How do you Aries endure hardship?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by aquaglass on Sunday, December 10, 2023 and has 11 replies.
I’m having a significant life change right now and it’s not an easy journey to me. As an aqua my thoughts immediately set to detach from anyone including my Aries boyfriend and sort things out by myself as I’ve been feeling not so well lately. I tried to let him know about it since I feel like I don’t want him to see that I am struggling as it’s not fair for him to have to deal with me while I am not in a good situation myself.

However, he insisted to stay and don’t want to let this situation affects us. He said he wants to be with me and beside me during this difficult time. I know he cares a lot about me and I do too about him that’s why I feel like it’s not fair to keep him around.

How do you Aries men handle this such situation and how do you endure such hardship in relationship?
He wants to be there and endure this hardship with you.

You aren't "keeping him around". He's volunteering himself to be there. To stay and fight. That's how Aries endure hardships. There's no just sitting around and waiting for a problem to go away.
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Aries barely know the diference between hardships and normal days
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You do you, but turn to Aries once in a while when the going gets rough. They commit pretty early on and mean it.
Posted by poppyflower
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Aries barely know the diference between hardships and normal days


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Posted by poppyflower
He wants to be there and endure this hardship with you.
You aren't "keeping him around". He's volunteering himself to be there. To stay and fight. That's how Aries endure hardships. There's no just sitting around and waiting for a problem to go away.
this x 100.
i mean, i get the whole wanting to isolate yourself when going through hardship feeling.

my misery doesn’t love company and i don’t like burdening other people so i totally get where you’re coming from, op.

but if the roles were reversed and my partner was going through something, i would definitely wanna know about it and help find solutions/offer support in whatever form they needed.

i’d feel sorta left out if they decided to isolate themselves and go through the hardship on their own. i know this sounds real contradictory 😅 but yeah.
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Aries barely know the diference between hardships and normal days
we actually perform better when we’re under pressure or in difficult predicaments lol we like to stretch our limits.
People forget that Aquarius is co-ruled by Saturn. Eventually like Capricorn, you will be ground down to your core as Saturn tends to do. Aries and endurance? It depends on the person and other chart placements. Aries in love with their head-strong activity driven ways could be good for getting you out of your occasional funk.
Posted by serenidad
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Aries barely know the diference between hardships and normal days


we actually perform better when we’re under pressure or in difficult predicaments lol we like to stretch our limits.
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Yes, yes....

Update:

Almost 6 months in with aries bf. He's my rock so far and sat with me through drama lol. He said he hates drama but still stick to it anyways. Let's see where this goes