I love you guys but....

You guys are horrible at nurturing!!!

I'm sick. Like sick sick and when I'm sick it's the only time I want someone to nuture me. I let go of my independant nature and want someone to take care of me for once.

Aries is not the sign to do this.

I love him to death but that man has NO sympathy for me at all. Zilch, nada, none. And I want sympathy damn it! lol

I had to go out after my own medicine because he was in the middle of a show on tv. So I dragged my ass out of bed sweating, coughing and weezing to drive across town. I got home took my medicine and I just wanted to cuddle up to him which I rarely ever do and he complains that I'm not cuddley enough. But NO I'm sick and he didn't want me giving him what I had.

If it were him that was sick I wouldn't even let him out of bed and I'd do whatever it took to make him comfortable. Grrrr.......

I still love him though 🙂 Just ranting. 😛

LOL Yeah yeah yeah.

I'm not really that mad because I realize I'm just pissed he isn't spoiling me right now 😛

I guess he caught on to the fact that I'm looking for sympathy and he isn't going to let the Scorpio take advantage of the situation. He's learning 😉

See now I'm not too bad at the nurturing thing. I admit, I'm no Mother Teresa, but I take care of my man when he's sick for sure. Thank fully he's a strong Taurus and not a baby (not that you are Ginger!) so that can help. When I'm sick, I'm such a baby. 😢

Not so sure it's an Aries thing as it is more a general man thing. Men in general just aren't nurturers - they have to be taught most times. Of course, get you a Cancer man with more water in his chart and you might be surprised.

it's just so hard to sympathize with sick people when you're feeling so healthy 😄 😄 😄

feel better ginger! i like to take nyquil for any ailment 🙂

Hey that's not me! I'm good at playing the whole doctor thing 😉.

oh look! shaks is back from making slow, methodical love to his cappy GF 😉





it's you're birthday soon too and that means you get presents!! yay!

hope you feel better soon ginger

Thanks for the well wishes guys. Now I feel bad about harping on you 😢

I tend to be a little bit of a baby when I'm sick. I feel so sorry for myself and I expect everyone else to feel sorry for me too. LOL That's the problem with Scorps and Aries ... EGOS and selfishness. Good thing we are both independant people (most of the time).
I think it just suprised him that I was being a little mushy and wishy washy with him. I never do that. He probably didn't know what to do. He also probably thinks he's doing me a favor by making me "stay tough".

Funny when a guy is sick he is dying but the ladies have to toughen up!

It certainly is a guy thing I remember having food poisoning and at 3 in the morning being violently ill not knowing which end should go on the toilet....I'd never suffered anything like that ever and my stomach was spasming and I had to stay right on that toilet...The MAN said can you close the door properly cos the light is in my eyes and keeping me awake!!!! Wtf??

After that I never paid much attention when he was sick again!

Lol silly virgos no wonder they're the doormats of the zodiac... Virgos they love to help others, yet there is a fine line. I rather be selfish and lavished with love than be a guilible doormat with no self respect shaks 😉.

And if I were not on my iPhone this is were I would have a big picture of a doormat with Virgos written across and in little font @ the bottom "aka Shaks."

lol I still love you shaks even if you are a doormat... Ooo let me wipe my feet 😉.

Posted by sweethearts
Funny when a guy is sick he is dying but the ladies have to toughen up!

It certainly is a guy thing I remember having food poisoning and at 3 in the morning being violently ill not knowing which end should go on the toilet....I'd never suffered anything like that ever and my stomach was spasming and I had to stay right on that toilet...The MAN said can you close the door properly cos the light is in my eyes and keeping me awake!!!! Wtf??

After that I never paid much attention when he was sick again!

that is so true...my gem turns into a big baby when hes sick....

Now that I'm not sick (much) I'm ok with him not helping out.

If he ever has to leave again for long periods of time at least I haven't gotten too spoiled to the point of not taking care of myself even when the situation is shitty.

But like Ms.P said......... when it's HIS turn......... nah. I can't do that 😛 I wish I could but I'm a nuturer.

scorps are one of the most nurturing signs i've ever met. i think every scorp i've ever met had this characteristic.


me on the other hand, i'm a giant baby. paper cuts are a life threatening condition for me 😛

ooo, xtina! starting to sound like me when it comes to good ol' shaks. i love him too but he sure knows how to make us feisty, eh?

anyway, it's definitely a guy thing. fortunately for me i always have men in my life that would nurture me from all signs of the zodiac. i have heard other women complain of this same thing time and time again. i remember my ex libra was a huge baby when he was sick! he was this gigantic 6'5", 215 lb. baby. he was very demanding too. wanted to be coddled and i remember having to run to the store endless times for things like orange sherbet, juice, and medicine. those were the top 3 things. what sucked is i rarely ever get sick and he got sick a few times a year.

Bwahahahahaha my dude is sick now.
Well, it's a cold anyway. He started whining today.

Payback is a bitch Rammies!! 😈
At least he has medicine left over from me.
I had to go to the store today to get him soup. Grrrrrr..... yeah I'm a real hardass 😛