I can be downright cruel

This topic was created in the Aries forum by AriesinLuuuv on Sunday, February 17, 2013 and has 161 replies.
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Sometimes I find I get myself into situations where I'm actually being too nice and not making it clear to someone that I'm not really that into them...This is usually due to my desire to keep them around for the entertainment value and to gather compliments for my ever-needy ego. It pretty awful and I'm not proud of it. What usually happens next is, due to boredom I agree to go do something with this person and start regretting it pretty quickly, which is when the cruelty can come out. Not in control of my mouth and although I feel like I'm saying things in a diplomatic manner, upon reflection later I recognize that I actually deal some crushing, albeit craftily worded, blows.
Its especially bad if I feel that you're adoring me like a love-sick puppy. Funny how I want a guy to txt a lot, come up with stuff to do, gush, etc, but when they're actually like that, I'm like Ack! What a fuckin' puss! The only way I find I can look past this if you've got large apparatus, if not, it will be difficult for me to hold back from pointing out that you don't have what it takes and from there it just gets awkward....LOL, but at least I'm pretty sure I won't have to deal with you anymore.
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Posted by Jynja
Where's your Mars placement, Aries?


Mars is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
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I can relate to this. There is nothing wrong with being blunt, or saying things in a diplomatic way. It is a VERY fair way to be. So you round him up then size him up. That's ok too. Sounds like you're real vixen material : that's sexy!!
You know what you like, what you want and what you don't like, go aries!
Also sounds like you want a real man! smile
One thing I can say, and I speak for myself as well, be careful that your desire for attention and winning doesn't block you from seeing the redeeming qualities of a potential partner. And size totally matters.



Yes. A real man. And actually I have one, a Leo. Everything I could desire and a challenge for sure. But we are in a holding pattern due to decision to not get too emotionally attached while I'm not yet fully divorced...therefore I must entertain myself with others to quell my impatience. Sigh.
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Sometimes I find I get myself into situations where I'm actually being too nice and not making it clear to someone that I'm not really that into them...This is usually due to my desire to keep them around for the entertainment value and to gather compliments for my ever-needy ego. It pretty awful and I'm not proud of it. What usually happens next is, due to boredom I agree to go do something with this person and start regretting it pretty quickly, which is when the cruelty can come out. Not in control of my mouth and although I feel like I'm saying things in a diplomatic manner, upon reflection later I recognize that I actually deal some crushing, albeit craftily worded, blows.
Its especially bad if I feel that you're adoring me like a love-sick puppy. Funny how I want a guy to txt a lot, come up with stuff to do, gush, etc, but when they're actually like that, I'm like Ack! What a fuckin' puss! The only way I find I can look past this if you've got large apparatus, if not, it will be difficult for me to hold back from pointing out that you don't have what it takes and from there it just gets awkward....LOL, but at least I'm pretty sure I won't have to deal with you anymore.


A true women.
One who scans and test those who r worthy.
There is nothing wrong.
Weak men cannot protect u nor ur children.
It is important to test a man.
If u fail.
Ur descendent will inherit a weak gene and u will never be happy.
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Posted by Spectre

A true women.
One who scans and test those who r worthy.
There is nothing wrong.
Weak men cannot protect u nor ur children.
It is important to test a man.
If u fail.
Ur descendent will inherit a weak gene and u will never be happy.



Spectre! You mutherfucker! You damned right! Say it again!

@Ariesinluuv,
I am much like you but, I do not express it verbally. I just leave them. I am a Gemini Moon too. My Venus is "Ms. Disappearing Acts."
There are alpha males that will come at you ver lovey dovey but, with an true alpha, it will not feel like weakness. It will feel like strong.
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You all misunderstand a bit. I literally KNOW very quickly that they are not real candidates, yet I keep them around to txt with me when I'm bored, take me out, go play pool, etc. And I'm not particularly engaging...I do not flatter or make statements about things we should go do and I marvel that they continue to advance despite my giving no signals. (I mean, I can't control if I've got undeniable sex appeal!) Then when I get bored with the game or they start asking me "What do you want to do with me upstairs?" and I'm thinking "not a damn thing!" I delivering the "news".
Its like a cat that catches the mouse to play with ....and plays with it til it is barely clinging to life. Bat...bat...batbatbat...nibble..bat... poor lil fuckers.
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With my Sag friend, that poor guy, he was the total pathetic puppy that never wanted to take the hint until I got brutal...I mean from the get-go I did say I questioned the physical chemistry, but I did like him as a person. He didn't really listen to all the red flags I threw...it actually became literal entertainment to see what he would do when I'd txt this or that...sort of pulling him back subtly, then wham! We even went away for a weekend and I sat thru tons of seriously dull conversation and eventually drank enough wine to try out what would happen physically...ugh. So on the way home, I delivered again the news that it just wasn't there... my "tactful in my mind" reasoning was that I was concerned about being with someone with health problems (he got frequent headaches) and I hated to tell him, but only a TRUE friend would, that he had bad breath and that it even created clouds. It was true and I felt this was a service to him. What is it about older men that at a certain point they get "old man breath"...jeebus! Anyway, he was pretty crushed and deflated, but guess what! He's STILL friends with me and STILL tells me he misses me and enjoys my company and invites me away skiing!! hahaha! I still need someone to txt with when I'm bored soooooo.....
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Chinny reckon! smile


