Men who appear busy

This topic was created in the Aries forum by ariespiscesgirl on Thursday, October 3, 2013 and has 14 replies.
Fellow Aries vixen's do you get attracted to men who appear busy and unavailable? I'm dating this virgo male who was all over me last week, after our date he cooled it for a bit. I took it as he is not interested, and addressed it with him. He told me he was just really busy with work, I felt like an idiot. lol Only because last week he was texting me non-stop telling me how lucky he is to be speaking to such a stunning girl etc. Now he's cooling it and is soo "busy" with work and I'm more attracted to him then ever. It's driving me mad. This always happen's to me.
Any other aries gals like this? Any other aries chicks experiences with virgo males?
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I'm pretty chill about men. I'm so chill, I used to get yelled at and rightfully so. Fell asleep before a date. He was at the door ringing the bell and then he called my cell. I tried so hard to play it off. But he was like, "you fell asleep?" I was dressed and ready to go 'though.
Don't sweat. A man goes after what he wants and you will not need to ask.
Now, if going "mad" makes you feel good, do it...soak in it, stew. It's all up to you.
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You should feel like an idiot for believing that "busy" excuse is legit.
"Busy" is usually universal guy code for "I don't want to make time for you." Something about you on that date made him want to back off. Your women's intuition is right. His words are not.
You're just attracted because he's now become "unavailable" and you want something you can't have. That's not an Aries thing. That's a being human thing.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
You should feel like an idiot for believing that "busy" excuse is legit.
"Busy" is usually universal guy code for "I don't want to make time for you." Something about you on that date made him want to back off. Your women's intuition is right. His words are not.
You're just attracted because he's now become "unavailable" and you want something you can't have. That's not an Aries thing. That's a being human thing.


+1 she's right... See if his actions prove otherwise. But I'd become busy myself, always let the guy chase. Learnt this the hard way by buying into a guys lies lately.
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tizi will never ever stop with this. I have concluded as much in our initial interaction.
We all have exes of particular zodiac signs but, do we do this? And we all know what it means when someone goes on and on about that particular zodiac sign after a break up.
I think it's a good idea to subscript his comments about Aries with pointing out his ex - each and every time. It my help him.
What amazes me is how in incessant he is. Our board is pretty dead. We are a sign of action and I know we are all out and about most of the time. So, he has to be lurking really hard. It's kinda creepy if you think about it. I try not to let it creep me out too much.
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So much for Aries naivet?. No matter how "balanced" you try to make it all seem...
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It's apparent that we don't find his comments true or funny. Please feel free to take him and his antics with you to the Aquarius boards where he can act like a friend-enemy with you guys.
But, I'm sure all zodiac sign boards have friend-enemies, people who have broken up with that sign for whatever reason and decide to spread hate and discontent via the internet like losers. I just wonder how many of those people are men? Excuse me, male?
Tizi is duplicitous like most friend-enemies (and I'm being very generous calling him that). They mix insults with compliments but the compliments sound like insults and the insults sometimes sound like compliments and it all intentional to disguise ill intent.
As far as the "truth" of his statement about Aries wanting what they can't have... please. Aries like a chase and likes a challenge. Now, you can bend or twist the fact that Aries need for a challenge or liking the chase and make them appear covetous with the duplicitous statement "Aries wanting what they can't have." Aries are go-getters, the pioneers of the zodiac, we often blaze the trail to go after what no one ever thought humanity could have.
However, strictly in the context of the Original Post, this Aries is sharing her love of the chase. How you can draw the conclusion that she wants the man because she can't have him is an absurd exaggeration of a hater. She did not say the man was married for crying out loud. He is simply working alot.
Aries likes to be number one, yes. But wanting what we
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Posted by tiziani
That's very corny of you. So you're offended at the notion that Aries want what they can't have. My experience is different to yours.
You're the one who openly suggested to everyone that they follow me around and mention my ex-girlfriend whenever they see me. Live with that.


No, no one needs to follow you around. You do it right here and so very often. No, I am offended at your duplicity and incessant behavior.
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No, what you do on the Aries board is corny and creepy. We already talked about you and your Aries ex plus, your post on that Aries hate thread was enough. Don't you think? Since you think you're being slick in not mentioning your Aries ex. That would be just too damned obvious for a friend-enemy. Talking in more detail about the relationship, would be a benefit to you, not me. It is you that is need of healing.
What you need to do is stop mixing your tears with your cum... that's just plain sad.
Using the Aries board to masturbate on a failed relationship.
You ain't got to believe shit I say.
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If you want to talk about your relationship with the Aries, I charge $ 100.00 an hour. I'll PM you the paypal account to which you can make your deposit.
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lolz, that dude is a piece of work.
Go the fuck outside. Your post count is depressing as shit, considering the short amount of time that you've been here.
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I leave this post and drama has occurred...shocker!!!
dxpnet is the place for drama, not advice ......i've learned. Haha and comedy as well.
Aries do want what they DO NOT HAVE not can't we aries can get anything we want.
Turned out the " busy guy" was legit busy. We had a second date and a third this weekend because he's so busy with his career during the week.
He's a virgo so he detaches himself from time to time. Which is perfectly okay. smile Most men need there space. So does this aries.
* leaves post*
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Posted by cunninglinguist

Anyway, myself, I'm actually less attracted to "busy/unavailable" guys. Why would I make them a priority if they don't make me theirs? Actually I usually tend to simply forget about them. Lol


This.
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Posted by RomancingA
Posted by tiziani
Aries in wanting what they can't have shocker.


Why do you come around at all on the Aries forum?
Your ex was an aries, you have insults for aries regardless of topic....

Its weird....what's your deal?
Libra forum lacks the ammunition for insults your saving?
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Tiz is harmless.
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