GO F**K YOURSELF!!!

That is what my Hubby told me to tell my Aries friend (if I can even call her that anymore :/) for some shady antics she's been pulling.

So I can't go into FULL detail, but two people I've explained the ENTIRE situation to says it boils down to jealousy. I HONESTY thought Aries were too confident to be jealous of people and that's what I liked about her for the past 7 years. Now...I KNOW FOR A FACT she knows what she did so all her FB messages, e-mails, text messages, phone calls, etc. has been "wanting to talk to me" without saying what the fuck she wants to talk about. Probably out of guilt or the fact that there is SOMEONE (me) out there who doesn't give two shits about being her friend...

Now, I have a very short temper...so I decided the best thing for both of us would be to ignore her after the shit she pulled hit the fan. I WOULD have been down to "talk it out" when it first went down, but when she decided to turn on me that "talking it out" bullshit went out the window!

Two weeks later, she's still trying to wiggle back into my life with her vague messages now that she sees I'm not thinking about her ass. So my question is...do I continue to ignore her until she gets the point (remember: SHORT TEMPER = BAD) OR next time she calls just tell her, "GO FUCK YOURSELF YOU CUNT!" and be done with it?

This is 100% serious and not a joke!

That is not her Aries doing that.

Whatever has happened sounds awful and I am sorry that it happened but all that crap you read in the paper about Aries being jealous monsters is a steaming pile of pig shit.
There will be more to the story than just this chick is an Aries.

It is what it is, but what the fuck?! Who the fuck was this chick for the past 7 years?!

And I never personally read ANYWHERE that Aries are jealous, but if I could go into FULL detail I doubt anyone would disagree that's what it is. And I'm not just saying that for shits and giggles either!

She was confident, did her own thing and then BOOM...double crossed me after all this time! I don't have time for wishy washy muthafuckas so how do I get rid of this bitch?! SERIOUSLY!!!

Yay

I don't think it really matters what she did if I feel the friendship we had is not worth salvaging don't you agree? She could have done something as bad as screwing my husband or something as simple as borrowing my favorite pen and never giving it back. The fact is, she did something to ME that *I* felt was pure BULLSHIT and I need to know if A: Continuing to ignore her or B: Telling her to kick rocks off a cliff would be the best approach to get my point across.

As I said, the shit she pulled is fuckin' serious and I wouldn't ask unless I REALLY needed some strangers opinions!

Thanks!

@VirRck...I will be saying "YAY!" when this chick gets off my shit and gets a hint so no celebrating yet! Soon...but so far...no cigar just yet...

And from your comment, I'm assuming you have no suggestions...would be helpful, but if not...thanks for stopping by!

Yes IW, anger is an emotion, but luckily I'm not letting it drive me to whopping her ass which is what I WANT to do LOL!

You are projecting what you think of the situation into your description of this person and the event.

She is a just a person. Facebook and emails and text messages are not the best way to work out feelings between people.

And you have already made up your mind that you hate this person and don't ever want to be around them, so now all you do all day is connect dots that might not exist.

If you hate her so much, move on, and tell her bluntly that you don't want to talk with her anymore.

The way you made the story out to be like you are 100% innocent and how you left out details of the situation, only makes you look shady.

Not gonna pass judgement on your character, but you need to get perspective and distance to be able to stand back and look at this a different way.

Whatever ...

Yes, she IS just a person...who just so happen to treat someone I THOUGHT she considered a friend like shit over something in my eyes is STUPID! And may I add, there is no reason for me to try to make myself look innocent either...what's the point in that? If I did wrong, I admit it. No need to try to hide it. I just didn't want to post all my damn business online LOL!!!

But you're right HG, it's been two weeks...I've gotten two different "perspectives" (not including my own) and my feelings haven't changed. So I guess I have my answer! Thanks!

Aries not jealous? Ha! That's a load of bullshit right there. Fire signs are prone to jealousy.

Yeah, you sound "done" so let it be just that. I can't give an honest answer without the details. My decisions are based on the situation. It's ALL in the details, history, etc.

BM, I wasn't the one who deemed it as jealousy. When I spoke about it BEFORE things went sour to get feedback (pre-DXP), that's what the people I asked said it was from their perspective. One of those people was my mother who doesn't know her. The other person is my hubby who DOES know her, worked with her and told me, "That doesn't surprise me. I never did like her. I always knew she was shady." (Thanks for telling me babe :/)

When it FIRST happened, I would have been ok to talk about it, but she went further and further and deeper and deeper so when I thought about and "connected the dots" as one person mentioned here, it also made sense from MY perspective. The situation turned malicious because of HER...not me. I was peacefully doing my thing and then shit + fan = WTF!

And as I mentioned before, it doesn't matter what she did if the end result made me upset. If I'm upset...then I'm upset. "What happened?" doesn't really matter. Like if someone made you upset...it doesn't matter WHAT they did because you're upset, right? You could have gotten kicked in the teeth or cut in front of in line to your favorite concert.

As far as my profile...that's neither here nor there. The topic is...actually WAS the best way to deal with someone who is "guilty" of certain types of actions without getting myself arrested LOL!

Thanks, BM. The desire to put in the energy is not there. She killed that when SHE started all this nonsense. She KNEW what she was doing. Her loss, not mine.

And IW...that "friend" I was talking about was me LOL!!!

On that note...I think I got my answer on how to proceed.

And now...it's time for cake! Thanks again everyone! 🙂