Huh??
everevolvingep... For a long time I had "SMRT ARS" on my license plates. haha
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
You all misunderstand a bit. I literally KNOW very quickly that they are not real candidates, yet I keep them around to txt with me when I'm bored, take me out, go play pool, etc. And I'm not particularly engaging...I do not flatter or make statements about things we should go do and I marvel that they continue to advance despite my giving no signals. (I mean, I can't control if I've got undeniable sex appeal!) Then when I get bored with the game or they start asking me "What do you want to do with me upstairs?" and I'm thinking "not a damn thing!" I delivering the "news".
Its like a cat that catches the mouse to play with ....and plays with it til it is barely clinging to life. Bat...bat...batbatbat...nibble..bat... poor lil fuckers.


Every women needs to keep losers around them, plenty of them, those love sick puppies.
It is essential that u do so.
That determines ur value.
The more u have, the higher the value.
A man is highly visual, a man is predatory.
An alpha will not settle anything lesser then a Queen as mate.

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Spectre: Well, that is my intention for my Leo king so I'm on the right track...although I feel it wise not to inform his liege that I have minions that I toy with in his absence.
everevlovingep: noticed your smart arse in your lil profile box. the plate can only hold 7 letters so smrt ars it was. the truck says bad ars. smile
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Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.


Like I said, Sag was repeatedly told that I had concerns and didn't think it was there for me...no cocktease. And I certainly never said I consider this to be a quality of mine! But I do accept myself as I am and am not overly tied to my mind. I try to allow my outer self to conduct itself, while my true self observes. This whole "reality" of ours is a school and we each play our part in other's lessons as well.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.


yeah, I was kinda thinking this too. Shame since OP was really torn up just a few days ago when the Leo distanced himself. I have a feeling the Leo will again be the puppet of the hands of karma and heartache will come her way.
Mind your ways, aires...what goes around, comes around. And tends to kick you in the ass with steel toed boots.
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Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?
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Hi BGP! Hope you're hanging in there. smile
Yeah, I was pretty torn up, but it turns out it was for naught. We talked on V Day and he did need space because he was pretty hurt by my threat to end it during our argument. Plus he was focused on his next big deal (work-wise) and opened up about how scared he was to venture into this thing he's doing. He had a big meeting about it all day and in the eve told me he'd be leaving in the morning for a week to go do this thing. He's a spooky type (which I'm so drawn to - this is my 2nd spook and we met by total accident. I was not seeking another.) and this has been something he's hinted at going to do for a while. I know he's negotiated a big chunk of change to go do this and has casually talked about how he's doing this so we can go off and buy an RV and travel and how he'd homeschool my child. LOL!! Of course, I'm an adventure freak so although I played it off, I'd be totally down if this is what he wanted to do.
I know its not a nice thing I'm doing with these guys, but I never lead them to believe there's some future when there's not.
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Could you be angry at someone else and projecting it onto others as a pressure valve release? Something to consider?
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.


Like I said, Sag was repeatedly told that I had concerns and didn't think it was there for me...no cocktease. And I certainly never said I consider this to be a quality of mine! But I do accept myself as I am and am not overly tied to my mind. I try to allow my outer self to conduct itself, while my true self observes. This whole "reality" of ours is a school and we each play our part in other's lessons as well.
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The traits u display r inherently correct 2 gauge a potential mate.
Nothing wrong there.
Heed my warning as well as those brave enough to speak; There is a fine line between a flirt and a tramp. When u r seen as displaying tramp qualities, ur value goes to 0.
No Alpha will want a tramp as mate, he will accept nothing lesser then a Queen.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?


