Huntress

This question is for my Aries ladies. Do you see yourself as a hunter when dating? I am! I think it's so funny that even though I fear a lot of things, I don't fear pursuing men. I get a kick out of it actually. I'll ask a guy for his number first. I like to call first and ask about the initial date. That butterflies feeling is exciting. This is only with guys that I'm *really* interested in though. If I'm not interested, I'll let them chase me and then decide if I want to be caught. Sometimes when I catch my guy and I have his attention, the game is over. I'm bored and want to move on to the next guy. THIS is why being in stable, long-term relationships is better for me. My way of dating is not healthy. I play too much.

Haha, I stopped chasing men because it never worked out for me in the long run. I do a little play and tag to see if they're interested, just to pull them a little closer. 😄

I'm the same way... I love the rollercoaster ride of the Chase.. the hunt. Makes me feel in control! And if a guy is chasing me, I just don't really like it, feel like they are trying to take something from me.. is that wierd?

Posted by raerae2one8
I'm the same way... I love the rollercoaster ride of the Chase.. the hunt. Makes me feel in control! And if a guy is chasing me, I just don't really like it, feel like they are trying to take something from me.. is that wierd?

YES! I feel the same way when guys are too into me real fast. My first thought is what does he want from me? lol! I like the feeling of being in control of how things are moving as well. It's fun. This is why I love water signs. They let me think I'm in control. 🙂 Other fire signs won't let me be great! 😉 They like to be the one calling the shots.

Posted by starlover
Aries rising here 🙂 I always did the initiating until i met an Aries man ~~ my karma LOL

I'm sure that he was all over you Don Juan style lol! That's how we roll.

Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Haha, I stopped chasing men because it never worked out for me in the long run. I do a little play and tag to see if they're interested, just to pull them a little closer. 😄

I agree with you. Too much chasing is not healthy. It's just because I want to win, not necessarily because I'm so in love. A little healthy tag is never bad. 😉

Amen to that! I've never had a relationship with a fire sign. I still wonder what it would be like but I can never get beyond one or two dates.

It fizzles for me or them. I've only dated a few though. Water signs are very attracted to me and as I am to them.

I was in a relationship with a Scorpio for a few years. He's the only guy that I could see myself with long term. There were a lot of issues in the beginning though that never gave us a solid foundation. We tried for so long to get it right but just couldn't. The sex was amazing though... Intense and passionate. I don't think I'll every completely shake him from my system. He's just as hopeless. Our relationship ended 6 years ago and over these six years we've randomly tried to get back together.

He admitted a few months ago I am the only woman he's ever really wanted to marry. That broke my heart.

Posted by wateryram80
This question is for my Aries ladies. Do you see yourself as a hunter when dating? I am! I think it's so funny that even though I fear a lot of things, I don't fear pursuing men. I get a kick out of it actually. I'll ask a guy for his number first. I like to call first and ask about the initial date. That butterflies feeling is exciting. This is only with guys that I'm *really* interested in though. If I'm not interested, I'll let them chase me and then decide if I want to be caught. Sometimes when I catch my guy and I have his attention, the game is over. I'm bored and want to move on to the next guy. THIS is why being in stable, long-term relationships is better for me. My way of dating is not healthy. I play too much.

My, my, you are so bold! I could never work up the courage to ask a man for his phone number lol