I can't seem to shake this Aries man?!
This topic was created in the Aries Men forum by Moonbutter on Saturday, July 2, 2016 and has 37 replies.
Somehow an Aries guy has fallen for me, even calling me his gf and acting like we are together but I never let on we were really dating, and no we never had sex. I went on a couple dates but he's my sisters really good friend so we always hang out in groups. Now I've decided he's just doing it for me as I do not feel mentally intrigued or connection with him, or emotional or sexual. I don't want to ruin the social dynamic by rejecting him but would do I do? How can I get him to fade away/ lose interest?
Posted by SensitiveBluesDang it, normally I would be no problem but my sis always hangs out with him and since I moved far from my friends they are my social circle now too
Reject him by being honest
Aries men are so gross
I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them
Posted by rabidtalker20 degrees
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them
Posted by Moonbutter
I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?
Just tell him you're not over your ex.
How he still lingers in your mind...the what ifs about the family you all could have started.
How you're single but he thrives constantly in your mind.
If you say these exact words to him. I don't think him or your sister will feel like you're a stick in the mud.
You're just dealing with a recent break up.
Posted by PlutoMars44Oh man... I mean I have been rather detached and not touchy feely what is it with this guy? The universe is a real asshole sometimes. Why is it the ones I don't want want me more? Lol arrrghhh
Give him the cold hard truth even if it hurts his feelings. You being comfortable is more important than his pride.
Posted by MoonbutterYep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.Posted by rabidtalker20 degrees
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring themclick to expand
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant
Posted by happyface1Thank you, good advice! Only it's been a year and half since my break up :/ but I really did see a future, visioned his tux and how cute our kids would be with his big blue eyes hahaPosted by Moonbutter
I've also come to the conclusion I'm stil hung up on my ex as his recent bday really effected me for weeks. I decided to not date anyone for awhile as I'm not even interested. I really just am over it right now... MAjor planetary forces going on?
Just tell him you're not over your ex.
How he still lingers in your mind...the what ifs about the family you all could have started.
How you're single but he thrives constantly in your mind.
If you say these exact words to him. I don't think him or your sister will feel like you're a stick in the mud.
You're just dealing with a recent break up.click to expand
ha you tell him you're not over your ex is giving him a clear sign to keep trying.... tell him you're not interested is the best ploy
Posted by rabidtalkerInteresting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?Posted by MoonbutterYep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.Posted by rabidtalker20 degrees
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendantclick to expand
Posted by rabidtalkerHaha yeah Them Aries men do like a challenge
ha you tell him you're not over your ex is giving him a clear sign to keep trying.... tell him you're not interested is the best ploy
You already know where I stand.
If he kissed you and you accepted the kiss, and it didn't result in just casual sex, then by default, you are in a relationship.
If he kissed you and you accepted the kiss, and it didn't result in just casual sex, then by default, you are in a relationship.
Simple.
Posted by themagnetorebornOh right, lol
You already know where I stand.
If he kissed you and you accepted the kiss, and it didn't result in just casual sex, then by default, you are in a relationship.
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by rabidtalkerInteresting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendantclick to expand
I told you what to google for! Posted by rabidtalkerPosted by MoonbutterPosted by rabidtalkerInteresting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendantclick to expand
I did, but my Pluto is Libra . Ugh I'm just not good at the transit stuff
From what I read on Aries the more you act interested the less interested he'll be. If he can't take no for an answer maybe he'll take "Oh, please marry me" lol.
Posted by UTFanatic15Haha I know! I think I'm driving him mad in a flirty way without meaning to.
From what I read on Aries the more you act interested the less interested he'll be. If he can't take no for an answer maybe he'll take "Oh, please marry me" lol.
Posted by MoonbutterYou have uranus that just passed over your ascendant, but because pluto is currently in capricorn, it is also squaring your asendant (or soon will). You may have pluto square natal pluto depending on your age but that is more generational you can look that one up to if you want.Posted by rabidtalkerPosted by MoonbutterPosted by rabidtalkerInteresting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendant
I did, but my Pluto is Libra . Ugh I'm just not good at the transit stuffclick to expand
google:
1. transit uranus conjunct ascendant
1a. transit uranus in first house
2. transit pluto square ascendant
3. pluto square pluto
I also added a couple more to google.
Posted by starloverNah...I know him from hanging out with my sister and her friends. He flirted, teased, we would all drink and then i became flirtier because I was staring to like him. I don't play him, I genuinely gave it a shot we really went on one date and it was a mini road trip. I've been distancing myself when I realized my feelings were up in the air. My ex bday was recent and that's when I realized I'm not ready to date anyone yet.Posted by ImTheRam
I guess this is man you were flirting right?
The same guy you went on dates?
The same guy you were throwing some sexy talks here and there to keep him interested because you know what to do?
The same guy why you asked me what i "thought" about the future with a woman because i am also an Aries?
The same Aries that is now Gross right?
The same Aries that you don't want now (after playing a bit) because you want your ex back?
And you also throw the card...."i don't want him and he is chassing me"..."how do i get rid of him.." (pitty pitty)
Long long ago when i was still a teen...i understood right away how to *use* (or don't) my feelings with women.
And i never ever changed it since....and i never will....i will only be with Strong, Mature, Independent and Inteligent women on my life.
Good Luck in your journey, i hope you learn something from this...because Karma...
Well said, Ramclick to expand
Normally I would just tell the guy, but I wanted to see if my feelings would change so I waited a bit longer. He's a good friend of my sis and her friends so I see him a lot when I hang out with them.
I know about Karma, but I also know about grace so thank you but you can reserve your karma lessons for someone who may actually need it. I had no ill intention here, I thought maybe but it just didn't work out.