No, no, no. They don't want to love me...ok, maybe Sag did..but Virgo has wanted a casual sex thing with me for a while and I'm not into it, but I will let him take me out. Sag guy I really do like, as a friend! And I was STRAIGHT UP from the beginning...he just wanted to keep trying to win me over..and I let him try.
Is that really so bad?
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Posted by VenusAquarius
Could you be angry at someone else and projecting it onto others as a pressure valve release? Something to consider?


Ok, I accept that this could be. Winking
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.


Like I said, Sag was repeatedly told that I had concerns and didn't think it was there for me...no cocktease. And I certainly never said I consider this to be a quality of mine! But I do accept myself as I am and am not overly tied to my mind. I try to allow my outer self to conduct itself, while my true self observes. This whole "reality" of ours is a school and we each play our part in other's lessons as well.
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Bullshit. You're clearly advertising what a selfish cunt you are. Your actions do not follow words. You tell the guys one thing- to give you leeway to be a stupid bitch, but continue to lead him on by entertaining his interest for your own selfish needs.
Guys do this to girls too and it's viewed just as badly.
You can twist it around and justify it all you want, but like I said, karma's gonna get you.
Oh and please, don't admit to being an Aries. You're an embarrassment.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Being a cocktease and leading others on is a bullshit personality "quality." You'd better work on that because karma is gonna bite you bad.


yeah, I was kinda thinking this too. Shame since OP was really torn up just a few days ago when the Leo distanced himself. I have a feeling the Leo will again be the puppet of the hands of karma and heartache will come her way.
Mind your ways, aires...what goes around, comes around. And tends to kick you in the ass with steel toed boots.
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Maybe his bullshit detector is kicking in. Wouldn't be surprised if the tables turned and he ditches her. I don't think the Leo ego will put up with such asshat behavior.
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Holy judgement!! And coming from someone who throws out the C word! How is that any better?
I certainly never call these guys any rude names. Your hostility/anger reflect the things you hate within yourself.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, the C-bomb is sometimes used in a polite or more throw away sense, in some cultures anyways lol.


Nigga pleeeze...lol
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I read cold ass turkey.
OP,
Maybe you should take a closer look at your situation. I don't know what is going on with Leo but there is something you are projecting and I can't seem to place finger on it, what exactly are you expecting?
Attention feels good from others, good for short minutes but doesn't last long if it's not the person you expect.
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Cruel peeps are evil.. nothing can change them.. except their own willpower.. but, I don't feel the OP thinks they are wrong in any way.
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Your hostility/anger reflect the things you hate within yourself.


Nice try, honey. Trying to deflect the attention now that it's negative and you aren't getting the response you thought you were going to get? What did you think would happen after displaying such disgusting behavior toward others?
Posted by spica
I don't feel the OP thinks they are wrong in any way.
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That's the pathetically sad part of it. If this is the type of Aries you've come across, I don't blame you for hating them. This is a pretty disgusting quality to have.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?


No, no, no. They don't want to love me...ok, maybe Sag did..but Virgo has wanted a casual sex thing with me for a while and I'm not into it, but I will let him take me out. Sag guy I really do like, as a friend! And I was STRAIGHT UP from the beginning...he just wanted to keep trying to win me over..and I let him try.
Is that really so bad?
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The answer is no.
Ignore the rest, mostly likely they r lonely and has menopause - simply expired gadgets.
U must aim to get the very best and ur techniques r good.
Just be cautious.
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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?


No, no, no. They don't want to love me...ok, maybe Sag did..but Virgo has wanted a casual sex thing with me for a while and I'm not into it, but I will let him take me out. Sag guy I really do like, as a friend! And I was STRAIGHT UP from the beginning...he just wanted to keep trying to win me over..and I let him try.
Is that really so bad?


The answer is no.
Ignore the rest, mostly likely they r lonely and has menopause - simply expired gadgets.
U must aim to get the very best and ur techniques r good.
Just be cautious.
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Trolling troll is trolling.
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Posted by spica
Cruel peeps are evil.. nothing can change them.. except their own willpower.. but, I don't feel the OP thinks they are wrong in any way.


Cleanse them with fiyah?
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in heil?
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Posted by Spectre
Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?


