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Posted by LittleStarAnd how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.

Posted by LittleStarAnd how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.

Posted by Arielle83

What time did u text him?

Posted by DMV

Aries loves to fight.

Posted by FactCheck

Ur a hoe

Posted by Raakac

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As I’ve stated before we are both Aries, he’s older. I never told him about the Pisces male oral sex situation. What started it was that I texted him asking for help with a assignment for school, it was for a business class and he’s a business owner. I sent a text asking nicely if he could help if he had time and wasn’t busy. I went to sleep and woke up to a a condescending, belittling response. Saying that he actually has a job and needs to make sure he had money in his pocket, that I was bothering him. I hadn’t contacted him in almost 2 weeks so I was confused on what I did wrong. My assignment consisted of 2 questions. If he would’ve politely declined I wouldn’t have been mad at all. We FaceTimed each other and I snapped on him, everything just came out. I said some cuss words, mentioned how he didn’t need to belittle me I was politely asking for help. And how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.


He snapped back harshly mentioning how he doesn’t see how he’s been disrespectful. We hollered and cussed at each other for 20 minutes. It was horrible. It was very intense, harsh things were said, threats were made from both of us. I’m glad we weren’t able to be face to face cause that would’ve made it worse. And the crazy part is at the end of it. I calmly and politely said that it’s clear we need to not be involved with one another anymore, That we don’t like each other anymore, we need to just leave each other alone. That I was done. And that made him snap even worse, it was like I said something about his mother or something. He actually got mad that I said we need to be over. After all this fighting and drama he actually was offended and enraged that I want to end it, really? Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

You don't really deserve respect because you couldn't be honest with him about Pisces person even tho you told him you would tell him, you didn't want to feel like a slut so you were looking for support to confirm that you can get away with it without having to face any consequences or feeling like you're a slut, you wanted to do what's good for you, not what's right and what you promised, you are not only dishonest, but by not telling him the truth you just fall into a slut category.

That being said he didn't know these things and this topic is a different thing. He didn't know how you felt because you always held back, and you told us you always kept your cool and only now you voiced your option loud and clear, seems like you've been puting up with all that shit without bringing up the issue and been ok with it all this time, but now that you maybe feel guility about Pisces situation you use this as means to release anger etc. Anyways you both seem 2 be pretty damaged people who need to work with themselves before they can enter fwb or a relationship/friendship status. If you can find an excuse to lie about Pisces to a partner who you had an agreement with that you wouldn't. 100% sure you would do that to real relationship partner because agreement would be the same and you wouldn't want to face consequences so you would simply do what feels better to you, lie and pretend you're a honest person even tho you're dishonest liar.

This might sound judgemental, because it is, you're saying he's disrespectful, guess what, you're from the same cloth, dishonest and disrespectful . I'd say work on yourself and have your values straight, be more authentic because for now your words hold no value. You're making him the bad guy even tho you're not better than him, maybe even worse.

Have a beautiful day

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Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

As I’ve stated before we are both Aries, he’s older. I never told him about the Pisces male oral sex situation. What started it was that I texted him asking for help with a assignment for school, it was for a business class and he’s a business owner. I sent a text asking nicely if he could help if he had time and wasn’t busy. I went to sleep and woke up to a a condescending, belittling response. Saying that he actually has a job and needs to make sure he had money in his pocket, that I was bothering him. I hadn’t contacted him in almost 2 weeks so I was confused on what I did wrong. My assignment consisted of 2 questions. If he would’ve politely declined I wouldn’t have been mad at all. We FaceTimed each other and I snapped on him, everything just came out. I said some cuss words, mentioned how he didn’t need to belittle me I was politely asking for help. And how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.


He snapped back harshly mentioning how he doesn’t see how he’s been disrespectful. We hollered and cussed at each other for 20 minutes. It was horrible. It was very intense, harsh things were said, threats were made from both of us. I’m glad we weren’t able to be face to face cause that would’ve made it worse. And the crazy part is at the end of it. I calmly and politely said that it’s clear we need to not be involved with one another anymore, That we don’t like each other anymore, we need to just leave each other alone. That I was done. And that made him snap even worse, it was like I said something about his mother or something. He actually got mad that I said we need to be over. After all this fighting and drama he actually was offended and enraged that I want to end it, really? Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

You don't really deserve respect because you couldn't be honest with him about Pisces person even tho you told him you would tell him, you didn't want to feel like a slut so you were looking for support to confirm that you can get away with it without having to face any consequences or feeling like you're a slut, you wanted to do what's good for you, not what's right and what you promised, you are not only dishonest, but by not telling him the truth you just fall into a slut category.

