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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
Well you are playing a game and youre right about that, Aries men have no depth.
Just let him know how you feel. If he doesnf change, you got your answer.
NEVER ignore an Aries!!!!
This will drive us insane. Sometimes it will make us act crazy too ?
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Jun 04, 2016Comments: 26 · Posts: 451 · Topics: 37
in this case, yes. also be vocal about why you're choosing to ignore him.
be blunt, say you are being ignored because you treat me badly. If he can't admit to that then you're probably better off moving on, because it's not a healthy situation for either of you. Ignoring an Aries is bad, but sounds like this one deserves it.
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Oct 14, 2015Comments: 826 · Posts: 2348 · Topics: 15
OP, it really depends on his Moon/Venus/Mars (and if you are a younger generation, ascendent as well)
can you post his other planets? I agree, Aries are not really deep, but fair
but! depends a lot on his other placements, when it comes to love and romance
what are your other planets? and his?
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May 14, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 798 · Topics: 55
Aries don't ignore people intentionally, most of the time they just forget to message back. It's a tedious task, let’s be honest. Also why don’t you post your sign, more help that way? Of course you can make an Aries crazy (if you trigger some sort of obsession), but I’d say there’s a 1% chance of this, because Aries forget they don’t message back, they Aries people posting here aren’t remembering the ones that didn’t make them crazy, plus eventually I think Aries say “f**k it” and move on, so it doesn’t end well even if you did it.
Ultimately it's coming down to a change in pace, you want to go quicker than he does, but don’t rush moments. Aries men want to give themselves to love, but they are also commitment-phobes and they always want the next challenge, they rush in to a relationship quick, shoot first and ask questions later. Then maybe when the dust settles, they start to ask questions like “is this what I really want”. If you really like someone, then you let them set the pace and go along with that pace.
I think you just need to keep the communication going, no games, Aries and open and honest, they like to talk about anything, the messages must be like a back and forth conversation, you don’t get this by ignoring him. This should be your goal. Occasionally you want to show that you have a busy life style and your time is high value, so occasionally you message back late and say why you messaged back late, like you were having a great time with friends or at the gym, being genuine is good but make it up if you have to.
Showing emotion is fine with an Aries, after all they want to be the protector, but you cannot show too much emotional investment without an equal amount shown from him in return, show more than him if you want to but do not get confused, wait till you are thinking logically and assess the situation, if the levels of investment become too separated (ie your level much higher than his), the relationship is over.
Do not show whiney complicated clingy emotional behaviour about why the relationship isn’t happening.
Do not enter conversation with him about this whole “ignoring you” thing, change your mindset and hope he forgets (you do not want to risk coming across as emotionally unstable, a control freak etc)
Remember your happiness is not dependant on whether he messages you back or not, stay busy, do your thing.