Posted by ImTheRam
I guess this is man you were flirting right?
The same guy you went on dates?
The same guy you were throwing some sexy talks here and there to keep him interested because you know what to do?
The same guy why you asked me what i "thought" about the future with a woman because i am also an Aries?
The same Aries that is now Gross right?
The same Aries that you don't want now (after playing a bit) because you want your ex back?
And you also throw the card...."i don't want him and he is chassing me"..."how do i get rid of him.." (pitty pitty)
Long long ago when i was still a teen...i understood right away how to *use* (or don't) my feelings with women.
And i never ever changed it since....and i never will....i will only be with Strong, Mature, Independent and Inteligent women on my life.
Good Luck in your journey, i hope you learn something from this...because Karma...
Go ram, go ram
I understand you are trying to help... He's the one who started the flirting and yes he does like me obviously which is why I'm on here. Sheesh I don't need potty this was all in fun it's not that serious... Calm down
Posted by Moonbutter*pitty lol
I understand you are trying to help... He's the one who started the flirting and yes he does like me obviously which is why I'm on here. Sheesh I don't need potty this was all in fun it's not that serious... Calm down
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYou must be new here
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?
Posted by champrangerQuite true!Posted by Moonbutter
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Nah...I know him from hanging out with my sister and her friends. He flirted, teased, we would all drink and then i became flirtier because I was staring to like him. I don't play him, I genuinely gave it a shot we really went on one date and it was a mini road trip. I've been distancing myself when I realized my feelings were up in the air. My ex bday was recent and that's when I realized I'm not ready to date anyone yet.
Normally I would just tell the guy, but I wanted to see if my feelings would change so I waited a bit longer. He's a good friend of my sis and her friends so I see him a lot when I hang out with them.
I know about Karma, but I also know about grace so thank you but you can reserve your karma lessons for someone who may actually need it. I had no ill intention here, I thought maybe but it just didn't work out.
If you had determined that you still have feelings for your ex, tell that to the Aries. If you started off being flirty and then you become distant, the Aries won't necessarily know that. Rather I think he would probably make more efforts in chasing you.
I understand silence is a form of communication. At the same time though, silence leaves room for misunderstandings where words might otherwise prevent.
IMOclick to expand
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameShe wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?
Posted by bkbella86It was kinda part in fun and part taking advice from others. In the end I will go with my gutPosted by HarleyTwinFlameShe wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterKPosted by bkbella86It was kinda part in fun and part taking advice from others. In the end I will go with my gutPosted by HarleyTwinFlameShe wanted to appear more desirable by coming here claiming the Aries is chasing her to the point of making a thread.
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterTransits mean change, something's gonna happen, good or bad, with Uranus, it's more of a sudden change, and/or you'll have a need for more freedom, Pluto is a destruction, or an in-depth incursion into an area of your life. Check your transits every now and then, and just go ok, l'll have to be careful at that point in time etc...Posted by rabidtalkerInteresting... April was when we decided there may be something between us... But please what do all those transits mean?Posted by MoonbutterYep, uranus crossed over it in April, currently at 24deg aries, Pluto will come close but wont hit that point until feb 2018.Posted by rabidtalker20 degrees
What degree is your aries rising. LIbras and Aries in general are having a tough time with the uranus transit and with pluto squaring them
google for transit uranus conjunct ascendant and transit pluto square ascendantclick to expand
Oh, and check the 4 big ones, Saturn Uranus Neptune Pluto
Posted by MoonbutterNo I've been here for a while, just surprised you're doing itPosted by HarleyTwinFlameYou must be new here
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?click to expand
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameDoing what? Posting on here?Posted by MoonbutterNo I've been here for a while, just surprised you're doing itPosted by HarleyTwinFlameYou must be new here
Isnt it serious if you made a thread about it. Did you come for advice or just wanted to share a story?click to expand
Posted by LeDominoesWhy do you think this is hard?Posted by SensitiveBluesI don't understand how this is so hard!
Reject him by being honest
Aries men are so grossclick to expand
Posted by LeDominoesNah I'm not really into Social Media. Only problem is I don't want things to be akward since he's like a best friend to my sis and I only have them to hang out with. I moved far from all my friends and been working my ass off so they are all I have herePosted by MoonbutterIt is meant as the solution is easy, you tell him. You tell him, firmly and direct, that there is nothing between you. And if you hear of anything, you will publicly display how ridiculous he is being. (I. E. Shove it all over social media).Posted by LeDominoesWhy do you think this is hard?Posted by SensitiveBluesI don't understand how this is so hard!
Reject him by being honest
Aries men are so gross
Does this guy have down syndrome? I can't understand.click to expand
Posted by LeDominoesNo, but I think she knows it's more one-sided. I mean he was like " so are we officially bf and gf now?" And before I could answer he goes, " well I consider you my gf" I was kinda shocked and then our friends came back in from outside so I didn't object. But I feel a lil backed in to it, like I had no say and it's going faster then I wanted. Anyway, he's been telling everyone I'm his GF and it's embarrassing and now I'm stuck.Posted by MoonbutterHave you addressed this to her?Posted by LeDominoesNah I'm not really into Social Media. Only problem is I don't want things to be akward since he's like a best friend to my sis and I only have them to hang out with. I moved far from all my friends and been working my ass off so they are all I have herePosted by MoonbutterIt is meant as the solution is easy, you tell him. You tell him, firmly and direct, that there is nothing between you. And if you hear of anything, you will publicly display how ridiculous he is being. (I. E. Shove it all over social media).Posted by LeDominoesWhy do you think this is hard?Posted by SensitiveBluesI don't understand how this is so hard!
Reject him by being honest
Aries men are so gross
Does this guy have down syndrome? I can't understand.click to expand
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