That being said he didn't know these things and this topic is a different thing. He didn't know how you felt because you always held back, and you told us you always kept your cool and only now you voiced your option loud and clear, seems like you've been puting up with all that shit without bringing up the issue and been ok with it all this time, but now that you maybe feel guility about Pisces situation you use this as means to release anger etc. Anyways you both seem 2 be pretty damaged people who need to work with themselves before they can enter fwb or a relationship/friendship status. If you can find an excuse to lie about Pisces to a partner who you had an agreement with that you wouldn't. 100% sure you would do that to real relationship partner because agreement would be the same and you wouldn't want to face consequences so you would simply do what feels better to you, lie and pretend you're a honest person even tho you're dishonest liar.

This might sound judgemental, because it is, you're saying he's disrespectful, guess what, you're from the same cloth, dishonest and disrespectful . I'd say work on yourself and have your values straight, be more authentic because for now your words hold no value. You're making him the bad guy even tho you're not better than him, maybe even worse.

Have a beautiful day

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Posted by sweetpea2977

Congratulations! You've now been exposed to the REAL him; an unhelpful, entitled, disrespectful prick. Progress! Now, place his ass in the trash and never look back. This shit just went toxic 😑

Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by DMV

Aries loves to fight.

I can’t believe that he actually was shocked and offended that I wanted to end things after this big argument.

Because he thinks he’s King Ding a Ling

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Posted by LittleStarAnd how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.

And before it escalated into a argument I politely asked him to not talk to me like that and that I was only asking for his help and I understand if he was too busy to help. He said something else demeaning and that’s when I snapped.

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Posted by DMV

Aries loves to fight.

I can’t believe that he actually was shocked and offended that I wanted to end things after this big argument.

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Posted by Genznation

Posted by DMV

Aries loves to fight.

I can’t believe that he actually was shocked and offended that I wanted to end things after this big argument.

He knows you'll be back.


You do too

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Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

As I’ve stated before we are both Aries, he’s older. I never told him about the Pisces male oral sex situation. What started it was that I texted him asking for help with a assignment for school, it was for a business class and he’s a business owner. I sent a text asking nicely if he could help if he had time and wasn’t busy. I went to sleep and woke up to a a condescending, belittling response. Saying that he actually has a job and needs to make sure he had money in his pocket, that I was bothering him. I hadn’t contacted him in almost 2 weeks so I was confused on what I did wrong. My assignment consisted of 2 questions. If he would’ve politely declined I wouldn’t have been mad at all. We FaceTimed each other and I snapped on him, everything just came out. I said some cuss words, mentioned how he didn’t need to belittle me I was politely asking for help. And how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.


He snapped back harshly mentioning how he doesn’t see how he’s been disrespectful. We hollered and cussed at each other for 20 minutes. It was horrible. It was very intense, harsh things were said, threats were made from both of us. I’m glad we weren’t able to be face to face cause that would’ve made it worse. And the crazy part is at the end of it. I calmly and politely said that it’s clear we need to not be involved with one another anymore, That we don’t like each other anymore, we need to just leave each other alone. That I was done. And that made him snap even worse, it was like I said something about his mother or something. He actually got mad that I said we need to be over. After all this fighting and drama he actually was offended and enraged that I want to end it, really? Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

You don't really deserve respect because you couldn't be honest with him about Pisces person even tho you told him you would tell him, you didn't want to feel like a slut so you were looking for support to confirm that you can get away with it without having to face any consequences or feeling like you're a slut, you wanted to do what's good for you, not what's right and what you promised, you are not only dishonest, but by not telling him the truth you just fall into a slut category.

That being said he didn't know these things and this topic is a different thing. He didn't know how you felt because you always held back, and you told us you always kept your cool and only now you voiced your option loud and clear, seems like you've been puting up with all that shit without bringing up the issue and been ok with it all this time, but now that you maybe feel guility about Pisces situation you use this as means to release anger etc. Anyways you both seem 2 be pretty damaged people who need to work with themselves before they can enter fwb or a relationship/friendship status. If you can find an excuse to lie about Pisces to a partner who you had an agreement with that you wouldn't. 100% sure you would do that to real relationship partner because agreement would be the same and you wouldn't want to face consequences so you would simply do what feels better to you, lie and pretend you're a honest person even tho you're dishonest liar.

This might sound judgemental, because it is, you're saying he's disrespectful, guess what, you're from the same cloth, dishonest and disrespectful . I'd say work on yourself and have your values straight, be more authentic because for now your words hold no value. You're making him the bad guy even tho you're not better than him, maybe even worse.

