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Jul 03, 2017Comments: 2 · Posts: 330 · Topics: 90
So I just can't get away from this Aries, Dated him for a year - He moved away and lived in New York for a year.
I visited him and it ended in tears because I liked him more than he liked me. After my visit, we kept in touch.
Random messages now and then once or twice per month.
He returned home last month, we met up and went out for a few drinks, he didn't think I still like him.
I just couldn't resist him, I wanted to but I still find him attractive. We kissed at the end of that evening.
The next day he messaged him saying he didn't regret it but he thinks it's a bad idea to start something again as he's moving away again in a month.
I agreed with him but this time I didn't want to beat around the bush. I told him I still fancy him and I know It's not going anywhere as he's moving away so I don't expect a relationship!
He still thinks we want different things - a week went by and he messaged me on NYE night. I was out drunk with my friends and somehow - I suggested we should have goodbye sex and now I'm seeing in few days for that.
Am I being a fool here? either way I'm not going to be with him but I still want him so I might as well have closure sex?
I guess I just want him to think of me more than that but may be he already think of me more than that but he's moving again so he can't do anything anyway?
Should I cancel it? but I want to see him event thought I'm not going to see him again for awhile ..
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May 14, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 798 · Topics: 55
I think you should have sex with him because it sounds like you want to. I don’t know if will make it better or worse... I don’t think you should do it if you’re doing it to try and make it better or if you’re trying to change the way he thinks about you.. trying to change how he views you is a waste of time. You call it closure sex but then you also say “not going to see him for a while”... if you have the sex then I would just go into it assuming you won’t see him ever again. As I think you need to move on and find someone else, and you’ll just waste more time thinking you’ll see him again.
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Oct 11, 2017Comments: 3 · Posts: 3193 · Topics: 7
Since he's moving and you probably won't see him again does it really matter?