries girls, in the past. And that's one of the reasons, i was confused when she acted so weirdly over such arguably small matters, because it didn't happen before.
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Posted by bkbella86
I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.



I agree with the earlier comments that those kinds of games and testing would piss me off. But this ^^ might work. Be honest and explain that yes - you made a mistake because you were insecure. As a side note, if you told me after only a month that you were falling in love, warning bells would be ringing in my head. Way too soon.
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I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.



I agree with the earlier comments that those kinds of games and testing would piss me off. But this ^^ might work. Be honest and explain that yes - you made a mistake because you were insecure. As a side note, if you told me after only a month that you were falling in love, warning bells would be ringing in my head. Way too soon.
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Well, i didn't exactly said the "l" word out loud. I just told her that i have feelings for her, feelings i haven't had for quite a while, that she's dear to me, and that she comes very close to my idea of "the perfect match". And yes, although i felt such things from way earlier in our small relationship, i didn't tell them to her, until the last week, when she was starting to get distant. I did it because i feared that i've been too mysterious, myself, about this, and because i wanted to reassure her that i really was for real, when it came to her.
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I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.



I agree with the earlier comments that those kinds of games and testing would piss me off. But this ^^ might work. Be honest and explain that yes - you made a mistake because you were insecure. As a side note, if you told me after only a month that you were falling in love, warning bells would be ringing in my head. Way too soon.



Well, i didn't exactly said the "l" word out loud. I just told her that i have feelings for her, feelings i haven't had for quite a while, that she's dear to me, and that she comes very close to my idea of "the perfect match". And yes, although i felt such things from way earlier in our small relationship, i didn't tell them to her, until the last week, when she was starting to get distant. I did it because i feared that i've been too mysterious, myself, about this, and because i wanted to reassure her that i really was for real, when it came to her.
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All you can do now is wait. Maybe try her again in a week or two, let it cool off.
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Yeah, well.. that's what i was planning to do, too. I mean, i didn't think of another solution, either.
Thanks for your support, though. If things work, or don't work out, i'll announce them here, for future reference.

But nevertheless, this has been a pretty clear case of "how NOT to do things". Especially with Aries ladies.



LOL yes lesson lesson learned....someone always has to lose when games are being played, its pointless really.
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Yeah, well.. that's what i was planning to do, too. I mean, i didn't think of another solution, either.
Thanks for your support, though. If things work, or don't work out, i'll announce them here, for future reference.

But nevertheless, this has been a pretty clear case of "how NOT to do things". Especially with Aries ladies.



I do look forward to hearing the outcome.
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I've been thinking about this for a while Treplev and although it doesn't help you in this situation, you know those Uncle Sam signs where he is pointing and saying "I want you"?

Well I can't speak for all my Aries sisters here, but that would be me dropping a subtle hint to my sweetheart.

I know some people bag us, but to baaa-sk in the warm glow of Aries love, in the absolute certainty that you are adored - surely that can't be a bad thing?

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Yep, ReallyNice, you've just described my girl in a nutshell. We always used to joke about the very "subtle" way she dropped "hints" that she likes me. And i know that wasn't a bad thing, because that's just what us held-back and insecure Pisces want: a chick that takes the words "i'm interested in you", and beats us over the head with them repeatedly.

But such a quick attraction, doesn't also mean that you loose it just as quick? I'm just askin', i mean. In the end, that was the very reason i got scared about, and started threading more carefully. And, truth be told, even though most of it was caused by my blundering, i can't deny that that's exactly what happened in my case. Surely if the girl was [i]that[/i] interested in me, she could have given me a bigger chance. Or at least, try to understand my reasons, what with all the explaining i did. I would have done that, at least, especially since we hit it out so famously. I mean, you don't meet people with whom you click so well, too often. What she did, though, was stick with the "bad feeling" she got, and just drifted away. And all the while, saying that she doesn't want that to happen. Explain that, please. I mean, when you don't want something to happen, well, you just don't let it happen. That's the way I see things...
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And THIS is why I usually stay away from Pisces guys, lol. Or TRY to stay away from any guy who appears to play games with me, for that matter.
To answer your question, Treplev - and I hope this helps - I believe you made two rather serious mistakes with this girl.