Have a beautiful day

I have no problem being honest and telling him at all. It just hadn’t came up. I am a single woman and we are not in a committed relationship, if I were planning to have sex with him I would’ve definitely told him, but no I did not plan on having sex with him because I got tired of him trying to control me but not being in a committed relationship. I was only asking him help with my homework, other than that I hadn’t had contact with him bf Star I was thinking of ending things.

You say you have no problem and i believe that, but you do that when it suits you, when it's for other people, forget it. You told him you'll be honest with him and you were not, and just now by claiming you can be honest but you couldn't keep your words just proves the point, you weren't commited, but you promised you would tell him and you didn't, you just made a bunch of excuses in your head to be fine without upholding your end of the bargain, you didn't want to feel like shit for doing a shity thing. I think you should do some self reflecting, you seem like a person who would make excuses for cheating to make yourseelf feel better even tho you would be the one doing the deed.

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Posted by Genznation

Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

Posted by Raakac

Posted by Genznation

As I’ve stated before we are both Aries, he’s older. I never told him about the Pisces male oral sex situation. What started it was that I texted him asking for help with a assignment for school, it was for a business class and he’s a business owner. I sent a text asking nicely if he could help if he had time and wasn’t busy. I went to sleep and woke up to a a condescending, belittling response. Saying that he actually has a job and needs to make sure he had money in his pocket, that I was bothering him. I hadn’t contacted him in almost 2 weeks so I was confused on what I did wrong. My assignment consisted of 2 questions. If he would’ve politely declined I wouldn’t have been mad at all. We FaceTimed each other and I snapped on him, everything just came out. I said some cuss words, mentioned how he didn’t need to belittle me I was politely asking for help. And how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.


He snapped back harshly mentioning how he doesn’t see how he’s been disrespectful. We hollered and cussed at each other for 20 minutes. It was horrible. It was very intense, harsh things were said, threats were made from both of us. I’m glad we weren’t able to be face to face cause that would’ve made it worse. And the crazy part is at the end of it. I calmly and politely said that it’s clear we need to not be involved with one another anymore, That we don’t like each other anymore, we need to just leave each other alone. That I was done. And that made him snap even worse, it was like I said something about his mother or something. He actually got mad that I said we need to be over. After all this fighting and drama he actually was offended and enraged that I want to end it, really? Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

You don't really deserve respect because you couldn't be honest with him about Pisces person even tho you told him you would tell him, you didn't want to feel like a slut so you were looking for support to confirm that you can get away with it without having to face any consequences or feeling like you're a slut, you wanted to do what's good for you, not what's right and what you promised, you are not only dishonest, but by not telling him the truth you just fall into a slut category.

That being said he didn't know these things and this topic is a different thing. He didn't know how you felt because you always held back, and you told us you always kept your cool and only now you voiced your option loud and clear, seems like you've been puting up with all that shit without bringing up the issue and been ok with it all this time, but now that you maybe feel guility about Pisces situation you use this as means to release anger etc. Anyways you both seem 2 be pretty damaged people who need to work with themselves before they can enter fwb or a relationship/friendship status. If you can find an excuse to lie about Pisces to a partner who you had an agreement with that you wouldn't. 100% sure you would do that to real relationship partner because agreement would be the same and you wouldn't want to face consequences so you would simply do what feels better to you, lie and pretend you're a honest person even tho you're dishonest liar.

This might sound judgemental, because it is, you're saying he's disrespectful, guess what, you're from the same cloth, dishonest and disrespectful . I'd say work on yourself and have your values straight, be more authentic because for now your words hold no value. You're making him the bad guy even tho you're not better than him, maybe even worse.

Have a beautiful day

I have no problem being honest and telling him at all. It just hadn’t came up. I am a single woman and we are not in a committed relationship, if I were planning to have sex with him I would’ve definitely told him, but no I did not plan on having sex with him because I got tired of him trying to control me but not being in a committed relationship. I was only asking him help with my homework, other than that I hadn’t had contact with him bf Star I was thinking of ending things.

You say you have no problem and i believe that, but you do that when it suits you, when it's for other people, forget it. You told him you'll be honest with him and you were not, and just now by claiming you can be honest but you couldn't keep your words just proves the point, you weren't commited, but you promised you would tell him and you didn't, you just made a bunch of excuses in your head to be fine without upholding your end of the bargain, you didn't want to feel like shit for doing a shity thing. I think you should do some self reflecting, you seem like a person who would make excuses for cheating to make yourseelf feel better even tho you would be the one doing the deed.

We are just casual sex partners. If it’s over then why do I need to tell him? We haven’t talked in 2 weeks and the first convo we had was a big argument. I’ve never lied to him. He has no commitment to me, has always said we are nothing but fuck buddies. I’ve never cheated in any relationship I’ve been in. It’s over with us, if it wasn’t over I would tell him.

