
Treplev
@Treplev
13 YearsPisces
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Posted by bkbella86
It's a shame you played games with her. I just don't understand people who play games with people who don't want to play and are upfront and honest, go play with other manipulators and game players.


Posted by Treplev
Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by Treplev
Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"
Oh dear, I feel weird just reading this...."games".. "feeling her out"....ick.
If we are into you we are into you. We don't kinda act like we sorta might like you a bit, kinda.
Just keep it real Treplev. I do hope things work out for you, whatever happens.
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Posted by bkbella86Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by Treplev
Well, i obviously learned that lesson. It's probably because other girls didn't react so badly at these kinds of "games". They seemed pretty innocent to me, i mean. They weren't meant as tests, or the like. Just "feeling her out", without asking things upfront, and well.. ruining the "mystery"
Oh dear, I feel weird just reading this...."games".. "feeling her out"....ick.
If we are into you we are into you. We don't kinda act like we sorta might like you a bit, kinda.
Just keep it real Treplev. I do hope things work out for you, whatever happens.
+1
We don't play bs games were in or out. When were out you will be wondering Wth happened to the person who liked you so much and that's because you took it for granted. If given another chance I hope you do the right thing.click to expand
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by bkbella86
It's a shame you played games with her. I just don't understand people who play games with people who don't want to play and are upfront and honest, go play with other manipulators and game players.
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Posted by bkbella86
It really depends has she been hurt before? For me though its really hard for me to like someone again after I have detached my feelings. Actually I have never gone back to any of my exes except one and he didnt hurt me so it was easy to give it another try. The second time around he did and now he would like another shot and as bad as I would like to give it a third try I can't seem to let go of what happened ( he's a Pisces too btw. I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned. I do think Pisces and Aries can be an amazing match though lots of chemistry, passion, understanding, romance I could go on. Although I have been hurt by a few Pisces I still think its a great match minus Pisces games and deceit.


Posted by bkbella86
I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.

Posted by pariesPosted by bkbella86
I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.
I agree with the earlier comments that those kinds of games and testing would piss me off. But this ^^ might work. Be honest and explain that yes - you made a mistake because you were insecure. As a side note, if you told me after only a month that you were falling in love, warning bells would be ringing in my head. Way too soon.click to expand
Posted by TreplevPosted by pariesPosted by bkbella86
I would do what you just did in this message, lay it all out ( the truth) if she has any feelings left for you then I think it will work if not then you may have to chalk this one up to a lesson learned.
I agree with the earlier comments that those kinds of games and testing would piss me off. But this ^^ might work. Be honest and explain that yes - you made a mistake because you were insecure. As a side note, if you told me after only a month that you were falling in love, warning bells would be ringing in my head. Way too soon.
Well, i didn't exactly said the "l" word out loud. I just told her that i have feelings for her, feelings i haven't had for quite a while, that she's dear to me, and that she comes very close to my idea of "the perfect match". And yes, although i felt such things from way earlier in our small relationship, i didn't tell them to her, until the last week, when she was starting to get distant. I did it because i feared that i've been too mysterious, myself, about this, and because i wanted to reassure her that i really was for real, when it came to her.click to expand

Posted by Treplev
Yeah, well.. that's what i was planning to do, too. I mean, i didn't think of another solution, either.
Thanks for your support, though. If things work, or don't work out, i'll announce them here, for future reference.
But nevertheless, this has been a pretty clear case of "how NOT to do things". Especially with Aries ladies.
Posted by Treplev
Yeah, well.. that's what i was planning to do, too. I mean, i didn't think of another solution, either.
Thanks for your support, though. If things work, or don't work out, i'll announce them here, for future reference.
But nevertheless, this has been a pretty clear case of "how NOT to do things". Especially with Aries ladies.




Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by bkbella86
It's a shame you played games with her. I just don't understand people who play games with people who don't want to play and are upfront and honest, go play with other manipulators and game players.
This. Maybe try a Gemini next time?click to expand
Posted by xxnightbynight
We aries women aren't stupid. We can smell games a million miles away. - We are so upfront, so honest, so forward... we know what we want and when we want it, we go for it. - If you respond with open arms and open hands then all of a sudden play that, "Oh wait... maybe this ISNT what I want" we become sad, and slowly...slowly...slowly... back away. - I believe we Aries go into a relationship and give our all - if we like you, you know it right away. - After this is decided it's up to YOU to continue the relationship upward... if you give us ANY DOUBT... we'll retract right away. - The last thing we need are games.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
^This one, don't play games or act dumb and unassuming etc


Posted by everevolvingepithet
So, what came of this? Any truth and light?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
This thread is lol worthy. I've come across this from a pisces "ex" and two pisces friends.
This type of bs is absolutely eyeroll worthy. Notorious for playing mind games, solely for the reaction because they love to fuck with people.
In the long run, they fuck things up, the friend/s.o. ends up distancing themselves because they grow tired of being a little experiment to bolster the Pisces' ego.
No idea how this scenario ended up, but I wouldn't be surprised if the Aries was done with the situation.

Posted by pinklibra
Oh you pour guy.
I have a Pisces moon so I understand your need to protect those sensitive feelings that normally get the best of you once you??ve fallen for someone. Only thing is, you should??ve done your homework on these —straight-to-the-point-no-chaser?? aries folk. They don't like games AT ALL. And they certainly don't like to feel as though someone was trying to manipulate them. They will only play on someone they don't truly care for, and even then its rare.
With an Aries you can be yourself, because like the others said, Aries will either take it or leave it. By playing the little games, or —feeling her out?? as you put it, you??ve probably made her question if she fell for the real you or not. She could be thinking — how do I know he wasn't hiding him true self from me the whole time until he got finished feeling me out, who did I really fall for— Understand.
Now the others haven't said it yet, but I'm just going to say it, Leave this alone. I know it's hard because you??re stuck on what could??ve been, but just because it could??ve doesn't mean it would??ve. If it's meant to be then she will come around. But I would strongly suggest, you show the confidence, and self-respect you have left by letting her be. The most unattractive thing to any woman, especially a fiery Aries, is a man that continues to sniff right up under her after she's told him she's through; like he has no spine. You texting her the crazy message telling her she's a horrible person, bad move bad bad Pisces! You cannot always act on your emotions. You are a very emotional being, therefore they do not always stir you in the right direction, they often may make you go over the top, use them to guide and your brain should direct, and your heart to keep you flowing. Understand? I mean it, back off or you will be sorry. She will make you feel worse than you do right now, unintentionally of course, but mainly because she won't care.





Posted by qasate4
To be honest, pisces and aries don't work.
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I'm a Pisces male, and about a month ago, i just met this absolutely wonderful Aries girl. We clicked instantly, she was very into me, and in a typical Aries manner she told me right up front that she's interested. She told me that i was only the second guy to stir up such a reaction in her, and that she found this fascinating.
So, we started conversing on IM, phone, sending an awful lot of texts to each other, and everything was going swell. Until i got it in my Piscean head, that things are moving too fast, that is, and getting scared that such a wonderful thing could end too soon, i started testing her. Trying to see how she'd react if i talked about other guys with her, not returning her compliments all the time, "jokingly" musing on the lack of compatibility between our signs, and assuming that we won't work out. Idiotic things like that, that at that moment, seemed ok to me. I mean, "i gotta be sure", don't i?...
Well, obviously these kinds of things started wearing her out, especially since we were actually talking for only about two-three weeks. And she started backing off too. And told me she doesn't like to be tested, and made a scene once. And from then on, it went down hill. Which, in turn, scared the crap out of me, and i stared panicking, and getting in all sorts of dumb fights, and so on. Until a few days ago, when she told me that she doesn't think it's working out anymore, or worth it, for that matter, and that we should get a break, at least, to think things over.
That freaked me out big time, so, in the morning, i texted her, saying she's an awful person, and made me fall in love with her, only to dump me. Some really crazy shit, that I didn't even believe. That pissed her off big time, and then said that she doesn't even want to speak to me anymore. I did appologise, i did explain, but it was no use. So, i professed my love for her again, i told her that i hope we'll get another chance sometime, and didn't say anything else.
And i, of course, am miserable right now, because i really love this girl, and before i started freaking out, she was really almost perfect for me in every sense. And i for her, because she told me that. So i'm not ready to leave it like that. I want this girl back, and i'm willing to fight for her attention again. But i do know quite a lot about Aries, to know that constantly pursuing won't solve anything.
So what do you think the chances are, based on what i just said?