1. Game playing. NEVER, EVER try game playing with an Aries, unless it's just for sex and you know you can afford to let her go if she loses interest in the game. Because, get this, an Aries girl is either interested in YOU or in the GAME you're playing, but not both at the same time. And you better decide right off the bat which way you want to go, as it's very rare for an Aries lady to change her mind further along the road.

2. You come off as terribly insecure and, what with them being pretty strong-willed and confident themselves, most Aries women want a strong and confident man. And one of my biggest turn-offs - and it's safe to assume it's also the case for other Aries women - is a clingy, over-emotional, insecure mess of a man...

Now, in your specific situation, I'm not sure what can be done. As a general rule, Aries strongly believe in that saying that actions speak louder than words, so for you to try and explain AGAIN what happened might be pointless. You can try to back off for a while - like for at least a couple of weeks or so - and then, if you still want to be part of her life, do something sweet to surprise her, like sending her flowers at work. If she doesn't react in any way - or worse, if she's pissed off and takes it to mean you're still not over her.... well, nothing you can do there.
Sorry. Wish I could help more, but it's a pretty screwed up situation.
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It's a shame you played games with her. I just don't understand people who play games with people who don't want to play and are upfront and honest, go play with other manipulators and game players.




This. Maybe try a Gemini next time?
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same exact thing happened with me and my gem best friend, better try an aquarius dude
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We aries women aren't stupid. We can smell games a million miles away. - We are so upfront, so honest, so forward... we know what we want and when we want it, we go for it. - If you respond with open arms and open hands then all of a sudden play that, "Oh wait... maybe this ISNT what I want" we become sad, and slowly...slowly...slowly... back away. - I believe we Aries go into a relationship and give our all - if we like you, you know it right away. - After this is decided it's up to YOU to continue the relationship upward... if you give us ANY DOUBT... we'll retract right away. - The last thing we need are games.




Exactly!!
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Lesson to be learned my dear, never test an aries. I personally, would really get offended by the idea that we are being tested. If you have worries and fears , we would appreciate it if you would tell us honestly what you feel. A least we would know, that you are really serious about us. If your aries said to you that she feels the same way about you, believe her. We don't play with our feelings with someone we like, that is why we were noted us loyal individuals. You have already gained her trust, you should have valued that instead of testing her. Being honest is one thing that we like.
If you really like her, try to talk to her but you have to be sure and careful with your words. We don't keep grudges and we forgive. But the nex time you'll be doing the same mistake again, all hell break loose you will never have her back again. Wish you well...
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She probably didn't know you long enough to want to salvage the relationship.

It takes me a long time to truly love and want someone.

Yes I "fall" fast and run into a relationship like wild fire, but that's just me being passionate and having fun.

Actually falling for someone takes time. The more I'm around that person, the less time.

After I've really fallen for someone: watched them and decided they are an intelligent, good, positive person, that I LOVE to be around: I do not give them up easily. I will salvage relationships like crazy. The more I was around a person + how much I liked them decides this. Even people who have hurt me will get millions of chances.

But if I only knew you a month and already gave up on you... I already decided I don't want to date you from your actions.

Anyways, story from this: aries (at least me) will NOT suddenly get cold and drop out of a LONG-TERM relationship. Because if you made it past the short-term, I love you! And I won't give up on you over something petty. But I would suddenly drop out of a short-term relationship I didn't like the looks of.

You shouldn't have ever tested her. And you certainly shouldn't have tested her when she was getting to know you, because she was watching you, and she didn't like what she saw. But maybe she'll give you a second chance. Hopefully you will have learned by then!
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This thread is lol worthy. I've come across this from a pisces "ex" and two pisces friends.

This type of bs is absolutely eyeroll worthy. Notorious for playing mind games, solely for the reaction because they love to fuck with people.

In the long run, they fuck things up, the friend/s.o. ends up distancing themselves because they grow tired of being a little experiment to bolster the Pisces' ego.

