How do I get this Aries guy to leave me alone—

Im really not interested at ALL. It's annoying and this kind of perserverance is not good. I have no intentions whatsoever about changing my mind. Plus I just got ot of a serious relationship and I dont want to be seeing anyone anyways. I asked my ex to come along with me to the party a while ago cause we're still friends. Do u think that this Aries guy is still going to be hitting on me with him there? I just want him to get away from me. Sure he's hot, but looks are the last thing I look for in a guy. Personality is number one for me and so far his doesnt seem to be that great. Help!

Like Ovi said... I don't think he would act that way in person. The Aries guy I talk to now will text me tons of sexual stuff but when we're all alone in person.. he doesn't say a word sexual even if I'm the one who starts saying stuff. Online talking and text messaging give people a lot more confidence. I would just tell him you're not comfortable with all the blunt sex talk and that you would prefer not talking to him if he can't stop being so forward. It's not being mean.. it's abut you demanding the respect that you deserve. If you don't like it, you don't deserve for someone to continue such a rude behavior towards you.

As an Aries myself, I would be as straight up as possible without hurting their feelings. Keep in mind, this may happen anyway, but try to be kind. A lot of us are just little lambs underneath our tough outer exterior.
I don't think he will be that way in public, but it's hard to say. I would try to talk to him and tell him your feelings, but you'd like to be friends. Even if you don't, it will help if you say this. It would help to mention you just got out of a relationship and can't go there now. This way, you told almost the whole truth, but didn't have to crush him by saying he's creeping you out.
Let us know how it goes!

-RFT

if you dont want to sound mean or b!tchy then you just have to continue to ignore him. if you genuinely don't like him then you should also be that genuinely uninterested in his messages and not bother reading them. if they offend you, all the more reason to not read them. all you have to do is click the Delete button on how ever many messages he sends you each day...takes like .25 seconds

He's Stalking You - Thats Serious !!
Block him from seeing your profile on Facebook
Nothing to do with what his Starsign is, hes a stalker and you should take steps to protect yourself.

Mr Nice is correct, be careful how you handle it....
Aries can be very vindictive and be excellent at getting their revenge one way or another, usually thru mind games

A long time ago i had a similar experience with an Aries who did just that
However, being a Cappy, I could be equally vindictive and nasty if i had too (and i did)

Good Luck, but I still think youve got a stalker on your hands !!

If she's let him know she's not interested and he wont take no for an answer - he's a stalker !!
He may want to "Fuck Her" but she's made it clear she's not interested - but he wont stop - what do you think that makes him —

Posted by ariessun

Posted by dogsbody
If she's let him know she's not interested and he wont take no for an answer - he's a stalker !!
He may want to "Fuck Her" but she's made it clear she's not interested - but he wont stop - what do you think that makes him —

that makes him...well...an aries...

two signs who take "not interested" as a challenge...scorps and aries...the difference between the two? aries has a short attention span and will lose interest..a scorp won't. 😉

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Hey lady!!
Wow, you hit this one on the head. So very true about us Aries and Scorps. I don't see this guy as a stalker, but maybe it's because I have a kin to my fellow Aries.
AS is right...he will eventually lose interest, so give it some time.

^^^^ now he wants you to beg for it. effin aries 😄

Posted by pisces1213
This one Aries guy contacted me through facebook about three weeks ago. He's friends of one of my friends and he found me through him. He flirts with me a little too strongly and he is unbelievably pushy about sex and stuff. I went along with it a bit until it got overly annoying and I told him he's coming on too strong. He said sorry but kept going.

Now I just stopped replying to his messages but he keeps writing me asking me a bunch of questions and asking why I stopped replying and if Im mad. HOW do I get him to just stop?? I dont want to come across as mean or something though...

HELP! It's kind of creeping me out and its realllllly annoying now. And are Aries guys like this normally in general? Are they really that pushy?? My ex Aqua guy used to call me pushy (about ceratin other things) and Im nothing like this guy but he finally made me realize how I could be annoying sometimes. But this situation is creepy pushy. I need some help especially because Im gonna go to my best friends birthday party on friday and he's going to be there I think. What should I do at the party if he starts pushing me for sex or following me around or something?

Call the police if he starts following you around asking for sex.

Also, can't you block him on FaceBook?

Just block him, go to your settings and add his name in to block him. You will just disappear off his page and he wont be able to find you again. The only thing is everytime you talk to your mutual friend he can see what you are talking about unless it is a PM.

Perserverance/stalker or whatever, you dont need to put up with some creep in your life that makes you feel uncomfortable and wont listen. Especially when he is talking gutter trash to you, would make anyone feel sick!!!!

And stop being so nice, sometimes in life you have to be stand up for yourself. This is one of them or he'll continue to bother you!

Thank you guys for the advice! Well I actually ended up going to four different parties that night cause each one kept getting broken up. He was at the third one I went to and he was kind of starting at me the whole time I was there but didnt come up to me cause he saw I was talking to my ex bf and some of my other friends. We left after being at that party for like 10 min anyway cause it seemed pretty boaring. Then he sent me a few messages jokingly saying Im mean cause I didnt say hi to him at the party and I stopped replying. He's slowing down on the messages so Im hoping he's finally getting it. Thank you guys! 🙂