He's back, not mad at me.

Ok, the other day I asked for advice on getting my aires guy back. I don't want to mess things up. I left him alone for a few days and all of the sudden he came knocking on my door. ( I was so surprised to see him) well he said some mean things to me, brought up things from the past and I'm always apologize and tell him I regret all the bad. ( He tends to bring up everything from the first time I stood him up and so on...) Ok so I didn't talk about our last encounter because I don't want to fight any more. He was a little weird but I played it off like I was really cool and we smoked some Bud. and I would look at him like normal. I almost want to say he was surprised that I didn't blow up or asked cause sometimes the look on his face was why aren't you asking me or why not fight more. I acted cool, made jokes, we chilled. Then when he was leaving. I was like "ok it was nice hanging out". and I started walking away. and He said hey, I turned around and he looked like he wanted to say something. He said "I'll be coming around ok?, I'll be coming around" I was like sure that's sound great when you want to, you're welcome to. ok my question is if he wished me a good life that was the end. Why did he come around? while fighting he told me he didn't find me attractive to sleep with any more. well I want to sleep with him, (we have slept with each other during our passed) But I don't want to make the moves any more. The reason why we fought last time is because I asked to be homie, lover, friends since he doesn't want a relationship. I'm confused. I'm a sagittarius. I don't even know how to act with him. Inside I dying to be with him. I miss the kisses we shared. Help me some advice my Aries friends, I don't want to mess things up. (would love to sleep with again and all the chances I can get.

Posted by tiziani
He sounds like a wet paper towel. Needs to man up. Unfortunately I doubt he will do this while in your company. Set the guy free.

lmao at wet paper towel.

let this ninja go!

he had the nerve to tell you that you werent desirable? isnt that enough?

he will hurt you if you let him.

You want to be someone's booty call—

Girl, you go do your thing. But, I wouldn't be settling for such shit! You want more than what he has to offer. Get out, live life and love will find you!

I have set him free in the past, in fact I considered it over that last fight, I was hurt with the words he said. I had plan to give up on him and move on. And yes he has been more meaner each time we fight. I stay away for a minute and he's the one that comes around. He is so secretive with his life, I don't even know where he lives. He knows everything about me and whats going on. And I only see what he shares around me. I do believe my self esteem is on the floor because of all the bad I've gone thur with my relationships that I look at men with fear. I don't talk to any other guy. I have no guy friends just my girlfriends. and he doesn't like my friends. So thats a bad start. I think he likes the idea that I'm with no one. He helps me around my house to do things (fixing because he's a maintenance guy/ mechanic) well we went to the auto store to buy oil and thing to do a tune-up on my car. He was checking out the girls that work there at the auto store. (I noticed that) but since I have gone down that road before of why are you checking out girls in front me bit, and he blew up on me. That this time I acted like I didn't noticed. But it hurt inside. The sex is the bomb!! even better than when I was married to my ex of 8yrs. I sometimes get mad at myself to, why he is the way he is with me. I think he likes being like a knight in shinning amor, cause he sees I needs things done around my house. And yes I think I had giving up on guys. I had told myself that I wasn't going to be with nobody because it seems I only attract mean ass guys.

And you've attracted another...

You don't even know where he lives?

Girl, move it! Drop him like lead! No good, piece of shit. You don't need to be played like that. Give yourself credit, better yet VALUE YOU!

Posted by TicaLinda
I have set him free in the past, in fact I considered it over that last fight, I was hurt with the words he said. I had plan to give up on him and move on. And yes he has been more meaner each time we fight. I stay away for a minute and he's the one that comes around. He is so secretive with his life, I don't even know where he lives. He knows everything about me and whats going on. And I only see what he shares around me. I do believe my self esteem is on the floor because of all the bad I've gone thur with my relationships that I look at men with fear. I don't talk to any other guy. I have no guy friends just my girlfriends. and he doesn't like my friends. So thats a bad start. I think he likes the idea that I'm with no one. He helps me around my house to do things (fixing because he's a maintenance guy/ mechanic) well we went to the auto store to buy oil and thing to do a tune-up on my car. He was checking out the girls that work there at the auto store. (I noticed that) but since I have gone down that road before of why are you checking out girls in front me bit, and he blew up on me. That this time I acted like I didn't noticed. But it hurt inside. The sex is the bomb!! even better than when I was married to my ex of 8yrs. I sometimes get mad at myself to, why he is the way he is with me. I think he likes being like a knight in shinning amor, cause he sees I needs things done around my house. And yes I think I had giving up on guys. I had told myself that I wasn't going to be with nobody because it seems I only attract mean ass guys.

so do u want dick and a changed light bulb....or ya self respect....doesnt seem like you can have both with this character.

He's a reflection of your insecurity. Self-respect goes a long way, by respecting yourself knowing you are valuable enough not to be treated this way.

If he comes around as he says he will, his attitude & perspective better have changed before he can even come and knock on your door again.

He's a loser. He's acting this way because you LET him. Don't pity yourself; when you start acting like you deserve better you'll get better. Leave that one alone and find yourself another good piece. LOL! I hope you feel better soon...