Hello All,
I am very much infatuated with an Aries Male... we have been flirting off and on for over year. He initially pursued me aggressively, very fast... it was too fast, so the pace slowed down per my request. We are friends in a weird kinda way... there is an enourmous sexual attraction between us... but neither of us is saying or doing anything it is so frustrating, and I admit that I am rather intimidated and very nervous to really open up and talk to him openly about (the depths) of how I really feel for fear of rejection (its kinda happened before, rejection that is (or maybe it was just him being an Aries Man and not really his idea of "rejection"??...its a long story) but the "interest and attraction" are both still very much present, they have never left. What do I do, is it impossible to get this thing of the ground? We have little to no communication ... other than smiles and wanting glances, lots of compliments, and small talk (note: we are colleagues). Could it be a game of I enjoy looking at you and flirting with you but thats it??? Help me out here... sorry alot of the story had to get left out... ya know too long. But feel free to ask any questions any of you might have. I will glady fill in the blanks.
Thanks in advance....
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
Hi I Luv Aries!
I should mention I am a cancer, and have been involved most of my life as friends or lovers with both of these signs (taurus-aries). My first guess would be depending on how long you have been flirting with this Aries, is that he is interested no doubt, but if nothing has happened within a week or two - It's either because he has another girlfriend or he is just playing the flirting game which is so true of this sign in my experience. I don't think Taurus-Aries is not a good combination from what they say, but that also is depending on your individual birth charts too - everyone is different - so anything can happen right! If you are interested why don't you do something like ask him to go for a coffee or something - you can't lose with that? But be careful about being over-infatuated, these little aries can sometimes break your heart in a hurry OK.
Be Good,
Whatever
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
From an Aries male point of view and I am Aries and male.
I have been in this situation many times. We can be child like in the first and somewhat shy to make the first move.If we do and are put off because we are too clumsy it can take ages to recover and sometimes never do.
The worst thing you can do in my experience to an Aries is cross them in love. The pain of rejection as with most can be very hard to take with Aries they do not discriminate and usually remember who it was.Having said that we can also be very forgiving.
From what you say and its only a guess it would be that he is scared of making the move because of what happened. I would definetly move on him in any way you feel comfortable but you have to make it clear.Men are dummies in recognising the signs and maybe Aries is the dummest. I know I am. If you made a play on me I would think you forgot your contact lenses and got memixed up with someone else.
Yes Aries can be heartbreakers but there are many reasons for this and not all selfish one,s.
Good luck and if you do get it all wrong then at least you,ll know.
Rudolph Valentino
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
I am an Aries woman, My personal experience with the Taurians is that we do not go well together.
I am agressive and fast-pased. The Taurian appeals to me in that they are very loyal. But soon bore me.
The area that we most clash is that he was soooo possive and not opened minded.
I was too much for the subtile Tarus to handle.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
Snap! I'm glad I'm not the only one! Fast-paced and furious at first, then very little conversation - hell, he doesn't even seem interested in trading on each others' pasts! Are they all as confusing and infuriating as this? Also, mine seems a little unemotional..any ideas, anyone?
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
It's Ok. I'm a Taurus and my boyfriend of 4 years is very much an Aries. It took me almost 6 months to get him to commit.
At first he didn't want to commit and had no use for a girlfriend. So after some aggressiveness (passively) and persistence I was able to win him over. Things are great.
Be careful though...you don't want to push or scare them. Be confident in yourself and they will admire you for that. Good luck.
Fellow Tauren