HELP! areian male w/ pisces female?

i would really like your guys help, input, whatevers cleva... i just recently met an aries male, and am crazy about him and vice versa, i'm a pisces myself (though not your stero-typical pisces)... o.k. the truth, i just met him less than a week ago and the pull is so strong that i know this is the man i want to marry... crazy, i know!!! and trust, i was never the female to ever see myself getting married, nor did i believe in "love at first sight" or "soul mates"... i thought that i would end up that person who just found someone i was only "compatiable" with, and that i would be content... now i can see so much more, and i am excitied at the prospect and terrified all at the same time of losing it... i've never been so fearful or insecure about an outcome... will an aries say something that he dosen't mean— or is there something i should know about them— anything would be appericiated, thx...

Miss_Jewel... Welcome aboard ! I dont know how many responses U will get to Ur query since there are only a few Aries subjects still hovering around these days. Anyways, I believe that an Aries-Pisces combo can really be wholesome and soothing for an Aries native since Piscean compassion should prove to be a source of succor for any battle hardened/bloodied Aries. I know it may sound as if Aries try to feed off on sympathy, but to an extent it is true that to be efficient one needs confidence which is either inherent in many of the Aries or otherwise has to come from "approval" from others.

In my view, Pisces are generally very kind and lucid, but if they frequently look like being supine, then it may act as a dampener to the whole relationship saga. Any relationship with an Aries is like a strethced elastic - there has to be an optimim amount of tension which should pull him/her back to the equilibrium state and along side that there should be enuf freedom which should allow constant movement.Also, I feel that Aries dont like people who arent sure of the fate of a relationship. It has to be headlong and ardent, without any trace of self-doubt.

And finally, Solitas would be the best person to illuminate us on this topic.

Where you at, P-Angel?

My advice to you is to let act too excited around him. Gurauv is right - Ariens need to chase their prey, but need to know they'll catch him.

A few more insights:
Ariens bore easily, so mix things up a bit. Don't settle into a strict routine.
Use many gestures when holding conversations. Vary your tone and pitch.
One-on-one meetings work best b/c Ariens are attention whores 😉
Don't let him think you're an easy catch. He wants to chase you and win. (Don't back down from arguments, etc.)

Personally I believe Pisces-Aries can be very fulfilling. It seems that everyone important in my life are Pisceans. Go figure!

In any case, good luck to you. Hope I helped. =)

Hey Miss_Jewel

Since I am also a Pisces and the guy I am dating is Aries I will give you my input. Aries do like the chase however they like their alone time which us Pisces can respect because we need alone time to. Therefore let him call you and act like the man when he is around you?my guy likes it when I act like the madam in distress at times and like a J I Jane the next. I find that Aries will keep chasing you as long as you feed them rewards at times. Don't be to clingy!!!....good luck. Dating an Aries is tough but is worth it, they are so passionate and compassionate.

There are so many things about this combo to mention, but, the main ones people have already mentioned. There is one thing that pops into mind at the moment that from my perspective, is one of the major aspects as to why this union of two people are meant to be together.

As you know, Aries LOVES attention, affection, adoration .. yet, they also LOVE freedom, independence, leadership. The thing is, a person might not know from one moment to the next, when the Ram is wanting space or to be cuddled, because of the aire they give off. So, because Pisces is so intuitive, we can actually "feel" other people's moods .. I think we Fish have an advantage over other signs, where we can read the Ram pretty good, so we know when to embrace them with what they need without seeming overbearing, and we know when to back off and let them fly without giving them the impression that we don't care.

Not that other signs can't do this, but, I've heard so many times where a person has to be told by the Ram, to leave him alone, he needs space, he feels like he's being crowded or smothered .. and then the partner gets upset, feels unloved and unappreciated, a fight ensues .. whereas with us, because we know instinctively that they just need room to breathe there is no insecurity present. We know that there is no need to protest because it isn't about not being wanted or loved. Other signs can't sense this, so they get offended and pissed off. Where, because we can "feel" them, we're able to give them a sweet kiss to show them we're still loving them and send them on their way to go on their own personal adventure .. no fights, and the Ram isn't made to feel like he HAS to tell us where he's being driven by his impulses.