No, no, no. They don't want to love me...ok, maybe Sag did..but Virgo has wanted a casual sex thing with me for a while and I'm not into it, but I will let him take me out. Sag guy I really do like, as a friend! And I was STRAIGHT UP from the beginning...he just wanted to keep trying to win me over..and I let him try.
Is that really so bad?


The answer is no.
Ignore the rest, mostly likely they r lonely and has menopause - simply expired gadgets.
U must aim to get the very best and ur techniques r good.
Just be cautious.


Trolling troll is trolling.
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I think some peeps here are cirrus.. not trollin' lol!
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"That's the pathetically sad part of it. If this is the type of Aries you've come across, I don't blame you for hating them. This is a pretty disgusting quality to have."
I have met worse than this. But they taught me more about life, god and the deevil than anyone else can Winking. I consider it a blessing.
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Trolling troll is trolling..?
2 all my underlings...Wimps, Cowards, Oxidized Fugly Jealous Women, lonely insecure women, u know who u r, etc etc.
U hv my permission 2 call me a Troll
I am after all a Magnanimous Spectre !
Muahahahahaha.....
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Back 2 the topic at hand.
U all pass Judgement on AriesinLuuuv.
But u r not worthy 2 pass any judgement.
Each and everyone of u hv failed lives, failed marriages, failed relationships or is currently in a sorry state of affairs.
All of u here come to this boards to fill in a gap in ur otherwise boring lives.
Some of u proudly declare how long u hv been in these boards. 2 help people? Or 2 actually feel good about urselfs in the delusion that u r helping people?
Do not lie.
Lame.
Many here will not say it but those smart enough will see through ur deceits from ur attempts to discredit her and projecting that u urself r indeed innocent.
2 be a women worthy of a great man, she must 1st go through a series of failures to be better.
AriesinLuuuv is simply experimenting in the art of being a great women.
In her experiments, she will err. In the end it is she who will profit, if she pass.
If she does not.
She will end up like the rest of u.
Bitter.


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Thank you, Spectre. We understand one another I believe. The judgement passed by these people says much.
What is fascinating to me is the continued failure to READ that, although I chose the word "cruel" (my mistake), I in no way led anyone on...my point was that in my honesty and forthrightness, I'm not always capable of putting things in terms which are gentle enough for other signs (a completely Aries trait. I lack tact.). And I in no way feel guilty about entertaining myself by conversing with these men when I'm bored...afterall its not like they don't get something out of it as well! Entertainment by MOI!
Arrogant perhaps, but how could it be otherwise for a sexy ass Aries woman?
The Leo is mine and although I get my occasional doubts and insecurities (normal Aries), I reach back to the fact that I've always gotten the man of my chosing. Why would this be any different?
Appears high confidence is extremely threatening! Ja voll!

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Ariesinluuv, Spectre, I ain't mad at y'all and I hope you see that I do not pass judgement. (Nor, do I have a failed marriage, life or state of affairs. I am not menopausal, pre or post for that matter...hahaha).
I agreed with your statements Spectre because it is biological. There's alot of history, science, psychology, and sociology involved in what you said. I don't want to bore everyone with all the information out there or that I have read so, here's just one example:
Maggie Gyllenhaal Talks Female Sexuality on Discovery??s ???Curiosity??
Read more at #6P7zIPyMfjzqOXLY.99" data-url="http://www.inquisitr.com/135883/maggie-gyllenhaal-discovery-curiosity-hysteria-trailer/#6P7zIPyMfjzqOXLY.99" target="_blank">http://www.inquisitr.com/135883/maggie-gyllenhaal-discovery-curiosity-hysteria-trailer/#6P7zIPyMfjzqOXLY.99
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Posted by Spectre
Every women needs to keep losers around them, plenty of them, those love sick puppies.
It is essential that u do so.
That determines ur value.



That is EXACTLY what it does.
It determines her true value.

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Posted by AriesinLuuuv
Sometimes I find I get myself into situations where I'm actually being too nice and not making it clear to someone that I'm not really that into them...This is usually due to my desire to keep them around for the entertainment value and to gather compliments for my ever-needy ego. It pretty awful and I'm not proud of it. What usually happens next is, due to boredom I agree to go do something with this person and start regretting it pretty quickly, which is when the cruelty can come out. Not in control of my mouth and although I feel like I'm saying things in a diplomatic manner, upon reflection later I recognize that I actually deal some crushing, albeit craftily worded, blows.
Its especially bad if I feel that you're adoring me like a love-sick puppy. Funny how I want a guy to txt a lot, come up with stuff to do, gush, etc, but when they're actually like that, I'm like Ack! What a fuckin' puss! The only way I find I can look past this if you've got large apparatus, if not, it will be difficult for me to hold back from pointing out that you don't have what it takes and from there it just gets awkward....LOL, but at least I'm pretty sure I won't have to deal with you anymore.