We are not talking about your fwb relationship that''s over, or commitment, it's about your honesty. You do realise you're convicing yourself by saying this right? You can't even admit you did wrong even tho you made a promise, you told you will be honest about these things, and you were not. If you would have been honest with him you would have done that the moment the deed was done, not after the relationship was done. Now you're simply making up excuses why you did what you did even tho you broke your own word by telling you would tell him and you didn't. You can make as much excuses in your head as possible to avoid feeling guility, but the facts are the facts, you said you'll be honest with him, and when you did something that would make you feel like shit and might have more consequence at that time. The fact that you can't admit you were dishonest with this guy just proves the point that you promise when it's convenient to you, not when it's something that might make you look and feel bad or simply doing uncomfy shit, beacause if you told him the truth you would also have to admit what you did to yourself making you feel more gulity....You could tell him even now, but you won't because it's over between you 2 and you have a good excuse. Also if you want to keep yourself looking better just in case you even want to have a fling again that's a smarter way to go about it.. Even if you wanted to tell the truth now, he would just confirm that you were dishonest and didn't say until the things were over and you would start another unnecessary fight, and again he would be right by saying you were dishonest even if you told him now, because now you don't feel as bad and you don't have no consequences because he's out of your life already... The only consequences you could have is him spreading a word, but it doesn't sound like you have mutual friends so it shouldn't really be a thing.

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Posted by Genznation Why would I still want to have sex with you, why would either of us want to be bothered with one another after all that? I was speechless. All his snarky remarks just made me snap eventually, trying to always have control. I don’t regret it and I’m done and I don’t think I could Never ever handle a Aries male ever again in my life. I believe he seriously doesn’t think it’s over. I thought two Aries would get along. Lesson learned overlap about everything.

Aries foreplay?


Yeah.... You're not done.


Aries M are usually charming, they don't stay mad for long and they can be immature.


The tone of your posts makes me believe you'll go back for more.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

He probably thought the "help with assignment" contact was just your way to get his attention for him to come over and have sex with you. If he cussed you out you should block him if you're really done.

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Posted by LittleStarAnd how he needs to show me respect just like I show respect him. I called him disrespectful, asshole, etc.

And before it escalated into a argument I politely asked him to not talk to me like that and that I was only asking for his help and I understand if he was too busy to help. He said something else demeaning and that’s when I snapped.

He sounds like my Aries ex husband.

I'm a Capricorn though and it is the worst match ever.

However I am Aries Rising so..


Anyway have you read anything about Aries men?

They Always HAVE to win. They are Extremely argumentative. They will fight to the death to Win.


So I feel that despite the huge, nasty argument you had, he still wants to see you because by dumping him, it means he's LOST and that's going to Hurt him!

Aries men Hate to lose!


I'm not saying that he wants you JUST because he's lost you. I'm sure he still wants you but he will also Hate to lose.

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Posted by CreativeCap

He sounds like a self serving asshole. He’s not even worth the explanation about the Pisces guy. I would block his ass and never look back

Posted by bmoon8

You clearly should limit yourself from FWB/casual sex affairs.


Just my $ .02 worth.

Posted by DMV

Just go have sex and relax.


How can THIS be what your focused on right now.


Stop being stubborn and using DXP for an ego boost.


Go do what makes you happy.


Makeup sex

Posted by tiziani

All jokes aside, most of what you’ve said about this makes him sound like the murdering type.


I usually don’t agree with “you in danger, girl” type posts around here but in this case you’re going to go back and I can’t see it ending pretty or even civil.

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Posted by Timon

Are you the same girl that posted as @Ariesgirl244?

@Ariesgirl244 Tell us about the Pisces roommate

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Posted by Genznation

Posted by bmoon8

You clearly should limit yourself from FWB/casual sex affairs.


Just my $ .02 worth.

That’s what I wanted while I date. I’ve been so busy with school and working full time that I don’t get to date as much and I be wanting sex. I do want a bf I’m taking my time dating and finding the right one

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Posted by DonnaLibra

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Posted by bmoon8

You clearly should limit yourself from FWB/casual sex affairs.


Just my $ .02 worth.

That’s what I wanted while I date. I’ve been so busy with school and working full time that I don’t get to date as much and I be wanting sex. I do want a bf I’m taking my time dating and finding the right one

What about the guy you said that is your friend that you're in love with? What happens with him?

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Posted by DonnaLibra

Oh, so you aren't in love with your friend? You just want him as a platonic relationship?