is it me or are male aries men full of themselves?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by walkingonair on Monday, August 4, 2014 and has 21 replies.
Im dating an aries with venus in aries,moon in cap,mars in taurus.I realized he talks alot about himself and doesnt really ask about me.For example he suddenly texts me after our date and says i just got home ,thabk god i didnt miss the bus.....but he doesnt ask if i got home,what im up to .Everything is seriously about him.He might ask about me and then in a minute the convo turns back to being about him:/Are aries men self centered and selfish?
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Treat someone the way they treat you. If they are brash, then treat him with the same hand. Don't be afraid to say something and maybe to soften the blow, turn it into a joke- " damn you talk so much about yourself... Hahaha. Just teasing."?if he's smart, he'll catch on, and if he doesn't, then don't waste your time. (:
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Thanks so much for the feedback guys!!
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I guess im just not gonna talk about myself unless he asks
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It's you. Tongue
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Posted by starlover
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Good Luck!




Haha!Your ex sounds just like the guy I'm dating.Did he also talk to you on his time and didnt make you a priority?
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I admit it is an Aries trait, I do the same sometimes but usually when i care deeply about the person i will hold back and ask them how they are ect. But with casual friends and acquaintances i can go on and on about myself lmao. Aries are pretty selfish imo i would just talk to your Aries BF about it if hes understanding he will make it work and fix it. This is why i really hate telling my brother my problems because he turns the subject to him 24/7 and doesn't listen hes (Aries) but i listen to him all the time.... because i know. A lot of Aries i think don't even realize they have this issue you need to confront him about it. Hes cap moon aswell like your boyfriend lmao.
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Thanks for your advice curiousram!!!!!
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Good Luck!




Haha!Your ex sounds just like the guy I'm dating.Did he also talk to you on his time and didnt make you a priority?


He compartmentalised all things...wasn't able to deal with more than one thing at a time....so yes it was always on his terms and time structure...my Dad was the same, had to be when it suited him..he was an Aries sun too. I prefer to be with people that are more flexible and adept at being more aware of the other. It doesn't feel right to be put in someone's box and also becomes boring
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Thanks so much for your feedback!!!sounds like my guy SadSadHope you found someone better!
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It's just you. Stop being egocentric.
/sarcasm
I like that quality about Aries because we should be all be about ourselves first and foremost. It's the only genuine way to live life. Not to go full on narcissistic and selfish but yeah, YOU live your life for you first.
As a Virgo, used to live my life for others first..it helped a lot.
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The thing that is funny to me about Scorpio and Aries:
Scorpio..the more evolved sign on the karmic wheel cannot stop harping and bickering about Aries. While the rams have nothing against Scorpios 90% of the time.
It's up to the more evolved sign to look with compassion on the less evolved. And Scorpios usually see both the light and the dark but with Aries it's like the wires get crossed and they see mostly the dark.
Meanwhile the rams are prancing happily around them going "Cool story, bro" for whatever the Scorps are saying.
I still think Aries-Scorpio can work out..in the end Scorpios are co-ruled by Mars but they forget that Tongue
@starlover..if you get hitched with an Aries, I want a wedding invite, just so you know Big Grin
*not jinxing starlover*
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It's just you. Stop being egocentric.
/sarcasm
I like that quality about Aries because we should be all be about ourselves first and foremost. It's the only genuine way to live life. Not to go full on narcissistic and selfish but yeah, YOU live your life for you first.
As a Virgo, used to live my life for others first..it helped a lot.



Why can't virgo males be as awesome as you? My bestie is virgo come be my bestie aswell
YAY..you're adding hags to your harem, aren't you?
My best gay friend is an Aries, as is my best female friend and my best straight male friend. I need a gay Aries chick and I'm all set Big Grin
If it helps, I'm not fond of Virgo Men either. The nice ones I run into are awesome..but way too many who are all about sex. Virgo Men usually come with the following pick-up line for me "Yo, wanna fuck?"
...no class.
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YAY!
That's what I wanted to hear.
And yeah, he got -1000 points with not liking Harry Potter.
Had a friend who won a trip to Ireland..I love how green the grass look like there! I need to get to Ireland at some point..there was one picture he took...stone stairs descending exactly into the sea/ocean. I loved it.
Are most of you kissed by fair? Red haired?
And yeah, considering your Aries was also Irish..that's a huge overload there. From what I know of Irish peeps, you guys have some legendary temper tantrums Big Grin
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*kissed by fire
My mind is in the gutter today...
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Posted by walkingonair
Im dating an aries with venus in aries,moon in cap,mars in taurus.I realized he talks alot about himself and doesnt really ask about me.For example he suddenly texts me after our date and says i just got home ,thabk god i didnt miss the bus.....but he doesnt ask if i got home,what im up to .Everything is seriously about him.He might ask about me and then in a minute the convo turns back to being about him:/Are aries men self centered and selfish?


It's probably the Aries, I say that only because I do that a lot, and I'm a Pisces, so that's weird. I mean, I always ask people about themselves too, but I never forget to talk about me...see look I'm doing it now. I feel bad when I do it too. Its probably my Aries merc tho. See again! God damn it! Anyways, I wouldn't make a mountain out of it, it's just how he is. He probably means no harm, just start doing the same thing!
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yes they are.
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Poor Rams. :/
Self-Centered, yes.
Selfish? It depends on how much they give, how much you need and deficit in between. At least you can be direct with Aries and not worry about grudges (unless they have grudge holding signs in their chart. *cough* SCORPIO *cough*) or them being DEEPLY offended.
Aries friend I have has been wonderful to me for years and we can spend months without contact and still pick right back up. He's younger than me too.
Just gotta let each other be yourselves.
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Yes they are full of themselves. It's all about them. The world has to center around them. They have to be the only man in your life. What I don't get is that they can talk so much trash, but when you snap back they act like you hurt their feelings. They're just hard on the outside and soft on the inside. Oh, and don't forget that no one is smarter than they are...
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Posted by TachiMichi
it depends on the person.
my aries ex was selfish
and very full of himself.
he spoke like he was the greatest
in the entire world. was boring.
if you are not anything you've said
out of your mouth, please stop talking.
we only lasted a month. not enough room
for him, his ego, and me. i left him
after i told him the truth about himself.
that was the only time i heard silence.



Omg why do some of them always get silent when you tell them about themselves I always wait for the temper to emerge.
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Yes they are full of themselves. It's all about them. The world has to center around them. They have to be the only man in your life. What I don't get is that they can talk so much trash, but when you snap back they act like you hurt their feelings. They're just hard on the outside and soft on the inside. Oh, and don't forget that no one is smarter than they are...


LOL! Especially the men.
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Oh yes everyone else is always wrong. I hate that.
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Posted by Noreallynow
Posted by TachiMichi
it depends on the person.
my aries ex was selfish
and very full of himself.
he spoke like he was the greatest
in the entire world. was boring.
if you are not anything you've said
out of your mouth, please stop talking.
we only lasted a month. not enough room
for him, his ego, and me. i left him
after i told him the truth about himself.
that was the only time i heard silence.



Omg why do some of them always get silent when you tell them about themselves I always wait for the temper to emerge.
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It never last long, we have logs and kindle at ready, someone throws the match... POW FIRE EMERGES...lol
My Daughter is a Gem Magical cusp, she thinks its funny Big Grin I blow up and 5 mins later I'm over it. *shrugs* It's the child like thing we have, forever..
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