I wouldn't say you are cruel as much as forthcoming. If you know it is just for cruelty sake and you want it to change, you are in the power of changing anything in your life.
We act and speak without a second thought, right wrong or indifferent. It just makes you honest with yourself. You sound like you are reflecting on it is all smile
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Posted by feb16aqua
We can only state our opinions but no judging unless we're ready to open up our own closets. Mine's staying SHUT lol oh shit


Well.... guess what, I am passng judgements. Big time.
As far as treating people like shit goes, using them for my amusement and ego-trips, then calling them losers and love sick puppies, I can tell you my closet is wide open.
Unlike the OP, I possess something called empathy, which I think entitles me to pass judgements on her simply because I'm a better human being than she is. There you have it, plain and simple in black 'n white. smile
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@feb16aqua: So out of all the things I've said about her, you picked the most innocent one - the ego - to turn it against me. Wow, I must be a terrible, terrible human being compared to the OP....
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Posted by feb16aqua
If you think about it, does anyone really consider themselves a bad person?


Interesting, and if they do people usually are trying to find a way to tell them otherwise
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@feb16aqua: So out of all the things I've said about her, you picked the most innocent one - the ego - to turn it against me. Wow, I must be a terrible, terrible human being compared to the OP....



The reason for this seems simple - Leo and Aquarius are opposition, and here's why. Leo is the Sun (Ego) at home and Aquarius is the Sun (Ego) in detriment. So, you and febaqua most likely part ways when "ego" is mentioned. And this is perhaps why she may have "picked" ego out of all the things you said. Aqua is sextile to Aries so, febaqua can "get down" with the Aries perspective but, not so much Leo.

(Although generally appreciated, this is why I am most suspicous of Libra comments/interest in the Aries forum.)
Likewise, someone here said "men do it too" in description of what the OP expresses as "cruel." The OP is a masculine Sun, Moon, and Mars so far as she has revealed. Fire and Air are masculine. She may have a very masculine chart and therefore excude traits most closely associated with the "masculine;" and unfortunately, more socially acceptable for men.
However biologically, here "selection process" can also be linked to biologly of reproduction. This is why Spectre mentioned menopause as a reason for the objections.

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Posted by feb16aqua
We can only state our opinions but no judging unless we're ready to open up our own closets. Mine's staying SHUT lol oh shit


Well.... guess what, I am passng judgements. Big time.
As far as treating people like shit goes, using them for my amusement and ego-trips, then calling them losers and love sick puppies, I can tell you my closet is wide open.
Unlike the OP, I possess something called empathy, which I think entitles me to pass judgements on her simply because I'm a better human being than she is. There you have it, plain and simple in black 'n white. smile

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U hv empathy ?
Domain of the feline cat.
The female.
King Kong has no empathy.
King Kong has compassion.
Before he learns compassion.
He must 1st learn ruthlessness, aggression, dominance etc.
He needs it to protect his younglings, his women, to be a provider against all odds, for he knows failure to do so would affect those under his protection.
King Kong needs to reach the depth of emotionless ness to learn compassion.
He learns it from his women.
Her emphatic ways teaches him compassion.
King Kong goes to his women to find the softness, yearns for it simply because he cannot and must not be that.
Her softness puts at bay his madness, his predatory nature.
The balance.
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Awwwwww Spectre, that was fucking beautiful. It read like a poem.
What is your Sun sign?
Sidenote: King Kong was one of my favorite movies. I damn near cried at the end. I can't remember but, I might have actually cried.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, I did misunderstand.
Pusposefully cruel with those who want to love you?


No, no, no. They don't want to love me...ok, maybe Sag did..but Virgo has wanted a casual sex thing with me for a while and I'm not into it, but I will let him take me out. Sag guy I really do like, as a friend! And I was STRAIGHT UP from the beginning...he just wanted to keep trying to win me over..and I let him try.
Is that really so bad?


The answer is no.
Ignore the rest, mostly likely they r lonely and has menopause - simply expired gadgets.
U must aim to get the very best and ur techniques r good.
Just be cautious.