There's just this unspoken understanding. And because the Pisces lives every day of their lives NEEDING to be needed, finding absolute love with a person to whom we can care for and nurture .. we find complete satisfaction and are enamoured when the Ram holds you tightly, kisses your forhead and thanks you for being understanding and not getting upset that he needs to spread his wings for a bit and soar .. it's that common feeling of complete understanding that each does this as a way of showing love for each other that is the magnetic bond.

Aries wants to be understood intuitively, and to not be doubted .. Pisces wants to be appreciated, and have just one soul to bind themselves to. It's an absolute match made in Heaven from my perspective

wow, i wasn't sure anyone would actually respond to me, thank you so much!!! and everything that you folks wrote was though out, i really appericate the time that you took for all of that, espically to an absolute stranger 🙂... i appericiate being that "old soul" of a pisces, i'm very adaptable, out-going yet reserved at times, i'm good at reading people, and have had to be "strong and tough" out of self-preservation... it is such a relief to finally meet a man who has "bigger balls" than i and who allows me to lean on someone else a lil for a change... and my man confessed to me that before he met me it was all about the "numbers" (how many women he could actually sleep with, he was your straight up typical "bad boy") and that at first he only wanted me b/c i initally blew him off, lol, that should sound familiar to other arians out there 🙂... but that now he is so in love with me... and b/c i am too, i want to keep him interested... he is actually a marine, and is in training for a month, and when he gets out, will be home for 3 days before getting deployed to iraq for 9 months 😢... and i can wait for him b/c i don't want to imagine my life without him (once you've had it you can't go back to the mundane)... do you think it wise that i should share these feeling with him— it's hard for me not to, but i'm not sure if arians are the type to scare off eaisly by strong emotions... i know i feel insane for asking these things, guess i would take any guidance at this point, and you all seem to know excatally what you're talking about to a tee, it's uncanny...

Aries make anyone feel like their soulmate..so don't get too carried away...you need to be headstrong and tough to be with one..but also need a compassionate side too...good luck..I don't hear of this combo either...

"Aries wants to be understood intuitively, and to not be doubted .. Pisces wants to be appreciated, and have just one soul to bind themselves to. It's an absolute match made in Heaven from my perspective."

I agree too, P-Angel..*my parents had this combo; what one was lacking the other had..& vice versa.. also, pisces is very ardent and passionate, much like Aries. I've heard many astrologers say this can be a very good match..*in short, they need each other.

It wouldn't be accurate to think that every Pisces female is a push-over or weak .. on the contrary, most female Pisceans are very headstrong .. of course, then you might get the bossiness GR has witnessed.

Fortunately for this combo there are the middle grounds in both Aries and Pisces .. where he isn't such a cad and she's more nuetral in dispotition.

It appears from people I know that this combo is found more often with the Aries female/Pisces Male.

Aries were born for Pisces .. there's no doubt in my mind about it, mystic

I have a dear friend of mine (he passed on) to whom him and I were like one person split in half (we were friends) .. anyway, perfect unison together, like a dance .. the unspoken understanding of each other's true natures was uncanny.

wow, that's beautiful to hear, P-Angel; thanks for sharing.. 🙂

i go well with pisces ppl

i think pisces girl good for aries but like what gemini fox said

aries be tough sometimes so i hope this not be a problem


i have venus on pisces exalted :p

and sun too exalted cool huh :p

Some good points, geminifox; i would also say an Aries with a Piscean mercury (planet of communication) will help to bridge the gap, as well. Or a Piscean with an aries mercury. As well, there are many more strong-minded pisceans out there who are in control of their emotions, thanks to their deeper spiritual selves, then not. Although we pisceans are sensitive by nature, the drama and hyper-emotion is really astrological stereotyping, as is the the sun-sign stereotyping of many Aries.. *Of course, the full planetary birth chart of the individuals is the only way to have any real type of accuracy..

gemini fox

i think you and ur aries very very romantic :d

that what i see from ur venus and his moon


i got gemini /cancer cusp moon

my rising is leo ,virgo or libra im not sure wich one

So very true, gf; when all is said and done, i am very true to my sun-sign, and wouldn't trade it for nothing..! i guess it's how most people feel about their own sun-sign..! 😉