No idea how this scenario ended up, but I wouldn't be surprised if the Aries was done with the situation.
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Hate to say it! You messed up! Aries do not play games, they will let you know right away if they are intrested! If the feeing is mutual, take it an run! If not, leave it alone. Once you start palying head games, you have lost all if any trust she had! The odds of her allowing you to do it twice is null! An Aries female who has been hurt, will devlope deep long lasting bitter feelings toward the person who did them wrong. It will sometimes take years before they accept your appology or even talk to you again. They can forgive, but never forget, and will never let you or anyone do it to them a second time.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
This thread is lol worthy. I've come across this from a pisces "ex" and two pisces friends.

This type of bs is absolutely eyeroll worthy. Notorious for playing mind games, solely for the reaction because they love to fuck with people.

In the long run, they fuck things up, the friend/s.o. ends up distancing themselves because they grow tired of being a little experiment to bolster the Pisces' ego.

No idea how this scenario ended up, but I wouldn't be surprised if the Aries was done with the situation.



Happens everytime. And it's so stupid because Aries is the last person you need to play games with. We will boost your ego by just being with you and treating a person the way they deserve to be treated, as our love is pure and innocent. Why mess that up? I don't have time for Pisces bs.
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Oh you pour guy.
I have a Pisces moon so I understand your need to protect those sensitive feelings that normally get the best of you once you??ve fallen for someone. Only thing is, you should??ve done your homework on these —straight-to-the-point-no-chaser?? aries folk. They don't like games AT ALL. And they certainly don't like to feel as though someone was trying to manipulate them. They will only play on someone they don't truly care for, and even then its rare.

With an Aries you can be yourself, because like the others said, Aries will either take it or leave it. By playing the little games, or —feeling her out?? as you put it, you??ve probably made her question if she fell for the real you or not. She could be thinking — how do I know he wasn't hiding him true self from me the whole time until he got finished feeling me out, who did I really fall for— Understand.

Now the others haven't said it yet, but I'm just going to say it, Leave this alone. I know it's hard because you??re stuck on what could??ve been, but just because it could??ve doesn't mean it would??ve. If it's meant to be then she will come around. But I would strongly suggest, you show the confidence, and self-respect you have left by letting her be. The most unattractive thing to any woman, especially a fiery Aries, is a man that continues to sniff right up under her after she's told him she's through; like he has no spine. You texting her the crazy message telling her she's a horrible person, bad move bad bad Pisces! You cannot always act on your emotions. You are a very emotional being, therefore they do not always stir you in the right direction, they often may make you go over the top, use them to guide and your brain should direct, and your heart to keep you flowing. Understand? I mean it, back off or you will be sorry. She will make you feel worse than you do right now, unintentionally of course, but mainly because she won't care.
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Oh you pour guy.
I have a Pisces moon so I understand your need to protect those sensitive feelings that normally get the best of you once you??ve fallen for someone. Only thing is, you should??ve done your homework on these —straight-to-the-point-no-chaser?? aries folk. They don't like games AT ALL. And they certainly don't like to feel as though someone was trying to manipulate them. They will only play on someone they don't truly care for, and even then its rare.

With an Aries you can be yourself, because like the others said, Aries will either take it or leave it. By playing the little games, or —feeling her out?? as you put it, you??ve probably made her question if she fell for the real you or not. She could be thinking — how do I know he wasn't hiding him true self from me the whole time until he got finished feeling me out, who did I really fall for— Understand.

Now the others haven't said it yet, but I'm just going to say it, Leave this alone. I know it's hard because you??re stuck on what could??ve been, but just because it could??ve doesn't mean it would??ve. If it's meant to be then she will come around. But I would strongly suggest, you show the confidence, and self-respect you have left by letting her be. The most unattractive thing to any woman, especially a fiery Aries, is a man that continues to sniff right up under her after she's told him she's through; like he has no spine. You texting her the crazy message telling her she's a horrible person, bad move bad bad Pisces! You cannot always act on your emotions. You are a very emotional being, therefore they do not always stir you in the right direction, they often may make you go over the top, use them to guide and your brain should direct, and your heart to keep you flowing. Understand? I mean it, back off or you will be sorry. She will make you feel worse than you do right now, unintentionally of course, but mainly because she won't care.