Trolling troll is trolling.

I think some peeps here are cirrus.. not trollin' lol!
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And that's sad...
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Well.... guess what, I am passng judgements. Big time.
As far as treating people like shit goes, using them for my amusement and ego-trips, then calling them losers and love sick puppies, I can tell you my closet is wide open.
Unlike the OP, I possess something called empathy, which I think entitles me to pass judgements on her simply because I'm a better human being than she is. There you have it, plain and simple in black 'n white. smile



This. Totally agree with your first line especially.
Btw, this isn't judgement, it's calling the OP out on her bullshit. Hope she wakes up
Women see this with guys all the time.
Him- Oh hay, I'm not into you but I'm cool as friends. *proceeds to keep her around, sends off mixed signals and/or gets chica into the sack.
Her- confused and/or assumes he's changed his mind/whatever conclusion she can come to with all this mixed signal bs that many women fall prey to.
Him- lol jk, I told you that I wasn't into you!
This outlook, by the OP or guys is just a free ticket for them to do as they please so it clears their conscious of any responsibility for their selfish, pathetic actions. We've all seen this scenario happen to women here on several occasions. Male or female, it's not cool.
AND she turns around and tries to say that the people here who are "judging" her are projecting, but clearly she's the one with some serious issues.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
@feb16aqua: So out of all the things I've said about her, you picked the most innocent one - the ego - to turn it against me. Wow, I must be a terrible, terrible human being compared to the OP....


Don't forget, you're talking to people raised in a society who no longer promotes responsibility for one's actions nor feel any remorse for their actions.
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rockyroadicecream, I look at things from the perspective of the "two consenting adults." I also believe that "all is fair in love and war." That may seem harsh to many. I understand. I am not too hardcore about it 'though. I'm more concerned about why people do what they do instead of focusing on what they did. That's just me (and I know that). I find the exploration of "why" more productive in many instances. Plus, I'm just a curious person.
You come at the topic from another persepective and perhaps even a different temperament - that's cool too - I understand where you are coming from. It's a provocative title and topic no less.
I did ask the OP to consider the source of her actions and she actually considered it - I saw it as done. I felt that my perspective seemed to have been genuinely helpful at that point because she gave me the winky face (even though the OP didn't seem to be necessarily asking for help).
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Posted by enfant_terrible
@feb16aqua: So out of all the things I've said about her, you picked the most innocent one - the ego - to turn it against me. Wow, I must be a terrible, terrible human being compared to the OP....


Don't forget, you're talking to people raised in a society who no longer promotes responsibility for one's actions nor feel any remorse for their actions.
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It has been happening since time immemorial. It was worse in the past I think. I think this mimics the battle of god and the devil
By the way I find it strange someone with a ghost/ grim reaper as their avatar don't believe in spirits
And they're afraid of judgment. Judgment is harmless; if they didnt do anything that fails judgment, they wouldn't be terrified of it. Judgment, it is nothing.
Some get their delusions of power from an untoward source, not realizing they're the ultimate pawns.
This Aries I knew was terrified of judgment and kept bothering me with questions like " why do people judge?" Like it was the greatest sin in the world. Little did I realize she did things so unbecoming such that judgement is pretty much the only thing she's afraid of.
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@feb16aqua: So out of all the things I've said about her, you picked the most innocent one - the ego - to turn it against me. Wow, I must be a terrible, terrible human being compared to the OP....


Don't forget, you're talking to people raised in a society who no longer promotes responsibility for one's actions nor feel any remorse for their actions.


It has been happening since time immemorial. It was worse in the past I think. I think this mimics the battle of god and the devil
By the way I find it strange someone with a ghost/ grim reaper as their avatar don't believe in spirits
And they're afraid of judgment. Judgment is harmless; if they didnt do anything that fails judgment, they wouldn't be terrified of it. Judgment, it is nothing.
Some get their delusions of power from an untoward source, not realizing they're the ultimate pawns.
This Aries I knew was terrified of judgment and kept bothering me with questions like " why do people judge?" Like it was the greatest sin in the world. Little did I realize she did things so unbecoming such that judgement is pretty much the only thing she's afraid of.
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Yes, but it's getting worse. Blame the entitlement era.
If someone is that put off by the idea of judgement or fears it, chances are they're doing something that warrants being judged.
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U must be really old pinky pig...
2 remember the entitlement era...
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