Help with Aries man!
This topic was created in the Aries forum by arris7 on Wednesday, May 1, 2013 and has 3 replies.
Hi everyone! New poster here and need help with an Aries man.
We've been seeing another for 2 months (aren't "officially" dating though) and things have been nothing short of amazing! I've never had a connection with anyone like this before and the way we've hit things off is awesome. We text all day long, then phone at night, and usually text after we get off the phone. We both want similar things in life and have alot of what the other person is looking for. We have a great time when we see one another and the time literally just flies by.
So the problem: He told me a few days ago that more than likely he will be moving away in a few months because of work; it's between 2 locations, one much further than the other. He said he feels like he's between a rock and a hard place and I opened up to him, which is hard for me to do with some people. He said he didn't want to get too attached to me because he is sensitive when it comes to relationships, as am I. He's been VERY distant since he told me this and I don't know what to do. Do I just let it go and take it for what it is? Or do I open up to him even more even though we've only known each other for 2 months? I've never in my life met anyone like him and I most certainly have never felt a connection like this before and I don't want to lose it. I'm not naive and know things will be hard, but it can be worth it, right?
We've been seeing another for 2 months (aren't "officially" dating though) and things have been nothing short of amazing! I've never had a connection with anyone like this before and the way we've hit things off is awesome. We text all day long, then phone at night, and usually text after we get off the phone. We both want similar things in life and have alot of what the other person is looking for. We have a great time when we see one another and the time literally just flies by.
So the problem: He told me a few days ago that more than likely he will be moving away in a few months because of work; it's between 2 locations, one much further than the other. He said he feels like he's between a rock and a hard place and I opened up to him, which is hard for me to do with some people. He said he didn't want to get too attached to me because he is sensitive when it comes to relationships, as am I. He's been VERY distant since he told me this and I don't know what to do. Do I just let it go and take it for what it is? Or do I open up to him even more even though we've only known each other for 2 months? I've never in my life met anyone like him and I most certainly have never felt a connection like this before and I don't want to lose it. I'm not naive and know things will be hard, but it can be worth it, right?
When my Aries hubby seems really distant, he always tells me, "I have a lot on my mind." Could it be that? What exactly did you tell him when he broke the news to you that he'll be relocating? He could be pondering over your reaction. I mean, he obviously feels some kind of connection to you too, right? Otherwise he wouldn't be in between a rock and a hard place. IMHO, it may be that he wants to continue a relationship with you, but is unsure if you're even willing to go the LDR route with him.
You never know what will happen unless you take a chance.
You never know what will happen unless you take a chance.
One of the places is about 5 hrs away (driving) and the other is much further (would require a plane ride each time). I know he feels a connection because he's told me before. I"m just worried of scaring him off after only 2 months if I tell him how I really feel. I know he doesn't want to get hurt either which is why he's distancing himself. I know it is hard on him but he also said he didn't want to be in a committed relationship if he's going to move. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to jump into a relationship just for the sake of saying we are bf/gf before he moves. Buuuut I would still like to talk to him and see him and still talk/get to know one another after he moves and see where things go from there. If things got serious enough, then I would obviously explore my options as far as moving closer to him goes. I didn't tell him any of that but I did tell him that he has a lot of traits I am looking for in someone, that we have a lot in common, we both want the same things, and that it sucks that this is now happening; he thanked me for opening up to him.
What do I do with this Aries man? Do I take the chance or just let him distance himself and let things fade away? I really don't know what to do and it's killing me because like I said, I've never met anyone like him before and have never had this connection with anyone else
What do I do with this Aries man? Do I take the chance or just let him distance himself and let things fade away? I really don't know what to do and it's killing me because like I said, I've never met anyone like him before and have never had this connection with anyone else
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