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Hi im an aries woman been dumped 5 months ago by my pisces man,after nearly 5 yrs of bliss, if youwant to read more go to Pisces as ihave just posted all about it there! I think you need a cooling off period, say 2 weeks no contact. i dont like to be pursued too much as it feels like i havent earned the love, after 2 weeks, send her a present with a card saying, a short message, like "im sorry, please let me make it up to you beautiful girl (aries girls like flattery and romance) then say when and where like a certain resturant Friday at 8pm il pick you up. An aries woman wants a knight in shining armour , if you get given this chance then dont mess up no mind gamesalways be upfront and honest with aries woman, she will respectand love you for this reason ,good luck x
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Well, it's been a while. I just decided to check up on this old thread, only to be surprised at all the activity in my absence. Allthough i appreciate ALL the advice given, there were some funny ones... like the girl suggesting i should wait 2 weeks, one YEAR after it happened... Still, the advice was genuine, i appreciated it, and i certainly learnt from it. It could be safe to say that this girl was quite a turning point in the way i appreciated and treated women and relationships. I was way too selfish and immature before it. But this gave me a true understanding on what it REALLY means to love someone and respect their feelings.

Well, the tl;dr version of the story is: no, it didn't work out in the end. I did try, but i made some more idiot mistakes, and pushed her away completely. So that's that. She kind of gravitates my circle of friends, so i can probably reestablish a connection with her, but it will be nothing more than a friendly affair. Wich is actually fine by me, 'cause i've finally gotten over the strong feelings i had, and i do value her very much as a person, that i would want to have her as an awsome friend.

Now, i could give the longer version of this story too, because it is fraught with quite a few more tribulations, and it may have use as a "how not to treat Aries girls" example, but it's late in my part of the world, now. Maybe tomorrow.
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I would say, from an aries stand point, maybe just send her a little msg everyday, short and sweet to the point. You miss her, your sorry. But before anything, you need to get over your trust issues. you can't bring old baggage into a new relationship.. that y you need time to be on your own and figure you out. NObody else can complete us. you can't hold trust over a persons head like your holding ransom, trusting others is really more like trusting yourself, and give no person power to crush you, because we are all human and we all make mistakes, we are going to hurt others and hurt ourselves. human nature. sounds like a little self sabatoge as well, like you need to trust in yourself that you are worth having love in your life.
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AquariusGuy
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I have had the same experience only mine was of a longer period of time 6 months and I was the one complimenting her, never had to test her treating her like a princess till she started to be the Aries woman that she is. Take a read of my situation to see what Aries ladies can be like on a thread I posted yesterday called

"Will an Aries woman ever forgive you?"

In anger we all say things before we think and I'm no exception, I have said things very hurtful and bad to make her hate me, regretting every word I have said and would do anything just as your self to get her back.

When I get time latter on I would love to read the replies you have received as I need All the help anyone can offer me as well.

I hope you succeed and if you do Please let me know what you did to get her back.
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AwokenGenius
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That's not true, us Pisces can lie when we want to and very well, especially to avoid hurting someone. But we can be brutally honest... Not all Aries are honest and loyal either, I've met an Aries girl who lies ALOT and cheats, plays games, puts you on the spot saying nasty things she doesn't mean to test you in front of your friends. Never actually cheated on me when I was with her 🙂 just lied to avoid hurting me and saving herself from drama. She ended up dumping me for her ex she moans so much about but she had already fallen in love with him, I guess he tests her more and TBH we was just an exciting fling. I just boosted her ego, self esteem and confidence. Satisfied her sexual needs more as she boosted my ego and sexual needs too. Hence why I know she will always want to come back to me for adventures 😉 other than the lying which makes me see her as innocent and I can't help but forgive her. She is a lovely girl, probably one of the best girls I've ever met. I want to overlook every flaw. Was my best friend, my best lover and if there was no Ex me and her would be a match made in heaven. So saying Pisces and Aries don't work is BS, we both are innocent and playful signs, big kids at heart lol, like being social whilst also both love our alone time and love adventure. Aries wants to be pleased and Pisces is eager to please, Aries wants to lead and Pisces has a secret desire to follow. Aries doesn't like the same boring routine and same boring person. Well Pisces is mysterious, impossible to figure out, forever changing and morphing, mimicking other signs (get what you give). All it takes for us two signs to work is a little bit of compromise as for all relationships! Do that then these two signs will be like soul mates!